a boy loves me very much.but he is not good looking....rather he is very bad in comaprison with the looks i want.but he has already sacrificed some very special issues of his life for me which i think nobody will do for me these days.(if i leave him, i will b guilty 4ever)he surely loves me..his family background,status,career.-everything is fine with me..but the looks which i don't like even a bit..what should i do???
2007-06-25 22:31:21 · 15 answers · asked by anamika 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Looks does not matter these days ,it is how much one luvs,that matter the most.U said he luvs u,he has sacrificed for u,he has a decent family background,status & career,just think for urself once again isn't this enough for him to make u happy?In comparison,i think,looks does not matter.Is he looking ugly? God has created people in different types,sum r handsome,sum r not,sum r nor beautiful nor ugly.U dont luv him bcoz he is not good looking.What if u were in his place & u were in luv with a boy?Think about what i have written & take ur decision bcoz this is ur life & whatever ur deciding is always best for u.
2007-06-26 02:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by coolblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are important if u wanna catch attention of a person whom u dont know much...u'll forget all these factors after 1-2 years, then u 'll realise the importance of other things than looks..........
The future of the relation in most cases will depend on ur nature and innerself, but there r few exceptions where all that matters is good lokks and nothing else...but those people r not worth considering.....
after all, the intution will signal ur heart the direction where u have to move.....but take the decision very carefully.....boyz can be really deceptive at times, specially at the beginning of the relationship, give urself enough time to know him before commiting to him...............
take care....
2007-06-26 05:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by nimesh m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel he is not good looking or up to the expected level of your feeling then you dont feel guilty of you by avoiding him because your life is more important than a single feeling or the love is felt when both of the people are likes each other irrespective of the looking, caste ,creed, size etc. i think that you are not in love with him but you have a debt towards him. so keep him as a good friend and select a partner according to your wish otherwise there will be problems in your future life
2007-06-26 05:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by suja kumari.b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have expressed so much about that guy but you are not liking the looks he penetrates into you. What makes it difference if you got love towards him. "Love conceals so many mistakes" some where I read. Follow this proverb and take a lead if surely you want him, other wise forget him.
2007-06-26 05:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by ky d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I 'd go for love.. looks matter but when we grow old n you look at the person who has stood by you thro thick n thin u dont think "God he looks so bad..." u think "God i love him cos he has been with me all this time n we are happy!!"
But again thts ur decision we should be with somene whom we have things in common with,somebody who makes us smile,somebody who gives us wings to fly,somebody whom u can share even the tiniest detail of ur life with, somebody u can talk to about anything at all...
You 'll meet a lot of people but u 'll know whom u want to be with ur heart will tell you..Listen to ur heart...
God Bless You
2007-06-26 05:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
now a days v find a person who r cheating but is ur luck to have a person who can do anything for u and who loves u more than anything else where love exists the beauty doesnot exist so question ur heart first whether u like him r not if u like dont ever weight if i would be in ur place i would definetly marry him bcoz he is gud in all and the beautyness in anothr person lies in us the way we think abt them
2007-06-26 06:04:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a pretty awkward situation! but in my opinion, you should definitely go for love. going for looks just ends up in heartbreak because if the guy is with you for looks, he'll just leave you for someone else with better looks. if you love him, his appearance shouldn't bother you at all. it sounds like he has done alot for you, and you wont find many guys these days who will do things like that for a girl. so just follow and trust your heart completely. please make the right decision. but don't just think about his looks, if you make the wrong decision, your going to end up with a guilty conscious and a broken heart.
2007-06-26 05:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look is not in his hand,but the situations ,manners,love&the special issues mentioned by u which he sacrifised indicates that you will never find such a good guy, Go ahead.
2007-06-26 06:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by JAWLA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She the looks which u are looking is like a paint on house wall . When u check first it looks very nice and afterwards u get habited to the house and paint ,
Never go for looks . c the heart.
Dont miss him.
2007-06-26 06:39:04 · answer #9 · answered by God Father 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to stop playing with this guys heart and come on out and tell him and either accept him or say goodbye to him and move on and find someone with better looks. Cheers and good luck.
2007-06-26 05:41:47 · answer #10 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋