Family & Relationships - 21 June 2007

im just nervis she has new other friends.should i invite them .if so im only aloud to invite 4 people because its a small sleepover.im going to invite my other friend my best friend and one more friend i have one more gap so should i invite one of her friends or not?

2007-06-21 17:56:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay, so my fiancee and I, have been dating 4 years. We are in college, have all our financial troubles out of the way, and we were going to get married in December of this year.... we also had thrown the idea of a spring wedding as well. I am wondering if people like winter or spring weddings better. And if you have any cute ideas for winter weddings, that would be awesome, because it's so easy to find summer wedding stuff, but harder for winter wedding stuff. Thanks so much guys!

2007-06-21 17:56:21 · 13 answers · asked by Ashley_Nicole 3 in Weddings

2007-06-21 17:54:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

would you trust someone to pierce your tongue for $20 with the ring included? is that too cheap and suspicious?

2007-06-21 17:54:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yes or No

Has he disappointed you in any way?

Has he helped you in any way?

What about the prospect of heaven? What do you think?

Would you like to spend eternity in a place filled with love

Would you want to love others unconditionally and be loved unconditionally?

Would you want to spend the rest of your lives in heaven with your spouse, children, friends, mom, dad, sister, brother, grandma, grandpa, etc etc in heaven?

2007-06-21 17:52:00 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

right?

2007-06-21 17:51:14 · 23 answers · asked by Liberal City 6 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that any man that gets a mail order bride is automatically judged as a loser? I understand that it is wrong to abuse a woman and to mistreat her, but what about the men who put women on a pedastal and treat her right.

There are men who need mail order brides because there is a shortage of available women in America. Think about how many single men that are out there that are good people and have quality personalities that have trouble finding women because they may not meet the standards that women in America hold.

I just can not get a girl no matter how hard I try. I have been going out to bars and clubs at least 4 times a week for about 10 years hoping to hook up with someone and I have not been able to get anything, no one night stands, anything. I just can't attract girls and I have used up every trick and nothing works. Every single woman in America refuses to date me and my face is the ugliest face in the world. It's hopeless.

2007-06-21 17:49:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-21 17:49:14 · 11 answers · asked by eclare 2 in Marriage & Divorce

sometimes wonder if I did not go to work that day ,how my life may be diffrent.

2007-06-21 17:48:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I are turning 20 at the end of this year, and we have been in a five-year relationship, and three of those years are long distance. I see him every 3-5 month, and I am to the point where I don't know if i can miss him any more than I already do. My parents will not agree if I decide to move to his city, while his parents will support us no matter what we decide. My boyfriend insists that we wait because he believes in us.

I really want to know what the majority of the people think of this situation : if I should move to my boyfriend and attend college at the city.
thanks!

2007-06-21 17:43:48 · 14 answers · asked by BlueGirl007 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, I have never met my father's family because he went around town telling everyone that my brother and I were bastards; he has also denied me being his daughter and forced my mother to go to court. My mother's family... I just hate them. They verbally abused me calling me fat and ugly, etc. My cousins completely ignored me and when I was living with my aunt, my cousin's friend had this huge sweet 16 and everyone in my family was invited, besides me. They apparently thought that it was funny. Since then, I have stopped talking to my cousins... and I am grateful for that because my life is somewhat better. My mother and I moved to California and my life is almost perfect because my family is on the other side of the country and I never talk to them. Now I just need to get away from my mother who always yells at me and who has BURNED me on the forehead and I now have this huge scar... and she wouldn't take me to hospital when my skin was sliding off my face.

2007-06-21 17:42:46 · 7 answers · asked by creep show 1 in Family

I first met her on a blind date set up with internet personals, and we've been going on dates together the past few weekends. So far it's just been going out doing things with a little bit of making out thrown in there, but she's basically said that we might sleep together next time. Honestly, neither one of us is that into the other, it's just boredom and hormones really. And anyway, she's moving to a different country in a month so nothing could happen anyway. And I definitely find her attractive, and also, I feel kind of self-conscious about being a virgin even though I'm 23, and I like her alright and it would be fun, so why not?

ON THE OTHER HAND, there's this other girl I think I might really like in this class I'm taking and I'm pretty sure she likes me as well, but we're both shy, and I haven't really had an opportunity to ask her out yet... should I hold out for losing my virginity to her, even though it's not a sure thing, or sleep with the girl I've been dating?

2007-06-21 17:42:00 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay first off I am 18 years old ... female... and my parents are divorced....... I REALLY NEED SOME HELP.I am a good kid... I have been working scene I was 15... okay this is kind of long.... and I am going to try my best to explain everything
my parents have money... ALOT, but i dunno if they worked for it or they were given it by my grandparents ....
my mom and dad DO NOT GET ALONG.. they both bad mouth each other to me, but every time i mess up they gang up on me... my father was told me things like " my mother is obessed with money and big d****" and my mother will tell my that my father is crazy and needs help!!! my dad lives in a gated community... has a new family.. n ever now and then he wants to talk to me.. i have an older brother who went to private school.. star football player...he is my family's pride n joy!! but then he got caught sellin drugs n is in jail.. buy my dad said he is more of a man then he will ever be because he is sitting in jail for his friend

2007-06-21 17:41:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I don't know the details of sex, but I know how it works. lol. But I wanted to know: How do you avoid getting pregnant? Is there an exact time when you can unprotected, or is there no garuntee? Yeah I just need to know this and additional detail/warning if you can. Thanks!

2007-06-21 17:41:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-21 17:40:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you find is the hardest part about your relationship? How far is it? How long have you been together? How did you meet? Have you ever met in person? How do you cope with the pain and struggles?

I met my boy's friend on neopets :P from there his friend gave him my email address and we started talking :)
He lives in Ontario, I live in Colorado. We've been together 10 months now. I just returned 3 weeks ago from our first in person meeting. And now he's coming here for all of July.
What I find hardest is just not being able to spend real time with him. He hates sitting infront of a computer all the time so he goes out a lot so we don't get to spend a lot of time together. And not being able to touch him. It tears at my heart. I want to be able to give my boy a hug every now and then, you know?
We cope by using webcam! We can't call each other (too expensive) so we video call a lot! It's good cuz we can see each other every day!

Please share your stories!!!

2007-06-21 17:39:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 months and recently he came to me and said i am falling in love with you, he then clarified that there was a different between i love you and i'm falling in love with you. I asked him to explain further altho this was through email bc i was too shocked by the intial word of love and he has not emailed me back his thoughts about the difference between "i love you" and "i'm falling in love with you" what are ur thoughts of the two? different or the same?

2007-06-21 17:37:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know I need to move on, I know I can do better. I dont understand why Im acting like this. We were together for 4 years, he was a selfish jerk through all of it and I was still there for him. I still cant explain why I cared so much about him..he didnt deserve it. I dont know what to do and my brain is playing games with me. Seriously...I dont think about him at all for awhile and then I have a sudden urge to know whats going on with him. Hes not worth the time, so why do I keep doing this to myself?? Its been a little over a year now and what really pisses me off is that it wasnt quite this bad after we broke up!! I have always thought that my heart is just disappointed because I put everything I had and then some into our relationship, and Im not emotionally content. I have been having the same dreams about him being a caring, loving and thoughful person....even though it was not like that at all. I was in denial for a long time. Ive tried moving on but I compare new to old

2007-06-21 17:35:24 · 9 answers · asked by Miss C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Seroiusly..everytime I get to my boyfriends house..he's on it!

wat the heck..really now..

=(

2007-06-21 17:35:00 · 10 answers · asked by mila 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-21 17:34:52 · 12 answers · asked by metalwife 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i am in my early-mid 20s and live at home and work f/t. i am attempting to shed the 30 pounds i gained while in college with a sensible diet and exercise. i have lost about 15 already and have some more to go. generally, i am pretty good on the diet but when i do cheat, and my mom sees me, she launches into a lecture/tirade about how if i want to reach my goals i shouldnt sabotage myself. it is not supportive and helpful at all. it is mean and judgemental and makes me feel bad and want to eat more. she yells at me like im a child if she sees me eat something "bad" or makes suggestions about what choices i should make at dinner. i find it completely overbearing and obnoxious, esp. considering i am in my 20s and am generally pretty good about my eating. me, my therapist, and my father all tell her to be quiet because it's obnoxous and counter-productive but i still hear a lecture at least once a day. how can i get her to stop?

2007-06-21 17:29:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hmmm well do you?

2007-06-21 17:29:14 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cause none of my friends like him should i have said no and live without even trying it and keep my friends happy or did i do the right thing and i guess ill just find out who my real friends are?please help

2007-06-21 17:28:41 · 8 answers · asked by number1hilaryfan 1 in Singles & Dating

my gf snuck out with another guy she says she didnt do anythin with him and she just wanted to c if she got away with sneakin out do i believe her or what do i do? I NEED ADVICE

2007-06-21 17:28:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, earlier this evening I asked her politely and maturely if I could permanently dye my hair. But she said no - I'm not old enough.
But this is something I REALLY want. What would be the best way to get her to change her mind? Ask again? Make a presentation? Write a paper?
What should I do?

2007-06-21 17:28:28 · 8 answers · asked by Gemma 2 in Family

My brother is 13 and he is going through this stage of "he is never wrong". It drives me insane!!!!! Will he grow out of it. Please tell me this is just a phase.

2007-06-21 17:27:02 · 4 answers · asked by saved1044 2 in Family

I feel bad by how I was treated by my family.Well I found out that my grandmother was dying of colon cancer.I hadn't seen her in almost thirthteen years, I was around 12 at the time.She would help me out so often, she sometimes helped me buy my schoolbooks, clothes, whatever I needed she was pretty much there for me, she even took me and my brother in when we were homeless.So thirthteen years went by and I never went to visit her, so when I went to go see her on her death bid, I just broke out into tears..my cousin cursed me out, called me all kinds of b words, my other family members didn;t really say much too me either., after thirthteen years! so keep in mind I'm working full time and going to school full time.I stayed for three days, and I left knwing that my grandmother was dying, So my aunt cursed me out and told me to never call her again, and that I think "I'm a celebrity", and how could I not come see my grandmother

2007-06-21 17:26:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-21 17:25:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my cousin is in her early 30's. shes dated a few guys in those 30 some years. anyway she has the best personality, easy-going, fun, caring, and beautiful. she has a weight problem, she has some extra pounds (im guessing maybe 150 extra).
she is considering gastric bypass surgery, for one of the main reasons of attracing guys, and i think that is a pretty drastic measure to take. could you ever fall in love with an over weight girl? Oh by the way she has an ovary disease (NOT SEXUAL) that makes it very hard to loose weight on her own, and can actually be causing part of her weight problem.
COULD YOU EVER LOVE AN OVERWEIGHT PERSON?

2007-06-21 17:24:14 · 4 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Singles & Dating

is it a good thing for females and female athletes?

parents what do you think of her as a female role model?

I know she went to college in Arizona and has like 7 olympic medal

but having achieved so much, do you think it is still right to bare it all for playboy?



ummm juss kinda off topic

My hometown is Irvine, California and she is from Irvine too!!!

2007-06-21 17:23:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family