no desire for sex?

Question

I am going to be 50 years old in december. I have no desire for sex. When i get the urge i usally just let it go. I find women very attractive, especially a nice small set of breast. However i do not have a woman in my life. No i am not gay! It is i just dont have the normal urge. When i do date, The ladies i meet want to do it (Intercourse) alot. And that is just not me. Heck the last time i was in bed i couldn't get it up. She was fairly attractive and wasn't turned on i guess, even after going down on her for 3 hours.; So whats wrong with me.? I am getting so depressed that i am thinking of worse. If all you have is a stupid comment then do not reply because i will report you. I need answers, and i can not afford a doctor.. I do try to eat well and exercise but it is not always possible because i am a driver. average weight and normal size. also you can check out my profile and message me.

Answer 1

Okay Paul,
I know you said that you can't afford a doctor...but impotence can be a symptom of a more serious problem. Diebetes, Hypertension, clogged arteries...etc...you could be suffering from one or all of these...and you may not be able to afford NOT to see a doctor!
Viagra could also solve your problem...but you can't take it if you have a serious condition.
Set some money aside..save up
Please see a doctor....get a physical!

Answer 2

Weather young or old the minds ability to satisfy its own needs is decided by many factors. Now this could all be a health problem or it could be more of an..... individual ego complex, not a problem, as much as how you have set your own mind up. Realize sex is a need, like eating, sleeping, drinking water, belonging, etc. Ether way we can put wants in the way of needs, its amazing really. People have died just for gold! For their own ideaology. Ether way I say this because of two reasons. One you've havn't so much lost your sex drive as it might have matured. You might have finally made it to that point in your life were its going to take a friend attacted to those brest to really get you going. Trust me I'm 25 its better that way anyways, I don't have to worry about the sex drive, it happens naturally as a part of our relationship, plus it she drives me more nuts then those that I can't have that way. Or two that you've found another avenue to satisfy your social ego (which would be a big reason most people even have sex!) by well yourself. Not talking about materbation ether, just that you've became sort of a good friend to yourself, your contempt. Your in a way at peace, sex like all needs, "needs" you to be off-balance. When were hunger or blood sugar is low, thristy or water level is low, we need sex, because phyisology, stimula, is forcing us to. So you might of just found yourself a balance that keeps you from wanting the need of sex. Our minds really are that flexible. It isn't hard for an artist to feel satisfied in all fasientes, and strave every need he has tell he almost dies, its been done. So if it isn't health related could just be one of those two things....