I have a jealous co-worker(Sue) who talks negatively behind my back. She tries to recruit as many allies by talking bad about me and she recruited a new ally - Jen.
Jen is trying to match me up with her best friend Matt, who I suspected to be her boyfriend for months. She claims she wants to match us up cause I’m a nice person and new to the area. She also mentioned she is trying to get back with her ex and he is a jealous guy but doesn’t want her Best guy friend to be left alone. So she wants to match me up with him.
Of course I said no. Out of the blue she mentions Sue's name as a good match. She mentioned it as if she didn’t really know her. I smell a scam. Do you? What is Jen trying to do? What should I do?
2007-06-25 04:19:18 · 4 answers · asked by Black Hair D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Keep your personal relationships out of the work place.
2007-06-25 04:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your guns and don't let everything somebody says get to you or over-analyze this situation. You said no now do a good on you job and move on. These are your co-workers not your life-partner. So don't let them influence your life.
2007-06-25 04:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by All the way live! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds weird but i don't know if it's a set up. just blow them off and stay away from them. catty co workers can be the worst. i wouldn't do anything social with them and keep your personal life away from them. no one needs this kind of drama.
2007-06-25 04:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand your position. 1st of all if she is accusing and back stab you, be at peace because your conscience is clear. concentrate on your duties, be humble and know that if you can keep your cool no matter how great the slander is, something good will turn out finally. winners never quit.
2007-06-25 04:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋