Family & Relationships - 25 June 2007

My husband and I split up temporarily and now he is seeing this other person. She is nasty. She has no problem posting innapropriate pics of herself on the net in compromising positions and this is the type of person I do not want around my son. My husband and I were fine, and working toward reconcilliation when she came into our lives. Now he doesnt want to pull our family back together. Does anyone have any ideas or techniques learned to convince him to stop this separation? We do belong together but I dont have faith in god or karma anymore. Any suggestions?

2007-06-25 04:42:05 · 31 answers · asked by Ms.Take 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm just curious as to what flowers should be done for the wedding?

My girls [and I] are having simple flowers. They'll either carry a single rose or three and I'll either carry three or six - all with the babies breath & tied with a ribbon.

Other than that, what flowers are supposed to be at a wedding? Please don't say, "Whatever you want!" because that doesn't help. Are there supposed to be other flowers at the ceremony? What about the reception? It's going to be at my Dad's house, outside.

2007-06-25 04:40:17 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4 in Weddings

I don't have a kid yet, but I know for a fact that I would love him more then the kid, I'm not sure if that is wrong or not? Am i supposed to love him more or less then my boyfriend? And is it wrong to be a little upset if he loves his kid more then me? I want him to love me more then anyone, like I love him and i even told him I would love him more then my son/daughter and he said he feels the same
but also, i told him i didn't want kids and that i couldn't deal with it, and he told me i could leave and he would keep the kid
but other times he said he loves me more then anyone and would easily choose me over the kid

2007-06-25 04:39:27 · 14 answers · asked by Jenny J 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is going to be deployed in the near future. I am working now. I have an opportunity to do an internship while he is gone in a field that I am very interested in. Internship = free, so my income will be nil. His military pay is plenty to support us.

Do you think it is selfish of me to do the internship while he is deployed? Honestly my job now bores me to tears and this internship would probably make the time go faster.

Thanks in advance!

2007-06-25 04:37:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just started dating someone (my first bf) and so obviously i have never done any of that stuff....We have been going out exactly one month now, and he recently went up my shirt. I should've stopped him! because i'm not comfortable with it yet, but i didn't! Don't preach me about it, i know i shouldn't have let him if i wasnt ready, i made a mistake! How do i tell him not to again, when he'll just reply that i let him b4? I really need help, please no rude answers or comments.

2007-06-25 04:35:55 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and if you are not married, would you expect to change your name when you do get married?
What are the pros and cons of taking your husband's surname?

2007-06-25 04:34:05 · 18 answers · asked by SLF 6 in Marriage & Divorce

**Men**: What would you do if you were married and a couple of lesbians wanted to have a threesome with you so one of the would get pregnant with your child? Would you say maybe? Yes? No?

**Women**: What would you do if you found out that your husband told the lesbians that he would think about it and never told you about any of this?

hehe =P

2007-06-25 04:32:57 · 17 answers · asked by Zarahel 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am an African American female that has been married to a slightly younger Lithuanian male for almost two years. We never really dated (we have been together a total of three years and this is NOT a green card marriage) so we are still learning about each other. I have sought an online relationship to make up for the missing elements in our marriage. I have found a Russian man, seven years younger, and 225 miles away, that makes me feel alive again. He has an African American girlfriend but we have discussed having a discrete intimate relationship. I love my husband, but I can’t get this new man of my mind. I have been incredibly needy as well as jealous of his girlfriend. How do I contain these feelings and move on? How do I effectively communicate with my husband that I would like him to give me what the “other man” does without emasculating him and destroying our marriage?

2007-06-25 04:31:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my girlfriend have been "together" for about two weeks, not a long time at all. But we've been friends and we've been dating for about 4 months. Anyways, the other day we went to an adult shop, just for kicks, with a friend of ours. Well, while we were there looking at the adult dvd cases, she starts backing up on to my groin and she start to slightly move her hips on my genitals. Is this a good sign that she is ready to be intimate?

2007-06-25 04:29:33 · 33 answers · asked by John C 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and his 3rd cousin are really close......i understand there relationship hes like her big brother....my problem is that sometime he will choose her over me and im his wife......this has been going on for about 2 years now.....how would you handle it????

2007-06-25 04:28:49 · 30 answers · asked by ~Blondie~ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my parents know my brother and me real parents but want tell us what should we do to find them.

2007-06-25 04:28:12 · 2 answers · asked by tyesha b 2 in Friends

I have a wounderful friend who has had a death in her family. I don't know what to say or do for her. She is the type of person who is the one with all the answers now she needs my help and I don't know what to do.

2007-06-25 04:27:46 · 3 answers · asked by HELP ME!!! 2 in Friends

Is there a correct way to ride a man?
How do you ride you man, girls?
Where do you put you legs?

(Just doing some research in sex)
Will be asking more questions soon

2007-06-25 04:26:55 · 22 answers · asked by Bonnie B 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband tells me all the time that his girlfriend said hi or that she would like to met me...He will say call before you come home so I can run my girlfriend off...(sometimes I let him know and sometimes I dont) but he is a joker so I take it as a joke... He works alot of hrs and I know he is at work becouse I hear him on the radio that he uses for work. But my thing is should I be worried and maybe he is not joing with me... so I be concerened? he been togther 10 yrs and married 7 yrs. we have 2 beautiful kids and i dont want to get hurt or dont want them to get hurt!!! mostly i dont want them to be hurt!! so do u think hes joking or is he beening for real!!!

2007-06-25 04:26:31 · 20 answers · asked by mlscsp2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it ever o.k. to have a "one night and then its over" -- thing? Like -- we are both attracted 2 each other... both want to... both are hesitant, for obvious reasons. But she's suggesting an "our night" type thing - and then it'll be over.

What do you think?

2007-06-25 04:25:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Describe your most horrifying wedding experience. What went wrong? (It doesn't matter if you were in the wedding part, or came as a guest, I want to read about a wedding that really turned into a mess.)

2007-06-25 04:24:27 · 14 answers · asked by Lucy 3 in Weddings

we aren't planning on getting married till august 8th 2009

2007-06-25 04:20:34 · 38 answers · asked by Megs 1 in Weddings

I have been dating a guy for 1 year and 3 months. I truly love him and marry him one day. His dad got a serious health problem last week and he was forced to fly home and spend time with him and his mom. The dad is supposed to have serious surgery this week. Yesterday I think he went out to dinner with his parents and his ex girlfriend that lives in his hometown. He dated her for 5 years and they have been broken up for 3 years and are "just friends". She has flown here twice (before i knew him) to visit him and the city and was staying at his house a week. First time she visited they had sex once which according to him was a misstake and just made them realize that it was wrong. Second time they did not have sex and are friends. Now he is dating me and despite that, she suggested visiting him again a month ago. He declined beacuse of a work trip. He knows I would not be ok and she will not visit. I know tough situation with dad but I think he is sending the wrong signals to everyone??

2007-06-25 04:20:12 · 5 answers · asked by losing my mind 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a jealous co-worker(Sue) who talks negatively behind my back. She tries to recruit as many allies by talking bad about me and she recruited a new ally - Jen.

Jen is trying to match me up with her best friend Matt, who I suspected to be her boyfriend for months. She claims she wants to match us up cause I’m a nice person and new to the area. She also mentioned she is trying to get back with her ex and he is a jealous guy but doesn’t want her Best guy friend to be left alone. So she wants to match me up with him.

Of course I said no. Out of the blue she mentions Sue's name as a good match. She mentioned it as if she didn’t really know her. I smell a scam. Do you? What is Jen trying to do? What should I do?

2007-06-25 04:19:18 · 4 answers · asked by Black Hair D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Couple working in UK

2007-06-25 04:18:41 · 10 answers · asked by Raj S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So part of the reason I left my husband is b/c he had no job...so for a 1 1/2 year I paid for everything and went to work everyday while he sat on his ***. (there were other things too like drugs and him hitting me) So I leave him and getting a divorce and I meet this other guy and turns out he has no job and sits around at his parents house all day. I'm now his "Sugar Momma. Thats just silly! JUST SILLY! So um my question is what the hell is wrong with me? Why can't I go and find a "sugar daddy" instead of being a stupid stupid person and falling for stupid stupid people? Someone help me I'm not mentally well.

2007-06-25 04:16:52 · 13 answers · asked by Lovely Lady 27 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-25 04:16:45 · 10 answers · asked by Lue R 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband passed away in April. We have little girls. I am 22 years old. Recently, I have been going online and his friends chat with me to see how I'm doing. One friend in particular, chats n calls me. He told me that if he were ever to get married n have kids of his own, he'd still love mines more. It's only been 2 months since my husband passed away but I am starting to like his friend. What should I do?

2007-06-25 04:14:58 · 23 answers · asked by Exquisite 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and My fiance' have this pastor, wonderful man, he does not want anything for his service to wed us. We really want to give him something. He won't take money, he will give it right back to us. But we want to show our feelings and a way of saying thank you. This man is wonderful, he has bent over backwards for us. what would you suggest that we give him?

2007-06-25 04:12:04 · 20 answers · asked by destiny474 1 in Weddings

I have a huge problem, i need some help. Im 18 and I have been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs now, but i dont think im in Love any more..Ive reciently been going over to a "friends" house to talk. hes always there for me and makes me feel better..I love being around him...but i dont think i could ever see myself with him...Me and my boyfriend are always fighting every couple of days..it has been that way since the start...I want to leave him but ive been with him since i was 14 and we have 2 kids together so i cant imangine my life with out him..hes all i know.I hate putting my kids through this.Everytime i suggest that me and him take a break he always gets all pissed off and starts to cry(he fakes it) so i feel sorry for him and talk about something else.Im just to the point right now i dont care what happens as long as i have my kids.Hes always saying give him one more chance that he will change, and he does for a couple of days and hes right back to his same stuff again..Please help

2007-06-25 04:11:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I can't stand having clothes on when I sleep but I know many prefer a T-Shirt or PJs ..What about you?

2007-06-25 04:09:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-25 04:04:08 · 1 answers · asked by ratherbondabeach 1 in Singles & Dating

I was just at a wedding and I like how they did their favors- 1 item and 1 candy per guest. I already bought perfect pair candles for mine and though it would be nice to little boxes of jelly belly beans in pear flavor - mixed with other "fall" flavors. Here the question- I like to do everything in advance but if I am using jellybeans- How far in advance could I make them? Do jelly beans get stale or go bad?

2007-06-25 04:02:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

A few months ago, I would try to call my husband when it was well after when he should have been home, like 7:30 or 8:00 just to see if he was okay and working late. However, I would keep getting his voice mail on his cell. I found out from his sister that he was ignoring my phone calls and lying about where he was. He's traveled out of town (about 100 miles) a few times to finish up at his old job. Every time he has said he'd be home by dinner, but when I call to see if he is okay (because of the long commute) his voice mail immediately comes on each time from around 6:00 to 8:00. He finally calls me after 8 to say he's just started on the way home. The last time he said he was finished and didn't have to go back, but then all the sudden he had to go back today. I can't help but think he's lying to me again. Really, I keep trying to trust him but it just keep happening over and over. Am I a fool?

2007-06-25 04:01:30 · 11 answers · asked by StormyC 5 in Marriage & Divorce

There is only 1 vegetarian attending, I have checked and triple checked lol... we are making her some grilled field mushrooms, AT HER REQUEST, it's what she wants.

Grilled chicken (various marinades such as BBQ, Thai curry, plain, garlic and herb)

Sausages (really good ones from an organic butcher who makes them himself, flavours include pork and leek, pork and apple, lamb and mint, aberdeen angus beef, and some haggis ones (in hounour of our Scottish roots)

Salmon, griddled and served with hollandaise sauce

Green salad (various dressings available)
Coleslaw (Home made)
Tomato, mozzarella and basil salad

Hot New Potatoes with butter and Herbs

Home made breads and rolls, all the obvious dips and sauces and condiments you could want.

Dessert will be strawberries and cream and wedding cupcakes.

2007-06-25 04:01:15 · 40 answers · asked by sparkleythings_4you 7 in Weddings