A guyfriend of mine stated: A guy that loves a girl and is going to marry her never lets her give him oral sex because that is the lips that will be kissing their children. And that is how one can tell if a guy loves you or is just using you as an object.
I was wondering if guys really feel that way???
2007-06-21 14:57:40 · 30 answers · asked by somethingaboutjane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's a complete crock. i love getting and giving oral, it had nothing at all to do with kissing my children. whatever jackass guy told you that was playing a stupid game with you
2007-06-21 15:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by David S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not.
And your guyfriend is most likely not married and has no kids.
Here are the stats: 7 out of 10 boys gives their partner oral sex. So we are missing the other 3.
Only a limited view would believe that sex is for producing children. If that were the case, children would be produce each time the couple had sex.
In a country that has more failed marriages than successful one, we better so focus on the relationship aspect. What we have now is not working.
Answer: Tell you guy friend to stop quoting and get real.
2007-06-21 22:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by J. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never heard of that. But the woman also could have gave oral once or many times before meeting him.
Your guy friend may just want you so bad, and does not want you to do this to your bf.
If you backed him in a corner and asked him 3 times if you could give him oral, b/c you love him and want to marry, he would NOT turn it down!
Coincidentally I just got a H J and two B J from my new neighbor TWICE tonight, and I didnt complain.
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2007-06-25 09:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing is oral sex is kind of degrading in a way and if you love a girl and respect her, u dont want to see her like that. it doesnt neccessarily have to do with having children, but you get the point.
however these arent hard and fast rules, cos at the end of the day... oral sex is pretty good
2007-06-21 22:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by punisher c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not true. Sounds like the guy has hang ups. Oral sex can be very exciting and satisfying, just keep your self hygenically clean. He has no idea what he is missing.
2007-06-21 22:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think all guys feel that way. I really don't understand why this guy would say this to you. Maybe he doesn't believe in oral sex.
2007-06-21 22:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by jv27 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very few... most of us have heard of a couple of little inventions called the "Toothbrush" and "Mouthwash" ;););););)
I can respect this guy for not treating his future wife as an object, but his train of thought is somewhat out of wack...
2007-06-21 22:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's ridiculous. You know a guy loves you when he loves everything about you, sexually and mentally. The less repressed the man is in general, the better candidate for a boyrfriend/husband/father in my opinion.
2007-06-21 22:01:31 · answer #8 · answered by Ivan64 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I never thought of that befrore, but now that you say it I sure do. I personally am against oral service at all because I think its wrong to be pleasured by someone while the are recieving nothing back. Its self centered. if youre going to be lustful and all, at least give what you take. You know?
2007-06-21 22:00:41 · answer #9 · answered by Adam 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Some guys do, but I bet that that scenerio never crossed over into another mans mind b4. He has his standards & I know that you have your own standards. Standards are the one thing that sets one person apart from another.
2007-06-21 22:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋