what should i do?

Question

i really like this guy,
his names brian (if your wondering) lol.
Hes super cute, funny, nice, but lately he hasnt been any of those things.
I went out with him 2 years back, we were young, but i could still tell i really liked him. after we broke, i began to realize i loved him. its sounds funny to even say that, but i did, and still do. Only he got really strange, stopped talking to me, calling, replying to my messages, things he would normally do ALL the time. His brother, who is my age, was always trying to break us up, and i could never figure out why, but now all of a sudden his brothers coming up to me trying to console me about the breakup and make me feel better. I bagan wondering if his brother is maybe the reason for the sudden strangeness. Next year we would finally be in the same school again cause hes 3 years older, but im going to a different school, so i dont know whether to let it go, or try to figure out what to do. I like him to much to just forget about it. Help!=]

Answer 1

his brother was prob jealous and told brian weird stuff about u. i wuld try 2 move on and like someone else though, i dont think ur attempts will go anywhere

Answer 2

You are too young to be getting that serious. You are also confusing a teenage crush on mature love. Listen life is going to hit you head on like a runaway freight train soon enough. Don't rush it. Enjoy being a kid. You are going to grow up fast enough as it is trust me.
As far as the boy is concerned his is three years older right. Meaning he is in high school rigth. That means new friends and associations with the other kids in the school, and yes, I know you are going to hate to hear this, but most likely a girl friend as well. He is going to be going out with the girls from his school as well as associating with the boys from his school who are all older than you are.
In his way of thinking now is that he is a grown up since he is in high school and you are still a kid. Those are the cold hard facts.
The best thing you can do is chalk it up as a learning experience and for now stick with going with boys your own age.
And do not get too serious you are too young. Just enjoy it while you still can.
And don't go getting any ideas about letting him do any thing to make him like you again. That is plain stupid and you are not stupid.
And don't let them talk you into anything either. Because that crap of them loving you more is bull crap. I've listened to too many of my male students talking among themselves about that.
what that gets you is labelled as cheap, loose, easy, a who**e and a few other nastier words. And all it takes is one time. And if there is one thing written is stone that is:
Teenage boys in high school are going to brag about what they did with girls: That is wirtten in stone.

And don't get the stupid dumb notion about wanting his baby or any stupid stuff like that either.
Remember this is might sound cool right now But what about ten years down the road when you are working at a below minimum job trying to raise you kid by yourself living in sub standard government housing on food stamps not having enough money to buy a new dress. It doesn't sound so cool if it is put that way does it?
So relax and enjoy being a young lady and don't let yourself get serious about boys right now. That will come soon enough. In fact too soon.
And when it does real life in the real world is going to cream you like a runaway frieght train.

Answer 3

It sounds like maybe he might be avoiding you because you are younger than him and he doesn't want to look uncool in front of his friends. It may blow over after he grows, or maybe not. The brother sounds nice and if he's cute I say give it a go.

Answer 4

don't b 2 obvious make sure u are not bein desperate and clingy or obsesed