Family & Relationships - 25 June 2007

i am a jehovah's witness and we don't do wild things like talke about sex and stuff like that that's why i am not apart of the crowd but my sister is she is almost popular she is 18 and all of the guys just love and trust she is not a virgin but i still am how do i get people to like me even though i am a jehovah's witness or better yet how do get over being jealous of my sister just because she is a wild chick and i'm not, do i just be myself or do i become just like her? I need your help?

2007-06-25 04:00:27 · 7 answers · asked by lfty6578 1 in Family

me and my older brother are extremely close. we tell each other everything and spend a lot of time together, its almost like we're best friends. Recently, iv started to find him quite attractive and when hot guys come up to me and sound interested i start to think to myself "will they treat me as well as my brother does?" etc!!
i really want help on this situation because it's frustrating me and im getting quite upset over it, i should be enjoying my teenage years with boys and not mis judging them!! i know its a strange situation and i would really like some help on it!! What can i do??!?!?!?

2007-06-25 04:00:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Any women out there who have received something that they liked for their 40th?

2007-06-25 03:59:21 · 9 answers · asked by me4tennessee 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know too many women who are paying alimony, lost their kids more than half the time and/or are getting NO child or Spousal support from exhusbands.

2007-06-25 03:55:49 · 13 answers · asked by tiaburkeangry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Crime 1:

I dropped two cheetos on the floor by accident, because it was the bottom of the bag and there are a lot of small pieces at the bottom, and because I was watching television while I was pouring. That day I also took the last brownie and piece of pizza, and didn't put the brownie tray into the dishwasher and didn't throw out the pizza box.

Punishment

Does it make any sence that I should have to sweep the whole kitchen floor, do the kitty litter, sweep the laundry room, throw away the pizza box, clean the brownie container, and be grounded for the rest of the day and all of the next day from the computer, ps2, and television?

Crime 2:

My sister clogs the toilet and leaves it there for days and days so she doesn't have to plunge it.

Punishment:

If I want to take a shower without the bathroom stinking I have to plunge it myself even when my sister is right there and refuses to do it. I didn't plunge it, of course, and my "parent" won't make her.

2007-06-25 03:55:15 · 15 answers · asked by Dan 3 in Family

can anyone please give me some advice on how to write a bridal shower thank you card. I know you are supposed to make it personal and say about they gift they gave you.. but do i say something like 'thank you for coming to my bridal shower- it meant alot to me having you there..'
thanks everyone for your help!

2007-06-25 03:55:03 · 12 answers · asked by stephanie 6 in Weddings

My wife and I have been thinking about moving from our small town of 3,000 people to the Minneapolis/St.Paul area. We both have great careers and our kids love living in our small town. But we both feel we can do so much better, emotionally and financialy in the big city. Our kids are 4 and 8. They are both very good kids, very out going, smart, energetic and make friends very easily.

My wife and I feel that we have so much more we can offer our relationship and our family in the big city. We have no family and very few friends in our small town. Sometimes it seems that we might be being selfish by moving away.

2007-06-25 03:54:19 · 16 answers · asked by Just Life, Trying To Live It. 5 in Family

why do guys continually play mind games with girls? is it really neccessary? its not enough to know that a girl could be into you, you have to play mind games. why can't guys be straight up?

now, im not sexist, i know girls do it too, but not nearly as much as guys.
i'm just trying to get some insight as at why it is felt neccessary.

2007-06-25 03:54:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-25 03:53:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just dont know.. love is so confusing.. like is there really anyone out there.. that dont just think about sex all the time..

2007-06-25 03:49:23 · 4 answers · asked by Carrolyn <3 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-25 03:48:31 · 3 answers · asked by pedestrian1990 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are separated and I just found out that he is having me followed and someone is spying on me. I am really freaked out, but i don't know what to do. I don't really want to get police involved, what options do i have?

2007-06-25 03:47:18 · 29 answers · asked by no name girl 5 in Marriage & Divorce

we were together for 2 years we broke up 5 month ago, he has been goin out with someone for about a month but he wont talk to me at all, an there is a lad i like an my ex cant look at him or talk to him anymore people think he is going to end up wanting me back what do you think please help???

2007-06-25 03:45:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-25 03:45:44 · 1 answers · asked by maggie l 1 in Family

Before me and my husband got married, there was a lady who use to call at home to speak to my husband. So one day i asked my husband jokingly if he has ever dated the lady, he refused and said she was only a friend. He had even dined with this lady while he was away for work in London and while we were together. All i knew was she is his friend. They met during one of his holidays before we ever met each other. One day i was in the study looking for some documents when my eyes fell on a plastic bad tied in a bundle. I pick it up, untied it to fine out what it was, It was a collection of letters and the first one i could lay my hands on was a letter from this lady, telling him how much she loved and missed him. In short, love declaration. I was shocked, and i thought why would he lie to me especially as its his past? I confronted him, and all he said was that, its the past and its nothing to worry about. I'm angry and worried that he lies about something so small..........please help!

2007-06-25 03:44:37 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We know that Jesus is son of god ok, now The question is who is the god son of ??

Please I am seriously about that. thanks..

2007-06-25 03:43:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I need some good ideas because all the plans I had made got thrown out the window when I rolled my ankle. Help me out here, gift ideas, things to do are all welcome.

2007-06-25 03:43:32 · 3 answers · asked by NCSMALLBIZ.COM 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently was married and it was a low-key affair. Alot of people just a non-formal dinner and such. After the wedding and getting home we of course opened our gifts and after opening them I realized I didn't get even a card from my sisters(Who I am very close to).I am not really a materialistic person so the gift itself is inconsiquential. One of them contributed a great deal to the planning and setup of the wedding and while I don't know exactly probably some financial contribution. She is ussually very good about giving cards and such. The other is a little down and out with finances right now and did give me a card earlier so I didn't expect anything, My wife fears that things may have been lost in the shuffle. Do I question them and chance insulting them? or do I not and chance that if their card or cards got lost than other less forgiving guest may have also been misplaced and will not get specific thank you cards for their gifts?

2007-06-25 03:43:09 · 16 answers · asked by Unavailable 1 in Weddings

Great...just great. I am going to a beach house this weekend hoping to get away from all my worries and drama. But now I find out the worst thing. I have to spend it watching my little cousin and her friend. They are only a year or two younger than me but are so immature. I was going to finish writing articles for this magazine but now I can't. And I can't bring a friend because it's not my beach house. I don't know what to do. Any ideas? They are 11. Thanks.

2007-06-25 03:41:06 · 5 answers · asked by tiff<3jay 2 in Family

what do guys think of girls with braces?

2007-06-25 03:40:26 · 7 answers · asked by xo_your_mom 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is one year younger then me, and im going into 8th grade. Some people at my school think that dating someone younger means your desprete, and that if your a guy dating a younger girl, thats fine. but if your a girl dating a younger guy, thats dumb. what do u think? and PLEASE DONT tell me that im too young.

2007-06-25 03:40:18 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

where to find reasonably priced engagement rings not looking to buy online

2007-06-25 03:40:06 · 17 answers · asked by gnbl23 1 in Weddings

Do you think they would be proud of what you have acheived with your life today?

2007-06-25 03:39:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-25 03:38:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wasmarried a year ago+1day today and had a very disappointing 1st anniver. I was told not to say a piece of my wedding cake by the bakery because they would make me a mini wedding cake for my one year anniver. I did just that and when I asked for my anniver. cake,I called 2 weeks before as instructed and was told they don't keep records and what type of cake was it they said ok it will be ready for me the day before my anniver. My husband and I went to pick up the cake and the cake was not even the same color(mine was a white buttercream frosted this was a chocolate) they said there was nothing they could do, we took the cake just to have a cake for our special day. My husband called back and they said we don't make special cakes for the 1st anniver. you got your cake. I thought the whole point was to have your wedding cake on your 1st anniver. I had been to several bakery's and they were all advertising this "free" 1st anniver. cake Victoria Sweets triangle area, NC

2007-06-25 03:37:18 · 10 answers · asked by Hart 1 in Weddings

How would you spend your day off if you had two kids ages 4 and 8? You have no money, you don't live on a lake and you have no relatives close by. What do you do for the next 8 hours?

2007-06-25 03:36:31 · 17 answers · asked by Just Life, Trying To Live It. 5 in Family

At times I feel horrible about my self.. like when something does not go right. I have been rejected alot in my life.. and I feel fat or just not good enough for anyone.. what should i do to make me feel better..

2007-06-25 03:31:19 · 8 answers · asked by Carrolyn <3 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm scared my best friend wants me to go over to some guys house with her but i'm scared and i told my boyfriend abut it and i told him i wouldn't go but she reallys wants me to go and in my heart i konw that for him i won't go. WHAT TO DO?

2007-06-25 03:30:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I'm 16 and I was dating this guy for about a month but then he broke up with me because "he still had some feelings for his ex & he wanted to straighten them out before dating again." Well I was fine with that & we stayed best friends during that time.
Then about a month later he asked me out again saying that he thinks he got everything worked out. Now 2 weeks later, he broke up with me again for the same reason and we're still friends (with the promise that we may go out again someday).
He mentioned staying single for awhile to sort out his feelings, but then yesterday asked out one of his girl pals (i think joking-ly).
So I have no idea what to think of him anymore - he is such a nice, sweet guy & now I'm starting to see him as a jerk.

What do you think I should do & tell him? I mean he is my best guy friend and I thought he was the best guy ever & now I don't know what to do or how to feel.
Any advice would be helpful, thanks!

2007-06-25 03:27:53 · 9 answers · asked by Sasha 3 in Singles & Dating

looking for ideas

2007-06-25 03:24:25 · 25 answers · asked by surfer_ade_uk 2 in Singles & Dating