Family & Relationships - 25 June 2007

why is it that guys can't be in a realationship with a girl without sex and still be cool with no sex .... especially if they are not married to them. and then when they are told from the get go that your not for sex they still think they are going to change your mind and then get mad when they find out the didn't change your mind and then they get mad at you because"your always turning them on but you don't deliever" but all you do is kiss them and not a passonate kiss just a plain kiss ?

2007-06-25 08:17:44 · 4 answers · asked by a1pisces90 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

her need to sex may force her to have s-e-x with some one else?
and how does women usually find someone to have s-e-x with him in such this situations? how many percent is posible that it happened?

2007-06-25 08:16:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There is this guy that lives next to me and he always trys to make a move and i dont have a crush on him but hes really hot. anyways he always says that im prude and i actually want to make-out with him but i get really nervous and im afraid im going to do something wrong. (kissing tips) and my crush is his bff and everyone told me that he liked me but w/e

2007-06-25 08:16:31 · 5 answers · asked by Im*Crushed 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex of 3 years ago is now married, every 10-12 months she contacts me.
Last time she was away on business and said she was bored so she thought she'd contact me.
I know it's not flattering but why contact me when her husband was at home, and why does she bother contacting me anyway?
I could really do with some good feedback on this please.

2007-06-25 08:15:36 · 13 answers · asked by Smoking Joe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-25 08:15:16 · 31 answers · asked by alysonbaeza 2 in Singles & Dating

see I love my gf but how can I tell her she is my all and how can I really tell if she is really cheatin on me?

2007-06-25 08:13:11 · 1 answers · asked by Randy a 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey its szweets?
I really like this guy but i dont know if he likes me/ also schools over so i dont know how to contact him of course he did sign his name in my yearbook with his phone number...does tha tmean he sorta likes me? does he want me to call him>? he also said he would take me to the dance then chickened out at the last second. but also he was telling everybody he didnt like me so whats up? HELP! we always talk and stuff and its not like freinds but not really bf and gf? so what should i do?

and i got this answer:
he likes you. but once everyone found out, he freaked out, and then chickened out of the dance and told everyone he didnt like you. but then when he wrote in your yearbook he wanted to let you know that he still liked you. so call him. but dont get mad, because he was jsut nervous and chickened out.
that was a good answer but i still dont know how to call and tell him ok i love you lets date. he told everybody he didnt like me so i dont know. more answers!!!

2007-06-25 08:11:16 · 2 answers · asked by szweets 2 in Singles & Dating

I've recently started to sleep with nothing on, i've gotten into the habbit and now I just can't go back to wearing clothes at night....

Some weekend mornings I get woken up by my parents if they need me to help them with jobs around the house and what not, and some school days if I am not up by 7:15 they check up on me and make sure i'm not still asleep...

I'm scared of one of them walking in on me; it's not happened yet... But there is no lock on my door....

What the hell do I do?! Should I just stop doing it and force myself to wear clothes again? Or should I just tell them.... it would be extremely embarassing to tell them, as we hardly ever talk about things like that... it would just be like - the most embarassing thing to ever.

2007-06-25 08:10:37 · 78 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

For the people who say that they will date someone they're attracted to and had a great personality, regardless of race...

My question is, generally, when you're out somewhere, do you still only tend to look at and approach people of your same color, initially? And if someone of another color happens to approach you, THEN you go for it? I know things such as fear/timidity, surroundings, not being sure if the other person is interested, and certain circumstances can be factors that can either encourage or discourage you...but in all, if skin color doesn't matter to you, are you pretty much equally attracted to all races, or do you still find yourself more partial to your own group, but with "occasional" interest in people of other groups, OR is it strictly on an individual basis?

*Note: Of course this doesn't apply to everyone because not every dates people of other colors...

2007-06-25 08:10:23 · 31 answers · asked by Prima_Donnassassin! 4 in Singles & Dating

A co-worker of mine got married about a year ago. She had a lovely bridal shower, which I attended, and a very small wedding, with only family attending. The couple had originally wanted to have a much larger, more lavish ceremony, but rushed to the alter because she was pregnant. Now, a year later, the couple and their parents have decided to have the lavish ceremony and reception that they had wanted in the first place, with all thier family and friends in attendance. I think that's great, but when I recieved my invitation, I noticed that the couple has registered AGAIN for gifts and is planning on having a 2ond bridal shower. I think this is incredibly tacky, seeing as they had one just a year before and are technically already married. Is it me, or is this just wrong???

2007-06-25 08:08:56 · 45 answers · asked by Rachel-Pit Police-DSMG 6 in Weddings

I invited 40 people, but only 10 RSVP'd (most No's). I'm so afraid that it will only be my immediate family. I am also really scared because I think the same thing will happen at my wedding. It seems as though no one is RSVPing.

2007-06-25 08:08:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

So... my fiance and I have decided not to have alcohol served at the reception because we've both had a lot of family problems/history with it and don't want anything to happen... We've had a TON of complaints from family members, saying that not having an open bar is rude to those who want to drink.

Should we give in so that everyone will stop whining about it and risk a situation from developing, or stand firm and tell everyone to deal with it? We're just really uncomfortable with the thought of some of our family members possibly getting drunk and starting something at the reception.

2007-06-25 08:08:33 · 37 answers · asked by SimplyMe 2 in Weddings

It is very important for the well-being of my family.Thank you.

2007-06-25 08:08:24 · 13 answers · asked by Seal_over 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My freind recently (6 monthes ago) just got diagnosed with type 1 diabetes. Me and my 2 other friends have been with her every step of of the way and have shown our sympothy; trying to understand the disease and understanding ways to help her. She has always been a drama queen but now whenever we are in a fight or she said something kinda mean and we confront her about she throws diabetes up as her sheild and uses it as her excuse. We always expect something like... "WHY DONT YALL CARE ABOUT ME! I HAVE DIABETES!, or I AM SLOWLY DIEING AND YALL DONT CARE, or THIS IS A LIFE AND DEATH DISEASE!" She keeps using these kind of excuses. We really do care and we try to talk to her about how uncomfortable we are in this situation but she just throws up another excuse about diabetes to avoid the question. Its just goten to the point where we dont want to be around her anymore, because we feel like WE are the ones having to deal with the diabetes whenever we are around her. HELP!! What do we do??

2007-06-25 08:08:11 · 5 answers · asked by Marie G 1 in Friends

2007-06-25 08:05:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-25 08:03:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey girls,

Tell me, from a bridesmaid/MOH point of view: What made a friend/family member's wedding a joy to be part of the bridal party? What made it a nightmare? Tell me your Wonderful Bride stories and your bridezilla stories.....

I'm a bride to be, trying to keep my Matron of Honor, my Bridesmaid, and my two stepdaughters in mind with my decisions for my wedding. I am NOT paying for their dresses/shoes/etc (I can't afford it, sorry)...but I've just given them a color at David's Bridal and I'm having them each choose whatever dress style they want in the same color. This way they can be comfortable in their dresses, and choose something that flatters their different body shapes.

They are going to all wear white shoes in whatever style they like...they can buy the shoes wherever they want, so they can have shoes to wear again in the future.

I'm looking for other ideas to make it more a pleasure than a chore, to be part of my wedding party.

2007-06-25 08:02:53 · 16 answers · asked by Kat 5 in Weddings

We have just been in a bit of a rut lately, and I want to let her know I still find her attractive. I would like to bring up ideas of how to spice up our sex life (role play, different positions, stuff of that nature), and am wondering what would be the best way to do this?

I was thinking of picking up something from victorias secret for her and leaving it out somewhere she would see it when she got back from work with a little note saying something to the effect of i cant wait to see you...but afterwards how would you suggest me bringing up the idea of role play, or handcuffs, or games of some sort?

any advice would be appreciated, thanks!!

also, sorry if this question is offensive to anyone

2007-06-25 08:02:33 · 15 answers · asked by n_d_metcalf 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had two children previous to the two I have now. One child passed away and I gave the other child up for adoption. I have pictures and I know they will ask questions about who the childern are, plus I want to tell them when the time is right. I really do not know what the best age or time to tell my childern now about the others. They do understand death, which I'm sure not completely, but enough to know the child is no longer coming back. How should I handle this situation?

2007-06-25 08:02:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 14 and never had a boyfriend before. I am kinda shy. I have ALOT of crushes on guys that I think are hott or just any guys that I like. I do think a lot of guys are hott by the way. But I feel more comfortable around girls......like I can be myself around girls more than I can around guys. And whenever I hold a guys had I feel nervous and uncomfortable.....why is that? I could never imagine myself being in a relationship with a girl or kissing a girl but whenever I get close to a guy like kissing I feel really nervous and VERY uncomfortable....am I a lesbian?? Why am I so uncomfortable around guys?

2007-06-25 08:01:59 · 80 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would be the reason for my husband to have mulitiple emails? One is specifficaly for work and job searching.
Found him on another website I had to idea he joined. And he had no reason to join.

2007-06-25 08:01:07 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-25 08:01:06 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my bff for 8 years, became friends with a girl who has the worst rep in my school. this girl at age 14 gave oral to a 19 year old and done i think any rug possible. my friend and her becam friends last school year. she and her are really close im not even concidered her bff anymore she is. well now my friend barely hangs out with me and my other friends and when she does, she is constantly txting the other girl and ditching us. all last year she started to rebell. she started calling her mom a ***** and sneaking out almost every night and telling her mom she was going to my house when she wasnt. Her new friend pressued her into smoking pot everytime she was with her and getting messed up alot. it didnt really bothrer me untill recently when she told me she got high with her friends with pcp covered weed and was out till 3AM walking around town when the town curfew is 11. and slept over at a guys house she didnt even know and got really drunk.

2007-06-25 07:59:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, How do you officially ask a girl out???? Every girl i ask out took it as "friend" I need to ask a girl out on a date. HOW? What is the best way to become "official with a girl?????

2007-06-25 07:59:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-25 07:58:56 · 8 answers · asked by Laughing Out Loud 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for 6 years, engaged for 2. What can I do? He's agreed to see a therapist, but what do I do in the mean time? I have to see him every day knowing he doesn't love me...

2007-06-25 07:56:54 · 20 answers · asked by Rayne 2 in Marriage & Divorce

not me i have blow my boyfriend mind a few times when he goes all blushy :>
but i would you say a girl is crap what must she been doing wrong

2007-06-25 07:56:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm the maid of honnor in a wedding and am planning a wedding shower. The grooms mother was invited. And today I got an email from the groom RSVPing for HIM and his mother. He was not invited the invitation had only his mothers name on it. The shower is women only. How do I handle this? Is it okay to tell him he's not allow that it's women only? I'm not sure how to go about this, I think it's extremely rude of him to invite himself along.

2007-06-25 07:56:35 · 21 answers · asked by miss_stacey1984 3 in Weddings

2007-06-25 07:55:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

..venue if your bloke was mad about his football team? ie; Upton Park!

2007-06-25 07:54:23 · 31 answers · asked by cockneyboy 2 in Marriage & Divorce