**Men**: What would you do if you were married and a couple of lesbians wanted to have a threesome with you so one of the would get pregnant with your child? Would you say maybe? Yes? No?
**Women**: What would you do if you found out that your husband told the lesbians that he would think about it and never told you about any of this?
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2007-06-25 04:32:57 · 17 answers · asked by Zarahel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, they were probably bi, but they claimed to be lesbians.
2007-06-25 04:51:25 · update #1
Of course not. Next thing you know a paternity suit would be filed, and upon confirmation of DNA I would find myself paying child support for the next eighteen years. And I would be paying the money each month to an amoral woman, not to mention worrying about a child I sired being raised in an environment of sexual ambiguity. So, of course not. Only a fool would enter such an arrangement.
2007-06-25 05:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. I don't think lesbians would ask for a threesome. A bi couple maybe but not lesbians.
2. I would tell them to go to a sperm bank and get inseminated.
3. My wife and I communicate about all important issues. I think sex with another woman would qualify as important.
2007-06-25 11:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by brotherlove@sbcglobal.net 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A woman where my husband works actually asked my husband if he would father her child. He came home and told me about it and we had a good laugh over it. Several days later she showed up at our house and asked again. Call it a sixth sense or women's intuition, but I thought something was up. So I said sure as long as it was artificial insemination, she said it was too expensive. I told her too bad that's the only way its going to happen, she got mad and left. A few weeks later he came home from work and said that he had been told she just wanted to sleep with him and if she got pregnant then she would be set for life. My husband is retired (we are in our 40's) and he works for the extra money to spend on his toys.
2007-06-25 11:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by Girly1 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not!
1) There is no guarantee this would be a one-shot deal anyway, so would it be a continued arrangement?
2) Lesbians have legal rights to adopt children, or can to a sperm-bank.
3) I would think in this arrangment the husband could still have legal rights and responsibilities concerning the child.
If you asked this question because a man in your life is considering this, than I would have some concern.
2007-06-25 11:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by Matt G 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all I would be pissed off at the lesbians for asking him a question; why can't they find a single guy to be with. Then second I would be pissed off at my husband for not telling me, depending on his response and the decision he made about doing it or not would determine my next move! Divorce or work it out. Once a man marry's me, he should love and respect me enough to only want to be with me, and to tell me something that important. If he had of come out and told me before they did, I would have been angry with him at all.
2007-06-25 11:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by Erin 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Actually, if the lesbians were good freinds of ours, if we thought they would make good parents, and they agreed to go get tested for any diseases, I think I would readily agree to that. I would only agree if my wife was very comfortable with that and if she agreed to join in with us. I would never even entertain the thought without my wife's full agreement. I would hope my wife would find beautiful women desireable also. By beautiful I do not mean just physically but inside as well.
2007-06-25 13:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
My, someone has their thinking cap on today.
Lipstick lesbians, I'd have to at least consider it...before turning it down. Its the impregnation thing that would trip up such an opportunity. Take that out of it and I'd have to say definitely maybe...but dammm, that probably be cheating huh?
2007-06-25 11:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by scott_v1963 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he had actually done it, we would be divorced in short order.
If he had not yet gone there, I would advise him not to if he wanted to stay married.
The lesbians should either use a sperm bank or an unmarried, completely unattached man. They have no right to infringe on someone else's marriage in that way.
2007-06-25 11:39:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think the diplomatic way to leave the situation is to say, "Let me thing about it."
In the end I would not do it because I believe in being a father not a sperm donor.
2007-06-25 12:43:46 · answer #9 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he told them he would think about it but never did it, i would still be upset because he didn't tell me about it in the first place..
If he never told me about it and went ahead and did it and i had to find out on my own i would be soo mad, i would probably beat the crap out of him and then leave his a s s there to rot..All i have to say is, i hope it was worth it!
2007-06-25 11:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by Kasja 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋