Dated someone for 2 months and things got serious quick. She also just got out of a long term relationship. She says I'm everything she ever wanted in somebody but she's scared and doesn't know why. Her friend told me that she said, if she wanted to settle down right now that it would be with me. She got distant and started dating somone else. She's no longer dating anyone else, and now we're talking more again. But why would you let somone go if they were everything you wanted?. She also keeps saying , if it happens it happens. She still keeps her distance, but we talk and see each other 3 to4 times a week. She also said she would go away with me to my cousins wedding for the weekend, but she still doesn't want anything serious. I"M SO CONFUSED. DO I HAVE A CHANCE?
2007-06-25 13:13:17 · 14 answers · asked by rkwjunior 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she is hurt from her previous relationship and doesn't want to let her gaurd down to love someone and get hurt again.
Sometimes when a big love crashes, something inside just shuts down.
It may take a long time to recover from such a thing.
2007-06-25 13:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by GucciGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she just got off a long term relationship shes not ready for a new one...I went through this too. right now shes experincing being single, and probably doesnt want to deal with a "boyfriend" yet. Or it could be that she got hurt in her previous relationship and is scared to get hurt again, that was my issue, give her some time, but if shes dating other guys and telling u she wants u, shes probably playing hard to get and u dont deserve that kind of treatment from anyone. goodluck=)
2007-06-25 13:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Lovely♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you do maybe shes scared because of that long relationship she was in and doesnt want to be hurt again. A lot of people who say there scared is because they migth love you and you mean alot to them but there just not ready to have a serious relatonship she might just have to run around for a bit and feel free and then shell come back to you good luck!
2007-06-25 13:20:45 · answer #3 · answered by sugarluvr2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you did say she came out of a long term relationship, maybe she really likes you and knows you guys would last for a while but doesnt want to get hurt again.
2007-06-25 13:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to take it slow with her. She just go tout of a serious relationship and didn't have a break before she jumped in again.
Let her find who she is again. She may be scared of being hurt.
2007-06-25 13:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by itisleigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a serious talk with her ... from my experience it sounds like she really does want to be with you but because things moved so fast she is confused.(probably just as much as you).so like i said have a talk with her figure out what is going on in her mind....
I wish you the best of luck!!!
2007-06-25 13:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a VERY CONFUSED GIRL. She SAYS she knows what she wants... but she doesn't SHOW it. Actions speak a hell of a lot louder than words...
I think you should keep your distance from her if you don't want to get hurt.
2007-06-25 13:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're certainly not the problem, it seems that she might be "scared" of having another serious relationship. i would seriously talk to her about it and maybe you guys just need to take it a little slower.
2007-06-25 13:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I 'm pretty sure you have a chance. I think she just needs to have someone to talk to right and for comfort, right now. Just be patient with her your chance well come.
2007-06-25 13:18:02 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a tease to me. I'm sorry, but if she treats you like that, you shouldn't want to have a chance with her.
2007-06-25 13:17:42 · answer #10 · answered by Thing H. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋