i know for sure next year like 99% i wont have a bf or noone will ask me out but i have crush on this guy we use to talk in grade 9, he was in my gym class but we dont talk any more and i try to talk to him but i dont know if he still wants to talk to me i feel as though are friendship is over cuz he has new friends and it's like well we dont talk any more but he's still on my mind and i wanna be friends forever... i know him as my friend for sure or at least i want him to continue being but i dont know how he feels about me.... if i dont get asked to the prom next year or even have a bf, do you think it will be a right move to ask him to prom? and if he says no.... i know deep inside i'll be crushed and it might even show on my face but... i dont know... there's just something special in him that i always liked but i dont know if it's still there and he's the one i like... and he's the one i would wanna spend my special night with... what do u think? am i being stupid?
2007-06-21 11:58:45 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
can I tell him, " Noone asked me to the prom so I'm wondering if you want to come with me?"
2007-06-21 12:11:13 · update #1
Shucks no, it's not at all weird for a girl to ask a guy to the prom. I strongly urge you to take the risk and ask him.
2007-06-21 12:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be weird if you asked him out of the blue. He would think " why is she asking me to the prom we haven't talked for ages" You need to start talking to him at least a month before the prom. Sooner the better. Don't be scared, you don't wanna look back and regret not doing anything... at least if you tried you can look back and know you tried instead of thinking "what if."
2007-06-21 12:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by moose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't weird to ask a guy to prom! Try not to get so down on yourself. I'm sure you are a great person. Try to relax a bit and not think so far into the future. If it's meant to be it is. Good Luck!
2007-06-21 12:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way! you're not being "stupid". But one thing i know is that girls really dont ask guys out. Its guys who do that. And one more thing, I dont know how you look but I know that you're just as pretty as any other girl. Im sure that by the prom, a guy is sure to ask you. Even though if it isn't the one you want.
2007-06-21 12:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by Stallion S. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you like him and your afraid that you wont have a date for the prom just tak a risk and ask...i have a bf, and i know what your going through. i wanted to go to a movie with him, and my brother showed me how to ask..i know thats kind of weird that my brother showed me, but hes kind of just like a big sister...well only by giving me that advice. lol and i dont think its weird to ask a guy. the worst thing that can happen is him saying no
2007-06-21 12:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by Bewitchedgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont stress it so much. Try talking to him again. See how that goes and how you feel about him. Then ask him because theres nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out.
2007-06-21 12:03:28 · answer #6 · answered by l0vemel0ts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not being stupid at all, I asked a guy for prom..the one that i had a crush on...and he said yes...plus, he became my bf..
I say u should give it a try...if hez the one that u really want..go for him!!
Good Luck!>:D<
2007-06-21 12:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by Shelby_ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u realy like him then go for it its not gonna hurt anything and if he was ur real friend even if he said no then he would still be afterwards but seriously go 4 it!! and maybe if u asked then it would even start a relationship up again so try and ask!
u have nothing to lose!
2007-06-21 12:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to sit home on the night of your prom and you'll regret it if you don't ask him (if you like him that much). I asked the guy each year I went to prom (jr & sr). Don't sit home on your prom night :)
2007-06-21 12:02:54 · answer #9 · answered by sled2u 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. If he says no, treat it as no big deal, or pretend that you were kidding. That way, your friendship won't be weird. HS is not the place to pour out your heart.
2007-06-21 12:02:32 · answer #10 · answered by eshuri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋