So I liked this girl from my class and i didn't know how to approach her, until I saw her profile on myspace, so I decided to add her and so on my vacations I chatted with her daily and once we went back to school it was kind of akward for us to talk in person cuz she was always with her friends, and I'm shy as I say, so I didn't talk to her in person much only on the internet, I know she likes me because she's always smiling at me, always checks me out, and when I talked to her a few times in person she shied every time, BUT Here's my problem,Today was my last day of school (High School) and I was decided to tell her How I felt but didn't go to school, So NOW I'm thinking tellling her through Myspace, I feel like it's kind of cheesy or dumb because I won't be making eye contact with her when I tell her or other things, But I won't see her again so The internet its my only chance now, DO YOU THINK IS A GOOD IDEA or NOT?
If not then how can I tell her in another way or something! Thanks
2007-06-25 10:33:46 · 30 answers · asked by Vicz101 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you use myspace to ask her out on a date? Just drop her an email -- "Hey, sorry I didn't get to see you on my last day. I was hoping we could go to dinner or see a movie." Something like that. I would not use email as a way to say "I love you" or even "I like you" because there is lack of tone, and she might take it the wrong way. Just keep it casual.
2007-06-25 10:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by xK 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No way dude, listen, if you like this girl you gotta tell her in person. She'll totally dig you way more if you do. But if your too shy then at least by phone, ask for her number over myspace. But just don't tell her how you feel on the Internet. Def. would give us guys a bad rep man.
2007-06-25 17:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Zen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOT A GOOD IDEA, plz just invite her out for a walk (( just to get her alone)) or a slice of pizza/hot dog........anything to get the two of ya alone. then tell her!!!! telling her over that myspace will only get you nowhere. how will ya know if ya can stand each others company if ya dont spend time together. in the morning, while the two of ya are talking on the net....just ask her to meet ya somewhere, to spend the day just walking around getting to know each other in person...
so ima saying
NO NOT A GOOD IDEA AGAIN
talk to her in person, bring her a flower(s) / a nice card....even a pretty rock!!! anything to start up a conversation.....
2007-06-25 17:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by tresmarie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, here is what I think that you should do. Contact her via the Internet and let her know that you would like to see her to be able to talk with her. Maybe ask her out for a lunch or dinner date some where, let her know that you would like to be able to meet with her alone. So that her friends do not tag along with her.
One she agrees to meet you at where you decide then make sure that you talk with her about how you are feeling. I know that it's some times hard not to be shy, but make your self open up to her so that you won't lose the opportunity to get to really know her. Make sure you then give her your phone number as well.
Remember to relax and just be your self, I'm sure that you will be fine and that you will do great. I hope all works out well for you. Be at peace and relax so that you can get to know her. Take care, I hope that this helps you. God bless and take care.
2007-06-25 17:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get her phone number, over myspace if it's the only way. Start calling her and hanging out with her (not obsessively though). It'll happen naturally.
Randomally sending her a message on myspace saying you like her is risky, and yes I agree cheesy.
2007-06-25 17:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had the same problem...i did nothing and have regreted it for like 3 weeks now..i would call her cell phone and ask her straight up to do something(cause chances are you wont see her very often once college starts up in august)..maybe hint at a date on Myspace or be flirty
GO FOR IT..WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO LOSE?
2007-06-25 17:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by shteve 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I Think You Should Ask If she Would Meet Up With You On My Space And When You Do Tell Her Then !! I Don't Think Over The Internet Is a Very Gd Way !! Good Luck !!
2007-06-25 17:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Telling someone you like them over the Internet is weak. She is not going to want to date you if you can't show some backbone. Ask her to go out to do something in a non-date situation ex: "A group of us are going to ______ movie, want to join?" Then get alone with her and tell her. Since you are done with High School what do you have to lose?
2007-06-25 17:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, even if its through MySpace. Call her- do something! If she likes ou, she'll be thrilled!
When I was asked out for the first time, in college (yes, I was in college before I ever had a date), I was completely oblivious that this guy had asked me out. I had recently joined an organization and had met him then. When he asked me out, I was like "how nice! They bring people to dinner to get to know them better!" Then I realized that he had asked me out lol It really made me feel so special.
2007-06-25 17:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by Chick-a-Dee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Slow down dude, not the end of the world here. I wouldn't go confessing my love to someone over the internet. Get some quality time with her with none of her friends around so y'all can click in person. Who knows maybe she feels the same way and can't express her feelings in person.
2007-06-25 17:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by adamtxstud 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋