Family & Relationships - 25 June 2007

I am alone for the first time in my life. I need a good woman who will love me for who I am

2007-06-25 03:24:03 · 3 answers · asked by alphabase 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm married to a pakistani and I've noticed pakistani people dislike girls. I have three girls and they really look down on me for not having a boy. when you give birth to a girl no one even congratulates you, infact they commisserate you. I'm pregnant again and the pressure is on for me to give birth to a boy, if I have another girl they are going to hate me even more. Even my husband wants a boy this time and he said if we have a girl again he doesn't know what he'll do. I dont know what I'm having as I'm only 5 weeks pregnant but I feel so stressed out and I keep dreaming that I'm having a girl and I wake up feeling so anxious. I love girls and to me all that matters is that you have a healthy baby but I feel so stressed out and worried, I just want a boy so that they get off my case!

2007-06-25 03:23:27 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay now i have a friend and like i have been emailing her and calling her but she wont write me back and she awnserded her phone 1 time out of about the 50 times i called her she wouldnt call me back and she is my best friend but it just seems 2 me that she just way 2 busy 2 be talking 2 me and like is that a good friend or not becuz im just saying when shes around me its never like she blowing me off but ever since she took a trip 4 the summer she just doing 2 much 2 call hert best friend i know this question might sound stupid but im just saying just help me out becuz i dnt like having a FAKE friend

2007-06-25 03:20:08 · 13 answers · asked by [[iM .]] K3LViN'S L4DY ~ 3 in Friends

2007-06-25 03:19:59 · 17 answers · asked by Kutie22 2 in Family

hi i have a dilemma. first of all i have agirlfriend who i am quite happy with however i like to flirt im no cheat never have been and never will but i still like looking at beautiful women. however today i saw this bbw in the shop who i fancy and im sure she fancies me we havent seen each other for ages we spoke she said im surprised u remembered me i replied with "i always remember a pretty face" she blushed a little anyway in the car park we said goodbye to eachother and as i drove past her she smiled and i looked at her lovely rear end then i said im just admiring the view she responded with a smile. my question is do u think she will think i was coming on too strong and forward or wud she be flattered or will she assume im saying she is fat? i hope i didnt offend her and let it be said i wud never go with someone else

2007-06-25 03:18:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think it is

2007-06-25 03:13:43 · 20 answers · asked by surfer_ade_uk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiancee and I decided not to go crazy with getting each other a wedding gift however, I feel like I should send her a little something the morning of the wedding day. Anyone have any ideas from past experience? I was thinking having one of my groomsmen bring her flowers but I feel like thats boring.

2007-06-25 03:13:17 · 40 answers · asked by Juice911 1 in Weddings

Groom is our cousin, but kids call him "Uncle." We are a small but close family, and to date, the kids have been involved and/or invited to all the family weddings. Bride is 41 & this is her first wedding too; she has said "no kids invited." No flower girls, no ring bearer, no jr bridesmaids, etc. My girls are 14 & 11 and very mature. Money is NOT the issue. I'm hurt and want to skip her shower. Kids are hurt, as they wanted to see their "uncle" get married. 90 yr old grandma of groom is devasted the whole family won't be at reception. Your thoughts on this couple and on a fitting shower gift if you think I should go. Will award points for best answer. Thanks.

2007-06-25 03:12:39 · 30 answers · asked by tiggyman41 3 in Weddings

One of my best friends is getting married. We've kept in touch over the years and she's back home and getting married. My ex best friend who I haven't talked to in a few years got married 2 years ago and will also be there. I'm the only one left out of our little group who is single with no prospects in sight. Everyone has become reconnected and they all seem "closer" than ever. It will be family and everyone else is coupled up. I am happy for them but don't want to be "singled" out because of my "singledom".

Is it even worth my time to go all alone? There's no chance of the situation changing before then. I was only invited because I ran into her at her job and she felt obligated to invite me, the wedding is less than 2 weeks away. I haven't RSVP'd the invited came over the weekend. Help!!!

2007-06-25 03:10:26 · 15 answers · asked by nkpowell 1 in Weddings

Are you friends? Do you call each other to talk everyday? What if you have kids...do you talk more than other couples? What seems to be the normal after a divorce?

2007-06-25 03:09:56 · 25 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So can a person cheat on their spouse even though they love them. Or do you think they have to stop loving them to do it...My husband cheated on me while he was stationed in germany (we were seperated for a long time before i could get here) He says he loves me and always did, that he was just lonely and she was always there when he got drunk and she reminded him of me (bs if you ask me) I just don't get how you can love someone and still do it...I mean i was lonely but i only wanted him, not any guy with his build/coloring would have worked for me...He was suppose to want me and only me, i shouldn't have been replacable! So what do you think, did he/could he have still loved me while doing this?

2007-06-25 03:06:59 · 45 answers · asked by mrs.DJ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He is a Momma's boy and went to his mother's. We own a house and I am currently living in without him. Kids are missing him and so am I.

2007-06-25 03:05:26 · 5 answers · asked by momma 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and I had sex together for the first time (although we both aren't virgins) a few days ago. He lasted about 11 seconds and apologised.
Today we went to go again, but hes the romantic type and spent about an hour making out before actually getting my hint that we should just do it already.
But after he got the condom he couldnt get it up, even after I tried for ages.
Is this normal? Do you think this will change or are some guys just crap in bed?

2007-06-25 03:02:28 · 16 answers · asked by jeska102 1 in Singles & Dating

My on and off bf of 10 years and I have officially broke up it has been bad the past 6 months though. Last yr we decided to be together for good we were finally done with school and ready to start our life together so I packed up left my family and friends and moved 1,000 miles away for him. Now we broke up and I feel awful, his life is going to be exactly the same but mines not, I'm moving back to florida and I have nothing there now, no job no apartment, I am going to live between friends and families house until I can get a place of my own. I'm so angry at him. I don't know if I should still talk to him and be friends when I have so much hatred towards him he lied and cheated on me but I still love him. I'm scared about starting all over again, I thought I was going to be with him forever. I feel like I'm never going to be happy again and most days I could care less if I wake up. I feel I changed alot within the past yr and I just want my old happy fun self back. Is that possible?

2007-06-25 03:01:27 · 8 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Marriage & Divorce

just wondering

2007-06-25 02:49:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi i'm italian girl,i'm 15(soon 16)years old...How are you?

2007-06-25 02:48:36 · 6 answers · asked by little vera 3 in Singles & Dating

OK I need to know if I'm being out of order here.

We get married one Saturday next May and I have just found out a good friends of my husband to be is getting married on the Sunday ( Its a bank holiday).
Problem is I don't want to go to a wedding the day after mine - it's meant to be a special day and that should at least last a weekend! He however, wants to go and is refusing not to. I'd rather we spent our first day as man and wife together, not watching someone else get married.

Am I being unreasonable and what should I do?

2007-06-25 02:48:06 · 17 answers · asked by gwen 2 in Weddings

2007-06-25 02:44:26 · 33 answers · asked by abina s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-25 02:43:28 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I would like to move out of state with my child in the future and am trying to set the right course of action. I know the laws that pertain to this matter and think that the father will fight me(and probably win,like always). If I moved, would he be able to somehow legally make me return to this state? We were never married, had a short relationship, and I am the custodial parent. I do everything in the best interest of my child. Any advice on how to get around the law in trying to move to a different state?

2007-06-25 02:38:57 · 5 answers · asked by k b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

anwser

2007-06-25 02:37:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I can tell it is recent...a single friend of mine spotted it, he has a pic and everything, and she recognized him! I am in shock even though we have been having problems..we live together in a house that I own. Yes, I know I need to kick him out. I am still in shock though, should ask about the ad when I tell him he has to leave? I dont want to get in another big argument with him, I just want him out!

2007-06-25 02:32:06 · 11 answers · asked by eastcoastdebra 3 in Singles & Dating

there are no children involved ,no property and they've been seperated for over two years.

2007-06-25 02:30:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

On Saturday I went to take my wife shopping, then dinner in the Manhatten, The we got Henna Tattoos.. then we went home,
sunday we took the family to the beach then at night we went to the neighborhood fair.

How about you?

2007-06-25 02:22:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-25 02:21:00 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Just for fun. Its the debate (Not argument !!!!) at my home too many times. And finally we close the subject with out an answer.

Just want to know how many others feel about the subject?

2007-06-25 02:19:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are getting married in June next year.

My future MIL thought it would be a great idea if we stayed at the same hotel they are (on a different floor of course), and meet up for breakfast. She emailed this suggestion to me, but i've been away for a week and didn't get a chance to reply. I now have an email saying that she's made the bookings - she even has a breakfast reservation number! So keen is she for us to stay that she's offered to pay.

This is very kind of her, but i couldn't help but find out some more details, so i contacted the hotel. The rooms are in fact next to eachother, and we are booked in to a Spa Suite, and she, her husband and daughter (11) are in the Queen Premier.

I'm fairly uncomfortable with it all. Is it weird to not want to spend our wedding night in the next room to them, or even in the same hotel? I'm also not keen on the breakfast either. I feel ungrateful if we decline her offer, would we be wrong to?

My fiance isn't fussed either way >.<

2007-06-25 02:19:14 · 24 answers · asked by wake_up_wendy 2 in Weddings

Wat do ya think?

2007-06-25 02:14:17 · 7 answers · asked by J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well me and my girlfriend were at the movies and there was a preview with some girls in bikinis. She had gotten mad at me for looking but she got over it. Then a couple hours later she asked me what excactly was I looking at. I didn't answer and she got pissed off at me and she still is...
What do I tell her? I don't know what to say and I don't want to lose her. Please help me..

2007-06-25 02:12:42 · 13 answers · asked by cypress_0511 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-25 02:11:17 · 29 answers · asked by Kayjay 3 in Marriage & Divorce