What exaactly goes through your mind when you are watching airbrushed,painted, and nice looking women engaging in sexual activites...I am not interested in porn but I want to know exactly what a guy thinks when he is watching these other girls...I recently found porn on my bf computer and it hurt me because I believe I am not enough for him. I KNOW MOST OF YOU ARE GOING TO SAY: ALL GUYS LOOK AT PORN- I do not think this is true but I am still curious...am I not enough for him???? and I am not watching it with him at all....I find it degrading..and I was not snooping on his computer...this is the first time I found it also...and it has not been on there since we have dated for 2yrs. I know about his past porn watching but this is the first time finding it...should I expect more even though this was the first time it was actually viewed???? Thanks. Positive answers please..no smart *** comments...
2007-06-21 14:55:30 · 9 answers · asked by caysay d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Boring to me, sex is not a spectator sport by a long shot! However for a lot of guys it is natural as breathing to watch porn. You can bet that none of them were raised in the country around cows and horses, or hunting dogs for that matter. Hunting dogs aren't fixed, because when once they are fixed they are worthless as hunting dogs as a rule.
You know that could be one of the big differences between being raised in the city urban environment versus being raised in the country or rural environment around farm animals come to think about it.
2007-06-21 15:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by JUAN FRAN$$$ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-18 19:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is two aspect of this namely :
1) Addictive
For being addictive, then it is not so good. So constant watching is bad....
2) Eductaional
For being educational about it.. I think it is good from this perspective. Guys learn how to excite, stimulate a woman better when they see porn. Guys in general does not know which area or part of a body that excite a girl... so I think it is quite educational from these aspect..
Lastly, it has nothing to do with you whether you are good or better then the porn that he is watching...
take care..
2007-06-21 15:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by trymejames 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's men are from mars and women are from venus. Why does a women need 40 pairs of shoes. It baffles men but makes perfect sense to women. Don't worry about it it has nothing to do with the way your bf feels about you.
2007-06-21 15:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by bill j 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't look at porn...there is no point to it. Porn movies have no plot and it's pretty obvious what's going to happen....
To me it ranks up there with strip clubs...another useless activity.
2007-06-21 15:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the movie that is being watched. any ways this is not the place to ask that u can get your BF and ask him for a really live answer
2007-06-21 23:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by dream b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's natural. we're all just curious about the female body parts. its different shapes and sizes..and IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU. thanx!
2007-06-21 15:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by ronald d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever tried watching it with him?could do wonders for you relationship.
a healthy fantasy life is just that healthy. as long as hes not going out and acting out his fantasies with someone else i wouldn't be too worried.
2007-06-21 15:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by Cebsme 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
guys lookin at porn has nothing to do with their gfs. its just a guy thing that we all like to see pretty women.
2007-06-21 15:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by s w 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋