Although I am curious to do...and I do want to do it lol I'm scared cause all my girl friends tell me that it's going to hurt. and I'm also kinda embarrassed to be naked in front of him not that im ashamed of my body and what not but i just dont feel comfortable like that. do you have to be completely naked to have sex? what do I do?
2007-06-21 16:42:37 · 12 answers · asked by Jazi J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you should let him know that you're not ready because that just wouldn't be right. if he really cared for you or even "love" you then he'd respect you. if he tries to use that "if you love me then you'll do it" crap, then you should just drop him. he wouldn't be worth losing your virginity to. nooppee. so don't do it unless you feel comfortable with it. to have sex, you just have to be naked on the bottom half of your body... you know, panties OFF. and remember "no glove, no love!" so use a condom! (if you decide to do it). good luck; choose wisely!
2007-06-21 17:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by anonymiss. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello buddy,
ask him to wait till u get married, it is all inqsutive to know what you havent done before till u do that, that is human tendancy, instead wait for a while.
see that you do with the person u would spend life with,
guess about being naked dont worry as at the time only u 2 would be there, and guess with out which he would never be intrested in that.
2007-06-22 06:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by dream b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are not of legal age you don't even need to be entertaining these thoughts. Tell your boyfriend that you want to wait until you get married. Sex is not something that you need to be jumping into. In today's world premarital sex is extremely dangerous! You don't know who else he has had sex with or who those people had sex with and so on and so on! HIV and Aides is not curable! You really need to seek a counselor out on this one. If you do go ahead and have sex, please make sure he uses a condom. You don't want to make this mistake even worse by ending up pregnant or sick and dieing. I promise you it will be a mistake of you do. If he loves you he will honor your saying no to sex. If he doesn't you don't need him.
2007-06-22 00:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by gagirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't!
You have a lifetime to be an adult, and very few years to be a young lady. Tell B/F to go play with himself.
Please take the time to grow up and enjoy it. It's OK out here in the real world, but there is no need to be in a big hurry to try it on!
I teach an am around lots of teenagers daily, you can just tell those who are "holding out" from others who "gave in".
2007-06-22 01:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by Joe H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant even feel ok about being naked in front of him, youre not ready its as simple as that.
2007-06-21 23:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by agentskitters 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should talk with him and tell him your feelings. If your willing to do something that intimate, then you should be able to share feelings.. you really shouldn't have sex if you cant handle being a mom!!
2007-06-21 23:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by MarineWife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not ready for sex then don't do it.if he pushes you then i think it would be a good idea to let him go. if he loves you he will wait until you are ready
2007-06-22 00:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by stinger_4202 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to those****. anyways yah it hurts! make sure u no what ur doing. basically u have to ba naked, sorry! but if ur not comfortable, dotn do it! its ok to wait!
2007-06-21 23:52:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
take your time, theres no need to rush into it, if you arent ready then let him know, if he cares for you then he will have respect for you and wait...
2007-06-22 20:58:45 · answer #9 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you feel comfortable with...if ur not ready, then dont!!!! dont make a mistake
2007-06-22 00:05:59 · answer #10 · answered by 3oh!3 fan! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋