wife cheated 8 years ago with guy, he moved out of state. this is burdened me, because it was 1 month before my son was conceived. imagine how that is wondering everyday if im the father. now hes back and i find secret phone and calls for a month to this p.o.s. wife claims only talking, nothing else. the p.o.s continues to call after 6 months. if i didnt want to loose my career, there would be 2 people hurtin. we have 3 children and im tired of the crap. if we divorce i miss alot of time with my children. but living in a untruthful relationship isnt healthy. ive thought about leaving,therapy,even getting even. 2 wrongs dont make a right and not "christian" of me. i'm not perfect i havn't "been there" at all times, but her family crap and everything else im only human. should i say oh well and walk away and enjoy the time i do get with my children or make a third try at it..cheating is more than physical.
2007-06-25
12:44:35
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Marriage & Divorce