my bff for 8 years, became friends with a girl who has the worst rep in my school. this girl at age 14 gave oral to a 19 year old and done i think any rug possible. my friend and her becam friends last school year. she and her are really close im not even concidered her bff anymore she is. well now my friend barely hangs out with me and my other friends and when she does, she is constantly txting the other girl and ditching us. all last year she started to rebell. she started calling her mom a ***** and sneaking out almost every night and telling her mom she was going to my house when she wasnt. Her new friend pressued her into smoking pot everytime she was with her and getting messed up alot. it didnt really bothrer me untill recently when she told me she got high with her friends with pcp covered weed and was out till 3AM walking around town when the town curfew is 11. and slept over at a guys house she didnt even know and got really drunk.
2007-06-25 07:59:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she then told her mom that she was with her new bff even though she was with a diffferent person the whole night. her mom knows that these girls r bad and told her not to hangout with those girls anynore. she told her mom they were fine and innocent. if u dont know what pcp is heres a link http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=pcp now dont get me wrong i have screwed up my life but i quickly realized it. she hasnt. my question is what shold i do? how should i tell her shes messing up her life? how do i tell her i wont b there for her anymore? if u have any questions or want to know more email me at calihottie_209@yahoo.com thanx.
2007-06-25 08:00:21 · update #1
your friend needs help. you need to tell an adult about this. if this friend of yours is going out of control and you really care for her, then you need to tell an adult. i now this would probably seem harsh or mean to her, but at least you'll have your friend back and she'll have her life back. if you don't do this, think of what could happen when she gets older! how do you think she'll turn out if you don't stop it now! girl, go to some one now and help your friend. she'll thank you later in life....
2007-06-25 08:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ali 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's tough when you lose a friend - and have to watch them spiral out of control. Here's a story:
There was once a donkey and an ox. One day the ox came in and said he was so tired from work. so the donkey said "Why not take tomorrow off - just lie down and refuse to get up." So the ox did just that. Except that the work had to go on and so the Farmer said, "Hitch up the donkey. we have work to do." When the donkey got home that night he was tired and sore from doing the ox's work. And he said, "Fool that i am, I ended up doing your work for you." And they were no longer friends.
The moral of the story - if you want to help your friend, do so in such a manner that will not make his troubles - yours.
That said, you should back off from this girl. You have your own life to live and plan. Remember her fondly, but with her new found actions, you will get into trouble if you hang out with her any more.
This is for your own good - your friend, however, is history.
It's sad when you lose a friend - but that's what's happened.
2007-06-25 08:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry to hear that. You should talk to your friends mom about what she has been doing. I know that you don't want to hurt your friend in any way. But the sooner you tell someone the better it will be better for her even if she doesn't think so. Years ago one of my x-friends who was 9 got oral with a 10 year old boy. She kissed him and everything. I hope everything works out for you and your friend.....
2007-06-25 08:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG....im so sorry....i feel so awful for you...i know its a hard situation when your friend is putting herself in danger and you don't want her to hate you but you have to tell your parents, or her parents. rugs are illegal and even worse then breaking the law...i read your definition of pcp and she could get hurt, you HAVE to tell someone or else you will be an even worse friend and you will fell SOOOO bad if something happend to her that you couldn've prevented.
Please....im begging you to try to get her help from your parents or hers......i don't know you or your friend but i want to be a cop when i get older and so i feel like i should try to help people but i don't know you so i can't help...Only YOU can help your friend.....yyou hhave to tell someone and try to talk to her. If she says she hates yo uand doesn't want to talk to you ever again just tuff it out and it will all be worth it when she is not hurt and alive......when she is older she will thank you.
2007-06-25 08:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not much you can do. ur firend is rebelling, hanging out with the wrong crowd, until she thinks theres somethign wrong with her she isnt going to change. u could try to talking to her but it seems like she needs to get in trouble before she will change her bad ways.
2007-06-25 08:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋