if your boyfriend or husband cheats on you would you forgive him or is once a cheater always a cheaters and w?

Answer 1

It depend's on where your at in the relation if you love him it might be worth working it out.but i know that if he loved you he would respect you and know what's good for the relation.

Answer 2

You can't say once a cheater, always a cheater. The people who say that have been very hurt and are still bitter. It depends on the situation. If THEY are the ones that told you. They had the courage to tell you they made a mistake. You didn't have to catch them or hear it from someone else. That has to count for something. If they weren't remorseful, they would have hid it from you. If they want to work it out, are they making themselves "an open book"? They tell you everything now. Who they were taking to, where they are, etc. You have to make sure you can forgive. You won't forget, but you can get through it - if you both want to.

Answer 3

No one is perfect. Sometimes temptation gets the best of us when it is not suppose to. However i do not believe in the once a cheater always a cheater concept. It is up to the individual. I know for a fact that when there is true love in the relationship between both persons, anything can be worked out. A person can change when they have the desire to do so. With Christ all things are possible.

Answer 4

most times the relationship is so different after the fact then it isn't even worth trying to work things out in the relationship. but with the "once a cheater, always a cheater" thing, a man (or woman) will continue to cheat on the person that they are with but they don't always remain a cheater in new relationships unless the new relationship is with the person that they cheated with.

Answer 5

for some once a cheater always a cheater, and for others well it will take sometimes to be able to trust husband plus he has to prove that he is trust worthy and that does not happen over night, there is forgiveness, if he willing to make sure that it doesn't happen again.

Answer 6

everyone says once a cheater , always a cheater thats not true only for some men it is . i would forgive him if i knew that he was sorry that he did such thing and after that i would try to make the relationship more loving let him know that ur here for him to care and love him

Answer 7

i don't think when we forgive, that we win any respect from them, plus the relationship will never be what it was once. a cheater will always cheat again at some point.

Answer 8

I probably would forgive him, for some dumb reason. I do believe that once a cheater, always a cheater, but my husband is so fat & unsexy, I don't know who would want him.
And surely not more than one person!

Answer 9

"Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." I am a firm believer in the power of forgiveness and change. God can help change anyone who opens their heart. But don't be fooled if someone tries to take your kindness for weakness and decides to continue cheating because you are forgiving. That is when you have to put an end to it and end the relationship before you get hurt.

Answer 10

Okay, here I go again. My husband cheated on me 15 years ago. He was very remorseful and I forgave him. We're still married and it has never been better. He has never given me a reason to doubt him. However, it took a while for me to forget what happened. I don't dwell on it anymore because that was the past and you can only go forward. The key to any relationship is communication.

Answer 11

Once a chester always a cheater.