I don't have a kid yet, but I know for a fact that I would love him more then the kid, I'm not sure if that is wrong or not? Am i supposed to love him more or less then my boyfriend? And is it wrong to be a little upset if he loves his kid more then me? I want him to love me more then anyone, like I love him and i even told him I would love him more then my son/daughter and he said he feels the same
but also, i told him i didn't want kids and that i couldn't deal with it, and he told me i could leave and he would keep the kid
but other times he said he loves me more then anyone and would easily choose me over the kid
2007-06-25 04:39:27 · 14 answers · asked by Jenny J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are what 14? when you hold your own child you will feel such an intense love for that baby that everyone else becomes secondary. and if you don't then place the child for adoption immediately as you aren't fit to be a parent
2007-06-25 04:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people are stunned and overwhelmed by the deep love they feel for their babies. t just happens - a gift, to help you cope through the sleepness nights.
My friend and I did a naughty survey - we asked everyone we knew if they loved their husbands or children more. Only one woman (and she is a born again Chrsitian, so is brain washed) said the children. All the men said they loved their wives more than the children.
You can't tell how you will feel, until the time comes.But as you don't have children, this is a hypothetical question. I'd leave things as they are until you know you want a child.
2007-06-25 04:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have a kid yet, how do you know you will be this way? Men CHEAT...why sacrifrcie your own flesh and blood for a piece of sex? If you feel you will be this way, then you will be a disgrace to ALL mothers. That man will leave you quiker than the speed of light for another woman. How dare you think you would put a man over your own flesh and blood (WHo will ALWAYS be your flesh and blood). If you feel that you will be that type of mother, then you SHOULD TRY NOT TO BECOME A MOTHER. Shame on you for even thinking about something like that. Women like that have low self esteem and low elf respect for their selves and their child. Hands down, I will LEAVE A MAN FOR MY CHILD. It is a shamed that you feel the opposite. U need counseling.
2007-06-25 04:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by EmpreSS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you love your child more or less than a boyfriend? That's one thing that's good about the heart, you can't ever run out of room for love. Besides, the love of a child is different than the love of a boyfriend. Just as the love for one boyfriend is never the same as the love for another boyfriend. It's a different kind of love, yet equally valid.
2007-06-25 04:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh thats an easy one. find any day care like YMCA or something and im sure you will find guys ur age there that like kids. i worked at an after-school care place for 3 years and i met a lot of guys in high school working there and all seemed to be great with kids...i mean they kinda have to be, they work with them.
2016-04-01 03:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is totally F'ed up.....First off you don't have a kid so you can not say that. Secondly, if you truly feel this way, please don't ever have your kids as they should be the love of your life. They are physically part of you. If you can not understand that than you have no business having kids!!!!
2007-06-25 04:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by Lookin-2-Talk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they're different kinds of love so they won't overlap so to speak. But from what i understand, you have to love your children more because they're always gonna be associated with you and if you give all your love to your bf and he leaves you then all that love would be for nothing.
Besides, children need all the love in the world.
2007-06-25 04:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the heck is wrong with you? you don't have any kids and you don't want them...so why even ask? just don't have kids please...we've got enough idiots out there already.
and your mentality scares me, I would hope that a mother would love her children!
2007-06-25 04:45:07 · answer #8 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what happens when yall break up and yall had kids?
And another thing...your kids will NEVER forgive you..believe me and then u lost your man and your kids. Then you'll end up alone...think about it!
2007-06-25 04:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by twdy412 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, it is THAN, THAN THAN THAN THAN THAN not THEN!!!!
Second, you have no CLUE about what you're even talking about, since you admitted you don't even have a child (not kid) yet. A "kid" is a baby goat.
2007-06-25 04:46:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋