I'm scared she's going to leave me (no laughter serious question)?

Question

I told my grilfriend that I thought I was small in the pants and what scares me most is that her reaction how she was.(shocked) Anyways then she tells me that it doesn't matter because she loves me since I treat her nice and I'm good with her. Personally I thought it was a big mistake telling her about my situation but then again I rather let her know now then to later on go all the way and she might regret it. by the way here's what makes me worry even more is that her mom left her dad and she's currently w/someone else and that makes me wonder will she do the same to me??? so I need advice from you I need sincere answers please
(just for those curious I'm about 4.5" long)

oh no she's not cheating on me nor has anybody else

Answer 1

I know, from personal experience, if your girl loves you she's not going to leave you over your size. If she doesn't love you then she may leave but, wouldn't you be better off that way ?

Answer 2

My advice is...study.

First of all, don't worry so much about the girl. If she stays with you then no problem. If she leaves you then she is superficial and then you didn't want to be with her...so still, no problem.

4.5" is a little small, but still average. But I can tell you from someone who has studied with sex researchers in college that size really does not matter. Big or small, the biggest complaint that women have is that the guy doesn't know what to do with it.

So study. There are lots of legitimate books about sex and sexuality that are not porn. They can teach things like style, position, technique, and exercises that will let you do some pretty amazing things regardless of your size. Start doing some research on Amazon or other places on the web, and don't be shy about asking a librarian for help. They will help you get started.

If all a girl wants is a guy who's big, then let the silly twit chase after that. She'll probably never know what good sex is because she's focusing on just one aspect.

However, when you can do things like have sex for four hours straight without taking a break, use dozens of fascinating positions to give different sensations, give a woman an orgasm that lasts for half an hour, or really show off what you can do with your own climaxing skills, then women will never want to give you up.

Answer 3

Well the saying is "it is not the size but how you use it", I have heard both sides of the coin. But how can she be your girlfriend if she is seeing someone else? BUT you did the right thing in telling her. You were honest and forthright, a value that is not seen these days. If she does leave it was not because of you!! And if she is cheating on her current boyfriend then she could on you. Don't believe her when she says "you are different and I wouldn't do that to you" She might have told that to him. Just take it with a grain of salt and enjoy the ride, see where it takes you. Good Luck

Answer 4

4.5 is what the average girl can comfortably take in. If I were you I would have just not told her but.. you never know maybe you are really good, even though your size is less than average.
Her mom leaving her dad could have been about anything, I doubt it was about the size of his junk.
IF she told you it didn't matter then you have a great girl and don't worry about it!

Answer 5

Most women do not achieve orgasms by penetration, and even so its not all about the size. When you're making love to your women do that, make love to her. Not her body. Make her feel good about her self and make love to her soul, caress her and enjoy some foreplay. Enjoy flirting and lay her down and make love to her as if you were dancing. Use a lot of hip action. Most importantly, be strong with her in all aspects of the relationship. Dont be self-concious. Show her that you are a man and you wear the pants (no matter what size). Just be you and let her love you. If she walks away then its her loss, not yours, because most people out there dont care enough to be honest and transparent with their lover.

Answer 6

Wow i feel Really bad for you so im gonna help you out alot: Ok 1st off wit ur GF if she really like you she wont care about your size and the more you wrry about things the less shes gonna want you you gotta understand that ok...2nd from what it seems is that you really lov this chick and being small shouldnt really affect anything but if u want... I guess i can help u out wit that too well you should know buy now most pills and **** dont work and wateva... well basically you should go on this site trust me in about a yr you will thak me just go on this site ok "Blakereviews.com" ok once you go on it go to the forums and go to the Beginers section and trust me about this ok.
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Answer 7

If you know how to work your tongue like a professional you will be alright. Your size is okay by the way also. Love making is not all about penetration. Foreplay is also important. If you combine the two you should be just fine.

Answer 8

First, stop thinking with the little head!!! Any girl would be shocked to hear a guy admit he is "small". Do you think your girlfriend has seen enough to know all the variances in shape and size...most girls don't have access to the men's room!!! Women think with their hearts and size is not what matters, it is what you do with your "?"...will she leave you??? Depends on how you treat her...

Answer 9

If she leaves you just over your small penis then she is not worth having my friend. If she leaves you over a small penis she is too shallow. Now if your being to awkward or weird about it now you might push her away, just be cool. There are about three females to every male in the united states there will be a girl that will like you for everything you are. Get over the small penis thing quick buddy or you will push her away.

Answer 10

I've heard of smaller pleasing their partners in more than one way....if your partner loves you...size isn't going to break you apart..your size doesn't present any kind of problem that she should be shocked...what many women would be shocked about is how big other guys lie about their size.