Hi! I want to do something special to turn my hisband on. I want to make him real hot if you know what i mean!?! What can I do to innitiate and turn him on? Tie him up, dress sexy?!?! Come on - be creative!
2007-06-21 01:16:56 · 25 answers · asked by girlygirl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well... this sounds like fun here....
Dress up in a very short black skirt, fishnet thigh highs with a garter belt, corset type top, put on a cute collar, high heels, and kitty ears. Have him pour you milk into a bowl and then lap it up with your tongue while he fondles you and maybe even spanks you. This way, you will be his own lil pet and he is left in control. That should get him hot and bothered.
Oh, and remember to crawl around on all fours and purr for him. Rub your body against him like a kitty.... Yes, that will do the trick.
2007-06-21 01:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by pixie_stix_79 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
we women get turned on by making love emotionally to our men throughout the day with little comments, hints and expressions of affection.
i would start out by hinting that morning that i want him - bad. throughout the day, throw hints at him...if you talk to him on the phone, let him know how sexy he is to you and how desperately you want to make love to him - the serious phone flirt stuff. like if he asks you what are you doing and you're at home, start it off by telling him you just got out the shower and dont have any clothes on, or if you're at work and you talk to each other, you could say something like, you're thinking about the last time you all made love and how good it was...have fun! if he packs a lunch, put a sexy note in his lunch as a surprise! ask him what turns him on, and get prepared to have it for him. he will nearly break his neck getting home to you!
if you have kids, get a babysitter or something. if not, cool. meet him at the door in a negligee or be waiting for him in nothing at all. have a bubble bath waiting for two. you wash him up!
take it from there... spontinuity & imagination can be a great thing!
2007-06-21 08:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by D.... 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to turn him on, start as soon as he gets home.
Fix yourself up before you see him, be very flirty with him.
You know how to flirt, right?
Treat him like a new boyfriend, sexy smile when you talk to him, laugh at his stupid jokes, things like that.
Try sitting in his lap and playing with his hair, do a lot of touching, sexual and non-sexual.
Make sexual remarks things like that.
If you want or are able make him a good dinner and have the house clean and smelling good when gets home, he'll relax and be much more ready to spend time with you.
By the time you get to bed an outfit won't be neccesary.
And, if this doesn't work he needs to see a doctor.
2007-06-21 08:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by ahhgodzirra 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You really have to be creative if you start like this.
Looking hot and in the sexiest way, tell him you want to turn him on. Tell him what you want to do with him and say, because you know he would be the best at it. Compliment him first and say "you are so gorgeous and your turning me on". Tell him how excellent he is in bed and you can't run to anyone else to satisfy you now, it's gotta be him. Act like you can't take wait too long, grab his shirt and suck his mouth, smother his face with yours and grab his _____, acting like this is difficult, like you need him and you don't know what to do. Tell him you love him!
I'm not kidding! If that doesn't turn on a man, then there's something wrong with him. They love when you make them feel like their the best and they could conquer the world in bed Get my point.
Just be honest with your husband. Tell him everything you feel. You are going to have a great time. Good Luck
2007-06-21 08:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion would be to do some role playing u know dress up make it fun and sexy. U could do hot scenes from ur favortie movie or something like that. It all depends on who u are and what u like. Def tease him and play before u get right to it that will def hold him out, he'll probably want u so bad that ur'll know u did ur job. Good luck girl and give it to him honey!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-21 08:22:59 · answer #5 · answered by Christina 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1. Get a high cut dress with that band on ur leg. Flash it a couple of times
2. Get edible undies
3. Turn on some salsa
4. Play dress up. Be a French maid... we love french maid
2007-06-21 08:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by oralb80 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just behave, talk and appear in front of him by which he should feel that you are something special to him. There should not be any "Nos" in love making. What he like, just go for it without hesitation. Definetly he wil become more hot as you wish.
2007-06-21 08:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by Surettan S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dress sexy. Walk past him ,picking things up. When he reaches - step away. Tease for a little while. Then you undress him. Don't let him help. Lap dance with sexy clothes on, then with them off.
2007-06-21 08:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
i got my nipples pireced. Then i sent him a pic of them on his phone. You should of seen how quick he came home and the sex was great. The next year i got my clit done and oh yes it got better. So there you go see if that would turn him on. I think it would for most men.
2007-06-21 08:25:18 · answer #9 · answered by Jinxy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just put on a robe and sit on the couch adjacent of him.
Then quietly and slowly let your fingers do the walking (if you get my drift) He'll come crawling over in no time for a snack.
Works for me every time, no matter how not in the mood I am.
2007-06-21 08:21:35 · answer #10 · answered by -R 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋