Family & Relationships - 25 June 2007

i am 19 and so is my boyfriend. we have lived together for a year and been together for over 2 years. or sex life is boring and so our we. i feel like im 50 and should be retiring soon we never go out -we never party -we dont go out to dinner unless i buy because he doesn't have the money--he is in alot of debt---we dont go to the movies. we really dont do anything. i dont like that we have the same routine everyday. 1wake up 2go to work 3eat dinner 4sleep and thats everyday!!! it so boring- i told him about how i feel and he doesnt change. i dont know what do to.. HELP

2007-06-25 11:01:26 · 19 answers · asked by aaaaaaaaaa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been dating a guy for over a year. At times he is amazing to me and we get along great but other times he can be rude, and verbally abusive. Lots of people tell me to dump him but i know that i love him without any doubt. I am wondering what i can do to show him how he can be at times because he doesn't realize it.... i DO NOT want to break up, not because i can't support myself and be alone but because i believe he is the one for me, he just needs a little help and we will have a great relationship... thanks

2007-06-25 11:01:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have asked this question to many people who are still happy together after 50 years, and the answers have ranged from being best friends with your spouse to never go to bed mad. What advice could you give to those about to be married?

2007-06-25 10:59:45 · 23 answers · asked by 2 Happily Married Americans 5 in Marriage & Divorce

would you stay in a marriage where your partner is good to you but there is no sex or passion involved?

2007-06-25 10:56:22 · 35 answers · asked by mmm..whynot 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm going to let people know who mine is soon. But isn't this just work for someone to do? Which includes paying for things and taking responsibilities?

2007-06-25 10:56:05 · 10 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Weddings

Does that turn you off? or, does it even matter? My pug watches us have sex, or he's just sitting at the end of the bed. Sometimes he'll try to lick one of us( I know weird) but I mean, it doesn't bother me, I just shoosh him away. It's funny sometimes. This girl is a new partner. Would this bother you, or make you not climax? Ruin the mood?

2007-06-25 10:54:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I talked with my ex wife today.She says she forgave me along time ago .She lost trust in me,accused me of having and emotional affair two years ago.I didn't want a divorce,she took it to far and i begged her to go to counseling with me.She says she forgives me but can never forget.If she really forgave me then why divorce.Is this just a play on words.

2007-06-25 10:51:41 · 9 answers · asked by Rodger M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm dating a man that is 10 years older than me that I have a lot of fun with. he is a nice guy and we have a lot in common. Problem he has been married twice in his past and has a child be each woman. They also live in different states. I have been married once before and have one child so I'm trying to be understanding. The only thing is that he brings the ex wives up and says things that compare me to things they used to do like one used to get drunk and act crazy in which I don't. I'm confused about dating him. I don't like drama and he has to travel a lot for his job going to each place that each one lives. has anyone been through this. I really like him but I don't like the being married twice and him talking about it. I have talked to him and he apologized but i don't know if this will cause drama in the future. He says he loves me so we are serious. should I stay in this?

2007-06-25 10:49:59 · 18 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so you and a guy have sex on a cruise. after sex..he walks you back to your room and the two of you are about to go in, but his cousin walks past, and the 3 of you go to the casino instead. the cousin and him are in a rush to get there cause someones winning money, but he keeps looking back to make sure youre still there, which is really sweet. you get tired and tell the guy youre going back to your room to sleep. he says he's going to go back to your room in a little bit. sure enough, he comes back to your room to sleepover and lay with you. :)

does it sound like hes using me so far..or is it cute and good?

2007-06-25 10:48:37 · 10 answers · asked by angela r 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-25 10:47:54 · 16 answers · asked by pancakes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-25 10:47:44 · 26 answers · asked by Bailey B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going into 11th grade and there is this girl i like that i have liked since about a month ago. I have known here since 6th grade. she used to like me in 8th grade and asked me out but i didnt like her at the time. now she has a boyfriend and they have been going out for about a year and a half. Me and her text every night for at least 4 hours and we hang out occasionally but she is always with her boyfriend and she has a busy schedual. Me and her drank once and some touching went on but thats about it. She also says its ok to do stuff while we are drunk. She is a bit slutty but not too much. She knows that i like her and she said she would date me if she wasnt going out with her boyfriend. What should i do?

2007-06-25 10:45:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so you and a guy have sex on a cruise. after sex..he walks you back to your room and the two of you are about to go in, but his cousin walks past, and the 3 of you go to the casino instead. the cousin and him are in a rush to get there cause someones winning money, but he keeps looking back to make sure youre still there, which is really sweet. you get tired and tell the guy youre going back to your room to sleep. he says he's going to go back to your room in a little bit. sure enough, he comes back to your room to sleepover and lay with you. :)

2007-06-25 10:43:27 · 10 answers · asked by angela r 1 in Singles & Dating

has any of you women/girls here ever kicked a guy in the nuts so hard, that his testicles were aching for a long long time? if yes, why did you do it? and what effect did it have on him?

it happened to me pretty bad, and i'm curious to hear about other situations....so please girls, share your story....

2007-06-25 10:43:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend can't keep erection and gets mad when I complain. He says when he looses weight things will be better and he is not going on viagra unless it don't get better. He's always been about 30 - 40 pounds overweight and never had this bad of an issue. He's always lasted at least a couple minutes. Never got a marathon, but this can't keeping it up is really bugging me. I don't know though...I can't go with out sex for months until he looses weight, but at the same time I don't want to leave him. Any suggestions on how to talk to him about it. Oh yeah, he claims he is still attrached to me and this issue is frusterating to him because he can't make me happy.

10 points best answer

2007-06-25 10:42:58 · 28 answers · asked by ☮ Erica ☮ 5 in Singles & Dating

I want to tell him because there is a dance on the last day but I think there is no point. Should i wait until next year?

2007-06-25 10:40:23 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He was out yesterday for a few beers but it turned into a late one! When you came home he was very drunk and twisted everything I said! Anyway we bickered a little and he got a little nasty with me and grabbed me by the lapels of my shirt, pulling me close and squeezing (I have a bruise just under my jaw today). He's never been like this before but I was so shocked I was actually shaking, he was horrible, I cdn't look at him this evening when I came home from work (he didn't go to work today!) he's been upstairs in bed all evening, maybe he feels bad about what he done, maybe not. Don't know what to do now, what would you do?

2007-06-25 10:40:22 · 16 answers · asked by dusty 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok well since several months ago word got out that I liked this guy. Obviously it was true and it got to him. Everytime I went around him or talked to him he just kind of blushed and acted shy. Well I kind of moved on thinking he was too shy but I couldnt for long. I started liking him again and I told my friend to talk to him. He just doesn't get it. He won't talk to me at all. He already said he thinks I'm pretty but he won't say he likes me or ask me out! He even promised my friend he would talk to me the next time he saw me and I saw him Sunday and he didn't say a word! I don't know what to do! I can't just start liking another guy! HELP!

2007-06-25 10:38:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been friends with this guys for years. We briefly dated but it went sour because of the distance. He now tells me that he is ready to settle down and that he has everything but the relationship. I don't say anything because it went sour before and he hasn't expressed to me that he wants more. He knows that I like him still because i text him the other day telling him so..i figured he would either back off or pursue but he still calls me almost everyday and hasn't mentioned it!!! He's a super shy kind of guy but im starting to give up. I havent formally asked him but why should I? I think i've given enough hints don't you think? There he is calling me now!! LOL

2007-06-25 10:38:26 · 3 answers · asked by Sweet Surrender 2 in Singles & Dating

So I liked this girl from my class and i didn't know how to approach her, until I saw her profile on myspace, so I decided to add her and so on my vacations I chatted with her daily and once we went back to school it was kind of akward for us to talk in person cuz she was always with her friends, and I'm shy as I say, so I didn't talk to her in person much only on the internet, I know she likes me because she's always smiling at me, always checks me out, and when I talked to her a few times in person she shied every time, BUT Here's my problem,Today was my last day of school (High School) and I was decided to tell her How I felt but didn't go to school, So NOW I'm thinking tellling her through Myspace, I feel like it's kind of cheesy or dumb because I won't be making eye contact with her when I tell her or other things, But I won't see her again so The internet its my only chance now, DO YOU THINK IS A GOOD IDEA or NOT?
If not then how can I tell her in another way or something! Thanks

2007-06-25 10:33:46 · 30 answers · asked by Vicz101 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-25 10:29:07 · 7 answers · asked by crawleywog 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-25 10:16:53 · 22 answers · asked by Albinoballs 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-25 10:15:47 · 8 answers · asked by Sari M 1 in Weddings

my mother wants to control all her children who are grown by the way by using blackmail and obligations

2007-06-25 10:13:00 · 5 answers · asked by SHELLY 1 in Family

to do anal anymore.Can a man get use to the fact that a woman is no longer willing to do something she never enjoyed doin in the first place?

2007-06-25 10:09:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

its a friend of mine but i realy dont know how to let him know that i only like him as my friend and nothing else ?

2007-06-25 10:07:11 · 6 answers · asked by terei.luffs.rainbowz 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a white dress but got told you cant wear white because the brides colour is white

2007-06-25 10:06:58 · 61 answers · asked by x_michele_x 1 in Weddings

ok, so apparently the Best Man has wasted all his money on stupid crap, and says he can't afford to drive himself to our ceremony location where we are meeting on Friday, (day before my wedding)
So he says he has to ride with his parents... and wont be able to make it on time (3:00) and we cannot change the time, because we have a set schedule of different things to do that day.
He has known for 9 months what day we were getting married and dont you think he should have saved some money?
If he rides with his parents , then what is the bridal party supposed to do after the ceremony when the bridal party was all suppose to go together to a different location for pictures?

I'm so frustrated with this lazy idiot right now (if he wasnt my fiance's brother, I think I'd have kicked his lazy *** out)

So what do you say to someone to get their asses to take care of themselves on Fri & sat? If he rides with his parents, he wont make it to the rehearsal/dinner OR pictures after ceremony

2007-06-25 10:04:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We are having a bridal shower for a bride who eloped. We also want to make a post-bachlorette party the night of the shower. First of all do you think this is tacky? Second of all, we need a catch phrase to put on the invites so it's not as tacky having a post-shower/bacholorette party!

2007-06-25 10:03:02 · 15 answers · asked by RJ 1 in Weddings

Ive been told in no particular terms more than a few times that Im nothing but a spoiled brat who needs to "get out and get a job" and "you have no idea about the real world, just you wait and see miss princess". But the thing is...I dont get it, why is she so mad at me?
She's 23, has a job in a pretty dingy town, a husband who's good for what he's worth but Lord help him w/ the D&D, a 2 yr old & one on the way(which she hasnt seen a doc yet for, & shes gonna pop sometime early fall), & she works ALL day, like sometimes over 12 hrs.
I, on the other hand, am 21, go to school full time, am trying to get into the music industry, and have a 19 month old. I dont "work" per se, but my mom & sis get in home supportive services, which sends me checks, and I also get financial aid and state assistance as long as I stay in school. Thats where my money comes from, and even tho I dont pay my mom any formal rent for living in her house,I do help her with ANYTHING financial & otherwise she needs

2007-06-25 10:02:08 · 16 answers · asked by What Dreams May Come 5 in Family