I am a man, 35 years, haven't yet met a girl/woman in my life, I hope you understand what I mean. I would be happy to get a girl of my kind. I also would like to know if it would be ok to get married to a girl say 15 yrs younger than me? I will be happy for your advice. Thanks
2007-06-21 22:48:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I have answered many questions similar to this one before and will answer this one in the same manner...
You do not get married to someone just because you want to have a spouse. Marriage is the ultimate commitment between a man and a woman who deeply love each other and wish to spend the rest of their lives together as a family unit - they are prepared to face whatever trials and tribulations that come their way.
Just because someone is a virgin is no excuse to want to get married.
If you haven't met a girl yet then get out more. Big tip here... when you do go out just be yourself and do not try too hard. The right person will come along eventually but be warned... be careful what you wish for - you might just get it.
2007-06-21 22:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by Greywolf 3 · 8⤊ 2⤋
There are many women out there that are still virgins, u may be looking in all the wrong places. The age u are now even for a man, there are goals or things u want to accomplish that she may not care about. Do u really think a girl 15 yrs younger than u is going to have the same interest as u. i think u should try and get someone close to your age so u guys can have more in common.
2007-06-22 01:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by NICI 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult to find a girl who is above 20 and still a virgin, however I can name at least 2 of my female friends who are virgins and they are both 22. Both have lovely personalities with stunning facial features, but are genetically cuddly (not overweight, just cuddly - know what I mean?).
It is perfectly fine to marry a girl much younger than you, as long as she is happy with it and her parents are happy about it. My grandfather and grandmother were about 30 years appart when they got married.
If you cannot find a virgin, then I think the best thing you could possibly do is find a girl who made a mistake once while in High School and has chosen to remain sexually inactive since her mistake.
2007-06-21 23:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by Ashleigh L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look the first thing you should do is set yourself up to be in places where ther are men who respect virginity. Your not gona find that at a rock concert, night club or a kama sutra school lol. Try please like church, charity organizations(the best place to meet respectful men because any man that can give unselfishly and not ask anything in return is a keeper for you). Trust me i know where u are coming from cause i was there myself(im a male virgin but much older than u). Just be picky about who you date. What i dont understand about most female virgins is that they dont care how many men their potential guy has been with in the past. This is called reverse hypocrisy and one reason why alot of marriages fail. Start demanding that your men be clean as well. Be proud of your virginity girl!!!!!!!!!!!
2016-05-17 08:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is. Lots of people meet their partners later in life, without having had other serious relationships. There's nothing wrong with wanting to marry a virgin (I wouldn't want to share my husband with anyone else) as long as you have the same standards for yourself. But if you meet a nice woman who is not a virgin, that doesn't mean she's not the right person for you. If she's the right woman, she'll respect you and won't make you feel silly about it. That goes for age, too: it's better to look for a woman you can share your life with than someone who's a certain age. Remember marriage is a very long time, and she's going to get older anyway.
You could try using a dating service or going to singles evenings. Don't say you're looking for a virgin, just say that you're shy or a homebody and would like to meet people like you.
2007-06-21 23:16:02 · answer #5 · answered by Marie Antoinette 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are 35 years old, why would you like that the girl should be 20? That seems strange.
Off course there is lots of girls who are still virgins in a late age, but I really think what it's most important in life, is to find a beautiful person which you can share a happy and long life with, and not only depending on her age.
You can't just say "I'm planning to get married", without have found your love...women are not just a piece of art you can choose like that.
Is that really your number one priority?Is it more important then how a woman can make you to feel, or love you?
2007-06-22 00:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by samantha21it 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Of course its possible, people die as virgins, so why not a twenty year old. More importantly, are you just looking for a virgin due to your inexperience? If this is the case then just meet people, you will know the one you like and the relationship will evolve naturally. When you reach a point that your inexperience might show be honest, its not a crime to wait for the right person. Importantly, you can have a loving relationship with someone and never have any sexual relationship so with this in mind, look for a partner, not just a shag.
2007-06-21 23:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jon M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it is possible..but it might be difficult to find girls above 20 who are still a virgin nowadays..coz u wudnt know who is a virgin just by looking at them...
aniway, it is ok if u want to marry a girl who is 15 yrs younger than u..as long as she is ok with it & does not care about the age gap..age is not a factor when u love someone..its wht the heart says..follow ur heart to the one u love..u'll find her soon..just keep looking & dun give up...all the best..
2007-06-23 00:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are lots of people who are in their 20s and are still virgins, but why would you want a woman 15 years younger and still a virgin?
2007-06-21 22:56:03 · answer #9 · answered by MISSY G 5 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Planning to get married is a great thing but basing your criteria on age and purity i believe is a little out of line.
To answer your question,yes there are still virgins around,much more than we think,and yes they are 20 and above.
Its okay to marry a girl 15 years younger than you if the two of you understand each other.
Good luck in your search and God bless
2007-06-22 00:25:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋