Ok so I started messing around with this girl about two months ago. Everything was good at first we talked and saw eachother everyday. Finally we had sex after that our "relationship" went down hill she started to become very mean to me. I would brush it off and not respond but one day she just really pissed me off and I told her I didnt want to be around her she responded how many days I said I will call you when I'm ready so the next day she didnt call me and wake me up like she would normally do so I called her she said hi how are you I responded fine and I saw her that same day. Everything seemed to be fine until the next day she didnt answer or call me yesterday was my birthday and she didnt even call to say happy birthday. i called her and she texted me Stop I responded what do u mean whats wrong with you and she said just let it go Im not in the mood for your sh!t dont keep calling me I responded I dont understand but ok. what should I do? I really care for her
2007-06-21 06:23:37 · 19 answers · asked by EAZY 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well... all i can say is that if u care about her, then talke to her ONCE IN A WHILE, but not all the time, and if she cared about u then she wouldn't of done wat she did.
2007-06-21 06:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by Snuggle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, 1 thing is give her some time to get her thoughts straight..give her a few days for herself..after may be 3 days-1 week say i'm sorryi really want a realationship with you and i care about you a lot and other stuff..tell her exactly how you feel about her..then may be buy her choclate or flowers to soften her up...but just go with the flow..and may be having sex was not a smart idea but if you guys wanted to..ok..just let her know u luv her <33
2007-06-21 06:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by Christina <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounded like you both went into this relationship at full speed. After sex, she hit the breaks and you kept moving full speed ahead. She isn't that interested in you anymore. From what you have said, she was trying for a while to end the relationship by having you break up with her. When a woman is mean to someone it is because they want the relationship to end but don't want to be the person to end the relationship.
2007-06-21 06:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by Frances D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its just drama girl. Yall are good at that. apparently you are not special enough to her to recieve a call or anything on your birthday. Dont waste your time. It is going to keep going on like this until either one of you decide to just call it quits. Do it now while it is still early in the relationship before you get in too deep..
2007-06-21 06:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by williep197502 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I might be going on a limb here.
1. I think when she says let it go, she means let go of the relationship its over, done, final, period!!! Read number 2.
2. When she says quit calling me, I think she means why the hell do you keep calling me, let it go, its final, leave me alone. Go back and read number 1.
Follow this loop about 1000 times and hopefully you will understand. If this doesnt work a nice police officer will show up with a paper that says restraining order on top of it. Maybe that will get your attention.
2007-06-21 06:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by financing_loans 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry that this happened to you.... she's not willing to talk to you and it takes two to make anything work. Even if you do EVERYTHING and even the work for her to make it work... she still needs to do something, at least act decent.
If she's not willing to be a partner willing to work on the relationship, I say it's better to find out now than when something serious happens.....
Happy birthday by the way!
2007-06-21 06:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by Serena 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should move on. I know it hurts, but this girl is not interested in you. Stop trying to contact her. Keep yourself busy. Hang out with your friends. Have some fun. And wait. You'll get over her, and then you'll be ready to find someone new who IS interested. Good luck!
2007-06-21 06:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
those r no longer mixed signals... a guy acts like a do uche at the same time as hes round his associates believe me...all cool and laid decrease again... yet so a thoughts as ur tale is going... he likes u and would favor to understand if ur unmarried so he can ask u out at the same time as he receives the probability... so in basic terms wait n c what takes position next
2016-10-18 23:37:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please learn how to type a proper sentence...please!!!!!!! Now, it sounds like she got laid and that's all she wanted. If she said, "Let it go, stop calling me", don't you think that is a hint to get over her and go out with someone else? Just move on. Stop being such a drama queen.
2007-06-21 06:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by son_of_glen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just don't call her back maybe she was just vulnerable at the time just give her the time she needs.
2007-06-21 06:31:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't call anymore... people come and go and who's to say she wont call you tomorrow asking you if everything is ok... just spare yourself the drama and don't worry about it too much....
2007-06-21 06:28:33 · answer #11 · answered by Jamester 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋