I think this guy is stalking me. I don't know what he looks like, but he knows me. Tonight he told me he was at my workplace watching me - so he could see what I looked like. He didn't approach me but called and told me about it later. Told me I was a "looker." Should I be scarred? I don't want to piss him off because now I am afraid he'll do something. Any suggestions?
2007-06-21 16:56:25 · 7 answers · asked by Ms. Gump 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call his bluff - get him to give you at least ONE detail of what you are wearing (or doing) the next time he calls. Just saying you're "a looker" sounds like he saw absolutely NOTHING!
If he happens to get it right - then you know that he is close enough that building Security should be able to handle anyone lurking in the bushes.
Or better yet, just get his number blocked - or *69 him to get his number first, and try turning the tables on HIM...
Odds are, he is some creepy loser you work with - and would probably end up wetting himself if you actually confronted him!
Just be careful until you find out if he is for real or not - avoid any place where he might be able to "try something"...
2007-06-21 17:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes call the police and have them send an unmaked car and a detective to somewhere you feel safe in meeting. Make it all look normal so the guy has no idea if he's watching. Lock all doors and windows and have someone near at all times if you can. Don't go into dark or lonley places. That's when they can get at you if they wanted to so watch out ok. The phone company can trace and have all records of calls made to and from phones whether residential or cellular. Call them and explain to them the situation and lie to them if they ask if the cops are involved(they are for their knowledge ok). Make sure you get the time he called for the cops if they ask, it will help get the number that called the phone easier for them. And remember It's better to be alive and wrong, than dead and right.
2007-06-22 00:08:59 · answer #2 · answered by lumendelsol 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Red flags and bells and whistles should be goeing off in your head, Senario-1, he's kind of creepy and he's lonely and shy and like a mystery to be slowly revealed. Alert your co-workers that you trust and your supervisor. Get caller-id feature put on your phone and use more locks on your doors and windows. Alert your neighbors and alert neighborhood police or authority until you feel the danger is over. Use the buddy system or a security guard at work to walk you to your car until this is resolved. Use heavier curtains on your windows for more privacy. In your workplace and neighborhood start a neighborhood watch with an incentive to get it started.....Or this guy could be completely harmless and shy! Eventually he will reveal himself as a stalker and you take action or send in the calvary to protect you. Oh have a stalking alert announced on your job without calling out names to reveal your suspicions. Pray about this creepy guy that he would go or turn out to just be harmless and God will reveal him and his intentions before things can become a big mix-up.
2007-06-22 00:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by NISSI 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call the police, stalking is illegal in all 50 states
this guy doesn't sound like good news so watch your back this could end ugly so def get a friend or someone to be with you at all times and don't walk alone in the dark
2007-06-22 00:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by Sofia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anytime someone is stalking you be careful! You dont know who he is or what he wants. I would suggest you travel with a companion. If he continues to scare you, do not hesitate to call the police!
2007-06-22 00:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by mick m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boss about it first and if it keeps happening then make a report to the police for your safety
2007-06-22 00:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea that is sketchy. To call and tell you about it later is definately sketchy. Id tell your boss about it to be safe.
2007-06-22 00:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by Traveler001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋