the woman i love is from the philippine==i only know here thrue the magic of a cam + phone+ e mail =here age is 44
2007-06-21 15:24:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Never too old for love. Make sure she is sincere though
2007-06-21 15:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are in over your head on this one.
If you were 44, would you marry someone age 68? Be honest and don't try this: oh women are different. Not true. Marrying a man 68 years old feels to a 44 year old woman exactly like it would the other way around.
Can you honestly say that you don't need a caretaker 5 years from now? Can you trust this woman to be faithful in 5 years when inevitably your health and level of fitness will begin to deteriorate?
I think there's a lot of wishful dreaming going on there on your part. Now how can you say you love this person when you haven't spent a significant amount of time together?
I'd strongly advise you to be cautious and if you do decide to marry, then be sure you and she are doing it for the right reasons.
2007-06-21 22:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest keeping with the cam+phone+e-mail and start looking to marry someone your own age and in your own area that you can grow old with and marry if that's what you really want.. You'll have a harder time in reality relating to someone from the Philippines and who is 24 years younger than you. It might just be a fantasy in your mind, but different in reality.
2007-06-21 22:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by 24Special 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a big age difference here, but as the saying goes: Age is only a state of mind! My husband and I met through the magic of internet. It's not for everyone, but can be a useful venue when used carefully.
I don't believe anyone is too old for love.....just make sure the feelings are common to both of you. Be sure that your expectations match your lady's. Best of luck to you both!!
2007-06-21 22:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by DAWN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age gap is a little large but I would say you still have a chance. Chemistry is all that matters. If you two are attracted to each other and want to have a relationship and have a means of getting her to the US or wherever, I think it could work out. People have gotten married in there 80s and over! Age is not the factor. Good Luck!
2007-06-21 22:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by bharvey0719 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are never too old. But when the woman is over 20 years younger and from abroad... I do not think so. Find someone closer to your age and interests. She might be interested in other things and its not you.
2007-06-21 22:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by E C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, give a relationship a try..........FACE TO FACE....!!!!!!
Not the long distance one....
If you are "thinking" you have something serious on the phone...you may not find a real relationship.....
Be honest with yourself as to why you did not marry .
2007-06-21 22:32:05 · answer #7 · answered by cheesehead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody is ever to old for love!! Make sure though that everuthing is for the right reasons... meaning she doesn't just want to come to america...
2007-06-21 22:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by Jayden Ryan's Mommy :) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're never too old to get married. if thats what you want to do then give it a shot.
2007-06-21 22:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by Violet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run from that Philippino. You don't want to get involved with that whole nasty situation. You better do some research on that whole thing.
2007-06-21 22:28:50 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋