My boyfriend of a little over a year and a half just got a job playing guitar on a cruise ship, he left on Sun Jun 17th, we have never been apart for more then a week, I'm keeping busy with work and social events, reluctantly at times, but when i'm by myself I miss him so much that all I want to do is cry. Can someone suggest something that will help ease the pain?
2007-06-21 14:57:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are on the right track with staying busy. The more you do the more you can try and take your mind off of it. Also, hanging around supportive people is a plus. I know noone can take the place of his company, but friends and family are key during this time. A married couple that I know is going through the same thing. The way they chose to go about it is to have her visit him about once a month whereever the ship pulls in. I know in order to do this you need the money to travel...but that's an option if you have it. Also, just talk to him as much as you can. I pray for safety for your boyfriend while he is away and I also pray for peace to enter your heart as you go through this trying time.
2007-06-29 13:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you guys break up???? Do you not get to talk to each other at all????? If you feel that way about him, and you've been together that long, I'm gonna say he feels the same way about you!!!not to mention, if you are still together, this is making your relationship stronger. It's a matter of wether you can take it or not. Stay strong girl!!! I know that feeling, it wont last forever!!!!
2007-06-29 13:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by Laura LoLo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right idea...keep yourself preoccupied. The time will go by faster that way.
I know, I know...thanks for the tip, but that's just the way it goes.
2007-06-21 15:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by frontmann2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another. There are more than one guy out there. Women and men are a dime a dozen.
2007-06-28 15:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pray and ask God to help you through your lose of your boyfriend. I have been through the same situation. It works trust me.
2007-06-29 12:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by fabuloussenior07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o man that must be tuff... go to the movies with your girl friends. just hang out with a bunch of friends who you havent had a chance to hang out with much since you have been dating
2007-06-21 15:02:30 · answer #6 · answered by drea D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a vibrator
2007-06-21 16:31:32 · answer #7 · answered by Natalie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋