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2007-06-21 17:51:14 · 23 answers · asked by Liberal City 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope. Being attracted to someone is partially unconscious and hard to explain. I've met homely women I found almost irrestable, and gorgeous ones that made my skin crawl.
We guys are largely visual creatures, though, and looks really are the first thing that hit us. Some men do have very specific features that they find attractive - some are positively fetishes. I find that as we get more mature, those go out the window. When I was a kid, I found very long straight black hair terribly attractive, and didn't give blondes a second look.
My wife has short, wavy, blonde hair. You get over superficial fixations when you find the real thing.
2007-06-22 06:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by B.Kevorkian 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, it might mean that he likes someone else before he met you. I do it to very pretty ladies and I am serious. It usually means that the guy isn't a cheater or would think twice about another lady in that sort of manner. But you have to think positive. Even if one person says that you are unattractive or you believe that they believe you are unattractive it doesn't mean that you need a lifestyle change. I means that that particular person doesn't roll with mainstream society in generalizing women who come up to him everyday. Believe me, I have told many women that they are beautiful but I am not attracted to them. You have to stop thinking that most men are wolves looking for only the best and that they would not hesitate to tell you to predispose of you.
Forget about it and go to the next guy!
2007-06-22 00:59:20 · answer #2 · answered by calsonic66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends...
It may just mean that he's not finding whatever qualities appeal to him within you. A lot of guys, subconsciously or otherwise, have a pretty good idea what they're looking for in features and personality. That doesn't mean he thinks you're ugly.
At least he was honest, so you can move on without getting hurt.
2007-06-22 00:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by arjee63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugly and attraction are miles apart. While I might not be attracted physically to a lady, does not necessarily mean that
I think she is ugly. Maybe just not exactly what I'm looking for in my ladies. Hope I helped...........
2007-06-22 01:35:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all... when a guy tells you he isnt attracted to you it could be that, physical attraction, or the fact that he doesnt feel a connection. Most of the time it is looks but it doesnt have to be! Good luck finding what you are looking for and God bless.
2007-06-22 00:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by loving live:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily.
Perhaps he prefers people with a different body type, hair color, tone of voice, religion, or any one of hundreds of different things.
I can't speak for the guy you talk about, but there are plenty of beautiful women that I am just not attracted too.
Doc
2007-06-22 00:56:45 · answer #6 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think plenty of people are beautiful - that doesn't mean I need to feel attracted to them. And I'm sure you've seen good looking men that you weren't attracted to you.
2007-06-22 00:54:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not necessarily it could just mean that you are not his type. besides you are still young and you have plenty of time to find Mr. right concentrate on your schooling and when it's time for you it will hit you like a ton of bricks. just hang in there and be patient.
2007-06-22 08:34:28 · answer #8 · answered by TA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. He just not into you. He attract to girl from different type.
2007-06-22 01:24:41 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not necessarily, It could just mean that ur not the kind of girl he usually goes for.
2007-06-22 00:55:48 · answer #10 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋