It all depends on the circumstances. If it was planned with your sweetheart or part of a relationship then there are different fears and insecurities, maybe even more than with someone you are not so well acquainted with yet. When it is casual or just circumstantial then it is more surprising and maybe more exciting because you know so little of each other that you feel less insecure and scared. Mine was the latter and it wasn't that spectacular, but it was still great and somewhat overwhelming. It was over quickly though. The 2nd time was much better. It does change your relationship with the person who you are with though. If you like the person very much and are still too young you may feel forced into a relationship and end up married before you wanted to. Sex does complicate things. Rather wait until you are sure what you want.
2007-06-22 01:21:51
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answered by Watchtower 2
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For me it was very nerve wracking because we were both virgins and we had no where to go. Looking back I would say that there is no way to make it perfect and that the most important thing is to realize that, oh and I didn't last very long so it was over fast which was good, I had an understanding girl friend and together we kept at it till we got it right, and we ended up trying everything together, what a trip.
2007-06-21 21:47:53
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answered by Anonymous
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Like a hot slice of apple pie. mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Very exciting, and I guess nerve wracking at the same time. We are excited because of the obvious, but nervous because we worry about size, how long we will last, not looking like a beginner that doesn't know how to move, the first time can be the last if you mess up with the right girl. She will go tell her friends and etc. and your world is over.
2007-06-21 21:44:11
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answered by Anonymous
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Nerve wracking! It doesn't hurt and feels wonderful.
2007-06-21 21:43:06
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answered by Anonymous
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properly if he plans to hold out until marriage...then until he gets married...which i might desire might take place in his 20's, from 23-29. And if he does not desire to lose his virginity in a intense college relationship, yet nonetheless does not desire to attend until marriage, i might say approximately 19. yet I appreciate a guy that desires to attend until marriage extra.
2016-10-18 08:21:14
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answered by coriolan 4
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Hi Snow, I am not a guy so i will have to guess. Since guys are always trying to get into the girls pant i would say," more than likely they enjoy their first time as much as their 4th 5th and so on.
poppy1
2007-06-21 21:46:43
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answered by poppy1 7
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its exciting and nerve wracking at the same time, and definately intense....
but its true, you its much better if you don't sweat it so much and just go with it
2007-06-21 21:46:43
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answered by Anonymous
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I was lucky, i was basicly pounced on by my sisters friend who was a good five years older than me..apart from breaking into the captain *** quick territory the first time it was wicked. no pain, just pure gain.x
2007-06-21 21:43:52
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answered by mistincat 3
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For me it wasn't the best experience in the world and something I'd rather try to forget, no insult to the girl mind you.
2007-06-21 21:42:35
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answered by bruvvamoff 5
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You are thinking it's going to be some big miraculous event but it ain't, man. Don't be in such a hurry. Kick back and chill for now.
2007-06-21 21:42:15
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answered by avalanchefan95 2
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