Family & Relationships - 25 June 2007

A bad storm came up and i couldn't get out cuz the power lines were down and trees were down.I'm so sad.It will be a long time before i get to see him again.I don't know his # because we just met.I'm so sad.What can i do to cure my sadness?(tears):(

2007-06-25 13:35:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have started looking for an engagement ring. I am leaning toward a radiant or priness cut diamond ring in white gold. I know all about the 4 C's but was wondering if anyone had any tips on how to get a good deal on a ring? I know some chain jewelry stores are really over priced. Any tips?

2007-06-25 13:33:17 · 16 answers · asked by megan b 3 in Weddings

I cut him down and saved his life. He was hanging in my garage. I am tramatized. We see a conselor tomorrow. It happened 4 days ago. He said I nag him and things are unbearable at home.
I will add he drinks a 12 pack a day and refused recovery. They didnt even make him go to the mental ward. Any advise would be helpful.

2007-06-25 13:30:53 · 24 answers · asked by shania3949 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you actualy get hurt feelings in here? I mean honestly? You let a bunch of people you don't actualy know hurt your feelings in here?

I know as a guy I come in here speak my mind if i like the subject or just act like a goofball if the subject is silly.

But some of you actually take this crap to heart?

Why? For all any of you know I could be a serial murder, or a loon in a psyc ward. Any of the Smart azzed guys in here could be teenagers posting crap with thier Dads picture posted just to mess with you.

I mean come on, your better then this, right?

2007-06-25 13:30:38 · 13 answers · asked by fireman 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you be ticked off? Its been over two years!?
My ex and I broke up over two years ago...I moved away to college and he broke up with me because he is seven years older and couldnt handle the long distance..told me "We are both living seperate lives." We have remained close friends...he calls me every week or so to see how im doing etc. The other night I was out and ran into his old roommate and good friend. We ended up hooking up on the dance floor at a club. The next night I get a text from my ex saying "Im happy for you " (which obviously was sarcastic) Turns out the friend told him that he hooked up with me and my ex just told me it really ticked him off. Would you care if your ex of two years hooked up with one of your friends? Does this mean he still has feelings for me if it really hurt him?

2007-06-25 13:30:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

18 months of that was very happy for him. He found out she had been seeing someone for the past 7months of that two years. They have a child who has just turned 2.I am of the opinion that she purposely got married to have a baby so she could get maintenance and what ever else from this marriage. as he bought a house seven months into the marriage. He also bought her a vehicle and has a very good job. He is a tradesperson (Electrical Engineer) and obviously makes very good wage.

She moved out of the home after a somewhat pitiful argument
We have since found out she has been seeing someone for the past seven months.
She went home to mother for the two of those months nd has now got herself a unit.
The relationship has become more involved and unfortunatly found out in a most alarming way. My sons 2yr old was spending the night with him and we there for dinner and she just happened to mention this persons name who was
staying with mummy in her room.
What do you say to her. HURTS

2007-06-25 13:29:35 · 10 answers · asked by aotea s 5 in Marriage & Divorce

well i have this friend she has a bunch of pictures of me..!! and i know her for a long time already she has her own page.. and she has pictures of her other friend but i dont get it she does not have me i feel hurt.. do you think she is a friend!!

2007-06-25 13:29:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we're from two different cities.we met at a college orientation.we talked on the phone for 5 months.went on a date. it was nice. we broke it off two weeks later. we had some issues with distance and trust. while we were "together" he always wanted me to call.i did. after about a month without talking to each other, he wants to talk again.however he wants me to call him instead of him calling me. Why is he doing that????

2007-06-25 13:28:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told my grilfriend that I thought I was small in the pants and what scares me most is that her reaction how she was.(shocked) Anyways then she tells me that it doesn't matter because she loves me since I treat her nice and I'm good with her. Personally I thought it was a big mistake telling her about my situation but then again I rather let her know now then to later on go all the way and she might regret it. by the way here's what makes me worry even more is that her mom left her dad and she's currently w/someone else and that makes me wonder will she do the same to me??? so I need advice from you I need sincere answers please
(just for those curious I'm about 4.5" long)

2007-06-25 13:23:37 · 20 answers · asked by Mobius1 4 in Singles & Dating

I often play golf with my friend on Saturday mornings. I do not have a car so I take the train to his house on Friday night and sleep over so we can get up early to play golf. I have heard recently, mostly from girls, that this behavior is somewhat "gay."
We are not "gay." Not that there's anything wrong with that.

2007-06-25 13:22:53 · 14 answers · asked by DanielMike 1 in Friends

Hydrocodon?Some one told me it was like vicodins, is it?

2007-06-25 13:22:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so w/o protection a guy told me that there is a technique called a pull out so that the stuff from a guy wont get into a girl so that she cant get pregnant.is that true or what? does it work if it is true?

2007-06-25 13:20:11 · 11 answers · asked by Britney G 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay I lied my friend about coming to her church and I tried to play it off like I came and she believed me at first but then I was caught and she said I think you lied to me should I come clean what should I do, please help!!

2007-06-25 13:18:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

OK 4 THOSE WHO READ MY OTHER QUESTION U KNOW THE GUY I LIKE AND 4 THOSE WHO DONT WELL LET MII SUMMARIZE IT 4 U!!!! I LIKE MII FRIENDZZZ COUSIN!!! ME & HER HAVE PLANNED 4 ME 2 KISS HIM!!!! I HAVE ONLII KISSED GUYS WIT A TAP NO ONGUE!!!! BUT IM REALLY FEELIN THIS KID & SCHOOL IZ ALMOST OVA SO I WANNA K-I-S-S-I-N-G HIM!!!! BUT HOW DO I JUST PLUNGE RIGHT IN OR WAT??? R WAIT UNTIL HE MAKEZZ THE MOVE???? IM NOT BACKIN OUT SO I NEED UR HELP PLEASE

2007-06-25 13:14:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dated someone for 2 months and things got serious quick. She also just got out of a long term relationship. She says I'm everything she ever wanted in somebody but she's scared and doesn't know why. Her friend told me that she said, if she wanted to settle down right now that it would be with me. She got distant and started dating somone else. She's no longer dating anyone else, and now we're talking more again. But why would you let somone go if they were everything you wanted?. She also keeps saying , if it happens it happens. She still keeps her distance, but we talk and see each other 3 to4 times a week. She also said she would go away with me to my cousins wedding for the weekend, but she still doesn't want anything serious. I"M SO CONFUSED. DO I HAVE A CHANCE?

2007-06-25 13:13:17 · 14 answers · asked by rkwjunior 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-25 13:12:49 · 21 answers · asked by Happy Go Lucky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend just went down on one knee a few nights ago and pulled out a ring...and I said yes!!!!
For the first night, I was soooo happy and content to be lying there in bed in his arms...but then I started thinking. I'm only twenty, and he's 21, and we don't really have stable jobs.
I live in a puny apartment across from him , and he wants to buy a house where we can live together. I don't know if we can afford that.
Then there's kids to deal with...no we don't have any yet but when we do...I'm just kind of feeling lost right now. Any encouraging words?

2007-06-25 13:11:50 · 16 answers · asked by sonder 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My baby is due in two weeks, and I am considering not having my partner at the birth, not to be a *****, but I dont think he really loves or cares about me, he wants the baby but not me. I Know even though he says he wouldn't, would make jokes about how I look during the birth, and I dont think he would be very good support for me.

The other thing is he has to tell his friends and his mother every single detail of our realtionship, and I dont want his friends and family being filled in on every embarrassing detail about me giving birth, I know he would do it too.

We have been having lots of problems and to shorten things i'm just going to say he treats me like crap, he's threatened to give me black eyes etc, I dont think he serious but I really dont know with him, when ever we fight he turns everything into my fault and I actualy strat to believe it is, I'm not even allowed to ask him to put the milk back in the fridge once he's done without him starting a fight.

2007-06-25 13:06:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay...
My brother likes to be perverted with his friends.
[He's not gay.]
They hump.
Grab each others butt in public.
Is that normal?
Are guys supposed to act like that?
No mean answers.
He is Totally 100% Straight.
By the way, He's 15, if that changes anything.

2007-06-25 13:04:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Cleaning up my boyfriends room, I found a ring. A females wedding ring. It's really pretty. I know he was engaged before so I'm guessing that's the ring. We are getting married sometime next summer. I don't care if he gives me that ring ( no need to spend extra money) ((plus the old girl never saw the ring from what I heard from his mom)). Do think I should tell him I saw it or wait and see if he wants to give it to me.

2007-06-25 13:03:15 · 24 answers · asked by luvladyblue 3 in Singles & Dating

So far my life is going downhill and nothing is going right for me after all the good deeds I have done.

- Countless times I have given up my seat on the bus and subway to elders and little kids.
"once an elder refused to take my seat most likely for racial reasons and he stumbled on his cane to the end of the metro for a seat" embarrassing me.



-returned a wallet full of cash only to have the owner count the cash and look at me like a theif and drive away when I took absolutely nothing. embarassed me too making me look like a theif.
almost every time I give back a wallet I get a dirty look never a than.

-picked up dropped cash and returned to their owners many times.

kids tried to put nasty stuff in a teachers lunch I convincced them not too but the teacher doesn't know and I again recieve no gratitude

I recieve almost no gratitude and what I thought was supposed to make up for it was karma is not even there.

Where is karma?
Where is their gratitude

2007-06-25 13:02:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My marriage is currently on the rocks and this song suddenly popped before me while i was driving home one day - Brian Mcknight - One Last Cry

2007-06-25 13:01:06 · 17 answers · asked by dingdingdong 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well where do i begin. i just finish with my degree as an Rn i will be 21 in Oct and my men will be 22. were both done with school and on top of that hes coming home from serving in the army over seas. so we want to go on a cruise for a week then to canada at the end of july. so my best friend wanted to come to canada with us so she could marry her 2nd cousin ewwwwwww and she wants me to be her maid of honnor, i mean she's my girl t'ill the end its just nastyyyy i told her her baby's might have birth deffects she said she doesnt care but it botter's me a lot seing her doing that so i want to cancel my Canada trip and go in December because each time i see them kissing each other i want to vomit and the thing is they look soooooooooooo much alike some people even mistake them for twinsssssssssss. how do i help my friend out.

2007-06-25 13:00:51 · 24 answers · asked by alourdes p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-25 12:56:33 · 15 answers · asked by mushymushroom88 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do you find hot in a girl? describe

2007-06-25 12:56:09 · 25 answers · asked by Class of '08 2 in Singles & Dating

we were in some kinda of meeting and he insisted to sit next to me..
and when he did he came close to me we were lookin at some pictures and he started pushing his leg next to mine..
he squezeed so hard..
and he was shaking his leg a lil..
is he horny?

2007-06-25 12:54:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-25 12:53:48 · 29 answers · asked by sandeep_strong_brave 1 in Singles & Dating

How far would you go on a date with someone you really like and want an exclusive relationship with?
Do you leave it at a goodnight kiss?

Men-if you want to have a relationship with the girl do you try to go farther than a kiss? Or do you hold back because she might be "the one"?

2007-06-25 12:53:04 · 11 answers · asked by Starfire 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 36 and I got married to a 41 year old woman a year ago.She was a wonderful person when we first met(she still is),but embeded in her is this 'been there done that' attitude which is driving me nuts.She has four kids,the oldest being 28.I also have a two year old from a previous relationship.

My problem is,ever since I started working(day and night) my wife thinks I should give her all my paychek which I did not object to.But don't I have the right to know how each dime is spent? She gets upset if I ask.
I drive a truck at night and I drive part time in the day also.My theory is; if I die in an accident,she will just move on with her kids.Right?
We have been arguing over finances for a long time.
She also does not want to let go of her numerous male friends.She does not cook for the weekend,she does not cook when she comes back from work and she sometimes treat me like one of her kids.
This woman has been good to me. Can I stay or move on???

2007-06-25 12:52:40 · 7 answers · asked by titicaca 2 in Marriage & Divorce

That my wedding location is on fire?

I'm supposed to get married in South Lake Tahoe in less than 2 months... and it's on fire. Over 200 structures have burned.

Would you still have your wedding in a blackened forest where people have lost everything?

2007-06-25 12:52:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings