can you help me?

Question

how can i find out if my wife is cheating on me

Answer 1

Have someone follow her that she doesnt know. Or set up a guy to make the moves on her, someone who she would be attracted too.

Answer 2

If she becomes less interested in sex, if she gets really edgy when you ask who just text, when she says the cliched line "dont you trust me" and if she says she has important extracurricular work trips (especially if its a job that doesnt have business meetings). If she is meeting a friend she doesnt usually go out with that often. Maybe shes started dressing more sexily and suddenly is acting like a different person. Here were some tell tale signs. The worst is to accuse her because she may not be deceiving you. But only you and her will be able to talk about it and she will look you in the eye and swear she isnt hopefully.

Answer 3

If you have sincere reasons to belive that it is happening then it might be. but if you are just being paranoid don't ruin a relationship over suspicion. Ask her. Talk to her. Fix the problem that is leading to the suspicion. Sometimes opening a dialogue will nip it in the bud before it becomes a reality. So make some time for intimate conversation and address the issues at the heart of the matter. Then take it from there.

Answer 4

just a word of warning if you are wrong and you accuse her she will never forgive you so if you don't have the evidence to back up your suspicions then don't be an accuser . it will cost you her respect and her loyalty , enough said , drop in on her unannounced and call her when you don't know were she is.
Tell her about your friend at work who just found out his wife is cheating and is going to throw her out in the street .
Drop hints some times that you love her and would be crushed if she was like your friends wife .

Answer 5

you can normally tell by her reaction and attitude to things, how she changes simplest things like her mobile phone with her at all times, either too all over you (guilty feeling), or less touchy feeling (over you), lies about her whereabouts, walks out when there's a phone call or a text message, all for a sudden seems to have all these friends to see and all these people to attend to etc.

Any way is it worth working on if you don't trust her, by asking this question is already obvious that you don't trust her or if your prepared fit a camera into the house (they ain't that expensive), stalk her or even hire a private detective..

Good luck i hope its down to your paranoia that's when you know its a massive sign TO GET HELP! if not then am soo sorry and wish you all the best..

Answer 6

Firstly think what you will do if she is, and you get proof. If you'll stay anyway just try and stop thinking about it.
Secondly decide what you would accept as proof. I found a bra that wasnt mine in my house and blonde hairs in a big patch on my carpet but still refused to accept it.
Then you'll have to do some snooping. Dont get caught as if she is innocent you'll ruin it anyway! Dont forget it's nearly impossible to prove you are NOT doing something and very easy for the things you do to seem to reflect what you arent.

Answer 7

hire a private investigator. Don't make a big scene on shows like Cheaters, or Jerry Springer. Get info. form a reliable source. Good luck!, best wishes

Answer 8

if its so bad that you need to investigate it, then there is no point, if you check her cell phone and dont find anything are you going to be satisfied? no your going to check here credit card statements, will you stop there if you dont find anything? no your still gonna ask her friends, if its still a no are you gonna stop looking?, ofcorse not, if it is to that point you might as well leave cause your marriage is doomed, its almost a cliche but relationships are bassed on trust and if you dont have the trust you have nothing

Answer 9

Ask a woman to help you find out. They are good at that stuff, snooping around in dirt and gossip all the time. They dig and their shrewdness have no limits.

Answer 10

She acts very different unlike before, not on her mind, nervous, saying "i love you" all the time, hugging you many times. Go home late unlike before. If you are thinking of spying with her, then do that - JUST TO BE SURE! Just observe her behaviour, etc. Hoping shes not cheating on you! Try to get her underwear - smell it! Good luck bud!