everytime were in the mood sheand iam down there doing the bussiness my cellphone will ring it has a light so she covers herslef up and hides the cellphone i dont understand
i try to convince her that i could do alot more if i seen what i was doing but she still refuses plz help
2007-06-21 21:49:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She doesn't feel comfortable with her body and may think you may criticize something about how she looks.
2007-06-21 21:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by LS 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be patient and supportive.
Tell her she is pretty, looks great, etc. Give her reassurance. Work on her self-esteem. Also, if you have criticized harshly another aspect of her appearance, she might be reluctant to show her more "personal" parts.
Another thing to consider, usually women don't even look "down there" or they have been told that the area is not clean or not pretty. Keep in mind that women have always been told that they have to guard the area, keep it covered. She might have conflicting feelings about it, not even realizing it at a concious level.
Don't push her into anything. There will come a time when she will let you observe it with enough light.
Watch the movie "Real Women Have Curves". In it, there is a scene where the "chubby" protagonist turns the light on so her boyfriend can see her when they make love. It is the moment in the movie when she feels good about her body. It might help your girlfriend to see that. *Also, you accumulate points for watching a women-centered movie with her (it's not a chick flick, it is deeper than that).
2007-06-21 22:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by ivelisse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude,
Listen, it is not your fault, some women are just not comfortable with their bodies. Have you tried to compliment her on how well she looks instead of just having sex??? You must put positive reinforcements into her mind before she will feel comfortable enough to show you her goods. The old "I'll show you if you show me" just doesn't work with adults and in any kind of relationship beyond six or seven years old. Curiosity is the key....you want to see her but she is scared, let her feel more relaxed in the bedroom by not always jumping her bones every time you are alone. Ask her if she would model some Lingerie first...this may help with her becoming more comfortable with herself and you seeing her naked. Try it, it may or may not work, but it certainly will not hurt. If you care for her you will honor her wishes, just turn the cell phone off when you are with her, give her your complete attention. Another thing may be to bath her, get her in a nice bubble bath with some candles and soft music. Either way, good luck and hang in there, before you know it you will be married and you wife will be walking around naked and you will not even notice her......it happens!!! Take care, Dr. Shock
2007-06-21 22:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Shock 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a shame....she has major issues. some women are just like that. Just go with it for now and dont make her feel stupid or guilty or she will get worse.Shes not confident with her body. She doesnt think shes sexy, or know how to be sexy... not much you can do with this one except compliment her a lot. Especially on all the bits women usually hate.... tell her you think she has a gorgeous bum or cute whatevers.....(in daylight & normal circumstances for now) sexy is not a word i would use JUST yet. she has to feel confident and want to do it. I think it will take a LONG time, so you will need to be patient. If this sounds like too much hard work, ......you know the alternative.. (which certainly wont help her body issues) good luck!
2007-06-21 22:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by blerchus4incapet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It Will Take Time For Her To Overcome Shyness
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2007-06-21 21:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by Peeti 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The most likely reason why your girlfriend doesn't want you to see her naked is she probably is ashamed of her body. She could also be scared if this is her first time. What you need to do is tell her how awesomely beautiful she is to make her feel more comfortable disrobing in front of you.
Another thing you should try to do is dim the lights. Nobody feels comfortable doing anything sexual with bright lights like an interregation.
2007-06-21 21:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by davester1970 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She might be insecure with her body image and may feel as if you will not like the way she looks. Guys place so much emphasis on how a girl looks these days, it's a no wonder many feel uncomfortable. Make sure she knows you think she is beautiful.
2007-06-21 21:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by Scorpio 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah thats wierd unless you've been going out for a week or something like that. Thats wierd maybe shes just not comfortable with her body. But then again you are her boyfriend so thats like basically a free pass to see her naked and stuff.
LAte
2007-06-21 21:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she most likely doesn't like how her body looks in the light, so she is not going to let you see it. She just has body-self problems. It is normal. Just keep making her happy and she will come around.
Yeah eat more Carrots they will help with night vision so you will be able see better in the dark
2007-06-21 21:56:08 · answer #9 · answered by maverick29 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi Justin, First thing you do is "TURN OFF YOUR CELL PHONE". Why would you have it right there when you are having foreplay and sex with your G.F. This is a big TURN OFF!! It sounds like you G.F. is embarrass to have you look at her naked. Give her time and you may ask her to shower with you. This may help her in time.
poppy1
2007-06-21 21:59:33 · answer #10 · answered by poppy1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing with your cellphone down there anyway? You should turn the light off and turn the vibrate function on.
2007-06-21 21:52:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋