Well this guy asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him I didn't want a boyfriend right now. My friend told me she saw him looking depressed by his locker with his head resting on his arm from the time she left for lunch and back. I also saw him sulking in the hallway. She asked him what was wrong and he said he was upset about me rejecting him. The weird thing is I NEVER met this guy before. I remember seeing him a few times in the cafeteria, but Iv'e never spoken to him. I don't get it. If he barely knows me then why is he getting so upset?
2007-06-21 06:48:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like he has "issues." You probably made the right choice! But give him some time. The fact that he was by his locker indicates to me that you are still in school, so he is probably just young and unaccustomed to rejection. He'll get over it, and be a better person for it. Move on!
2007-06-21 06:52:50 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he liked you alot an thought you did to and when he went to ask you out you rejected him and that made him feel dumb for one and two he was rejected. nobody likes to get rejected and when they do it hurts wouldn't you feel sad to if you got rejected? i am sure you would even though you didn't know the person just the whole fact of you being rejected. so if you want to make things right if you Care at all why don't you say sorry to him and tell him maybe that you guys can be friends but nothing more.
2007-06-21 13:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by Adina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thought u may never have met him b4
but he might have noticed u for a long time
he seems to like u alot
but was juz to afraid to talk to u
and after such a long time
he finally had the courage to talk to u and ask u out
but got rejected
trust me
if u like someone but nvr had the courage to ask that person
and get rejected when u finally talk to that person
it really hurts
2007-06-21 14:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by x040493t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes Upset because he really likes you and probaly knows alot about you from like friends and stuff you just might not have noticed him he'll get over it soon they always do hes a guy right.
2007-06-21 13:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by britt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's so upset because he put you on a pedestal. He convinced himself you are the one. He steeled his nerves and asked you to be his girlfriend. He put all his eggs in your basket. You broke all his eggs.
2007-06-21 13:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll get over it. Just tell him u don't know him well enough to date him. Then if u want talk to him somemore, just be his friend. Who know's you may end up liking him.
2007-06-21 13:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by kbmisfit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his fault maybe he should have tried talking to you before asking you out a little strange if you ask me
2007-06-21 13:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by dwnz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must really really REALLY like you. He was probably waiting for the right time to ask you and when you finally had the courage to, you said no...............
2007-06-21 13:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by no name no name 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋