2007-06-25 12:45:49 · 9 answers · asked by John D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its all in the way you say it. Don't be critical, be suggestive. As an above poster said, try things like " I really like it when..."
Also, don't assume your spouse likes the way you do everything. Ask what your spouse likes and what you could do differently,too.
2007-06-25 12:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i once had a new bf that kissed like a dog lapping water. it grossed me out. i simply told him that perhaps i could teach him how to kiss me in a way that really turned me on. he was very open and didnt get his feelings hurt. afterall, a kiss is what leads to more intimate feelings. it worked out in his favor and he was thrilled he could get to me like he did. it really boosted his ego.
i also had a bf who was a very hard kisser. i did the same thing with him. but, i told him that i wanted to initiate the kiss and for him to follow my lead. he didnt get offended either.
if u have been with her for awhile, u will have to be delicate.
u know her better than we do, so use your own words and make things go in your favor.
i hope it all works out for ya. good luck.
2007-06-25 19:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her and say now this is the way I really like to kiss, problem solved and when you go to kiss her every time, do it the same way you stated. Cheers and good luck.
2007-06-25 19:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy a book that teaches how and present it to her! with a bouquet of flowers!
or get a print-out that teaches how to kiss properly and pretend to be reading it when she enters the room.. leave it lying around..
she will pick it up later when tidying and read it and learn..
gud luk!
2007-06-25 20:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say 'I really like when you do ...... What do you like?' Make a game of trying different ways of kissing.
2007-06-25 19:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by lix 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Convince him to watch pornography movie and ask him " Honey, I want you to kiss me like that can you do it? he might say YES or NO atleast you tried. Goodluck girl!
2007-06-25 19:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth i know it hurts but might as well get it out of the way...
2007-06-25 19:51:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say "I love it when you do this...." and then do what you want her to do......she'll start to do that and think that it was HER idea all along. She'll do what YOU want, but think she came up with it.
2007-06-25 19:49:25 · answer #8 · answered by Sabrina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her.
2007-06-25 19:49:52 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋