my gf snuck out with another guy she says she didnt do anythin with him and she just wanted to c if she got away with sneakin out do i believe her or what do i do? I NEED ADVICE
2007-06-21 17:28:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask yourself this - would she forgive you if the tables were turned?
...Didn't think so. The whole reason she tried this is to see if she COULD cheat on you - that right there is grounds to dump her @ss! IF you didn't catch her in the act, then you know that she WOULD have started cheating (since she "could" get away with it)...
2007-06-21 17:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She only said "I wanted to see if I would get caught" just becasue she got caught. She went out for the fun of going out.
I think you two need to do some talking. If a couple is having fun, and enjoying each other, there's no reason why you would want to go out with another guy. So therefore. there must be a problem. I think you need to eirther talk, or break up.
2007-06-22 00:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it this way. If you would bet your life on her telling the truth then YES. Well, if you trust her, then YES, forgive her. But if in the past, she has repeatedly lies then no. How can you trust someone if they lie to you over and over? Follow your heart, but listen to your head.
Word of Caution: If she IS telling the truth and you are proven wrong, then your relationship may be in trouble. She may question the amount of trust that you both have.
2007-06-22 00:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by moviefreak126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what kind of relationship you want. She does not seem trustworthy. If you just want someone to chill with then no biggie. If you want something serious this girl will only bring problems.
2007-06-22 00:33:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least pretend like it doesnt bother you because you will seem very self concious if you get mad at her and say you cant trust her. If you dont trust her you might want to break up with her.
2007-06-22 00:33:11 · answer #5 · answered by twid392™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody deserve a second chance. Give her the benefit of the doubt.
2007-06-22 00:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by jeanne1120 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i will tell u if you really love her well forgive her but make her suffer a little if u do not love her well get with someone else
2007-06-22 00:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol some of these questions are funny. but yea, back to your question...yes, you need to trust her!
2007-06-22 00:32:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋