I love my husband very much but I am never in the mood for sex, do you have any ideas on what I can do to remedy this problem? Also, this is WAY out of character for me!
2007-06-21 13:55:30 · 12 answers · asked by Sexy Mama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just so you know, my husband is very good, at least 2 orgasms each time we have sex. I just can't get myself in the mood.
2007-06-21 14:02:59 · update #1
try something new? take away the goal of having sex and try something new in the bedroom-if it goes good then it'll end in sex if not then keep trying...strip for him, play a game (lots of fun games out there), get a hotel room with a hot tub for the night, paint eachother's bodies, dance naked in your kitchen while feeding eachother breakfast, shower together, dry hump and make out - act like you did before you started having sex, get a book of positions and look at them until you see one you just gotta try, watch a porno together, have him read up on new techniques for oral to women, have some fun and try something totally out of character for either of you! everyone goes through this sometimes and if you're creative and open then there's always a way back to the sexual bliss your relationship was before...good luck!
ps the quickest way to fix these things is to communicate and work together on it
2007-06-21 14:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAybe you need to get a Dr.'s appointment and see if it's just you or if there's something wrong with you. Also there are pills like Viagra for women but if you take them give some to your husband because you and him might burn up the sheets as long and as good as it will be for you both. Also try having him read to you a sexy story or watch some films. But it's probably better to go to the doc.
2007-06-21 14:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you feel when you first looked at him or the first kiss how about when the two of you made love for the very first time.When you are with him in bed pretend this is the first time again.Remember that body rush you got when he kisses you the first time and the rush you had during sex.Memories will do the trick if you really put your heart into it.It works for me and i have been married 27 years. I think back on how i felt when we made love in the very beginning of our relationship.He was so dam sexy back then and that is how i see him now when we make love .
2007-06-21 14:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try to spice things up a bit! dont be so affraid to pull out a sexy dress or maybe watch some adulf videos. There is nothing wrong with trying new things that may make u feel sexy... which may get u in the mood!
2007-06-21 14:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by Isrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be a smart @$$ here but you say you are never in the mood for sex. I thought that your screenname was odd for someone who says their sex drive is dead0 (sexy mama). I too the liberty to look at your questions and answers to learn more about your interests and such and noticed you seem to freely answer questions about vibrators,raising kids and sexual positions.I find it strange that you are never in the mood to have sex with your husband but find time for your collection of toys.If he makes you orgasm twice a session and you still preffer a vibrator then you need to seek counseling.Most married women with a young child do not find time to orgasm twice. It sounds like your lack of wanting sex might actually have something to do with your partner.
2007-06-21 14:17:10 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Bling 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should see a Dr. about that problem sometime there are some illnesses that make you lose appetite for sex and you don't feel any other symptoms, like diabetes for example but it doesn't happen in all cases...
2007-06-21 14:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs.Cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither am I ! Wow is there something in the air or what! It makes me sick! My husband left the other night because I said NO! I just couldn't do it... Maybe a doctor? Maybe spicing things up? A date with him?
2007-06-21 14:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find your fix that gets you in the mood....simple enough.
2007-06-21 14:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by youdontneedtoknowme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant fix it alone. You HAVE to talk to him about it. maybe he stinks or maybe he doesnt touch you enough or you have gotten too bored with how "it" is done but you must go to him and go soon before he goes elsewhere.
2007-06-21 14:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by Bryce R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get dick enlargement surgery. sounds like he is lame in bed. if he was a fiery tornado in bed he will be the one fighting you off all the time. this is how my relationship is. i have to pretend to be sick so my woman does not bug me for sex. she is addicted
2007-06-21 13:59:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋