my question is how to i get him to change without breaking up with him since he gets mad at me all the time for no reason and i like him maybe love him but i just im out of breath and energy im tired of him yelling but i love it when he is not its hard for me to just say its over and i tried sayin if u dont stop were done and that didnt work so the question what else do i do about him yelling or getin mad easily with out me breakin up with him?
2007-06-21 16:46:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are probably not going to be able to change him and you have to decide whether you are going to live with this type of behavior or not. If you are then deal with it and don't complain. If you threaten to break up with him and then don't he knows that you are just making idle threats. If you can't live with this get out. You deserve to be happy.
2007-06-21 16:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by nerakian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without more information ther are two similiar answers:
1. He is yelling and mean because, as most guys do, he wants out and wants you to do the dumping.
2. You are in an abusive relationship and don't deserve to be yelled at by ANYONE, and you must dump him.
Either way, it does not sound like a productive relationship as it is, so drop him and see if he changes. If he does not change and is not interested in getting back together than you saved your self years of pain; emotionally and physically.
2007-06-21 23:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by njsnowrider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u really want to spend ur relationship with a guy who yells at you for no reason?! do u not see how if he keeps yelling and yelling at you it might get to the point where there is a 50-50 chance of him abusing you?!
2007-06-21 23:49:39 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Filipina Paradise♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buzz! wrong question
you dont get with a guy and try to change him
number 1 mistake you cannot change anyone but yourself.
2007-06-21 23:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a victim
2007-06-21 23:49:54 · answer #5 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore it
2007-06-21 23:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by PsychoxBunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋