You can't, it will always be scary, but worth the excitement.
2007-06-25 03:41:18
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answered by Steve C 7
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Why are you intimidated by a certain "type" of person? We all put our pants on one leg at a time, their SH!T stinks the same as yours, and they bleed red blood like the rest of us, so what do you think is different that you need to be intimidated by them? Have you ever seen the photos of what celebs look like without all that make-up? We all wake-up with bed head and since not many of us can afford personal trainers and personal chefs that is just a perk of their success or fame, it doesn't make them a better person than us regular people. And I think regular people are happier than celebs anyway (we don't have to worry if our friends are our friends because of what we can do for them or buy for them or just to be seen with us or whatever). Don't judge a book by its cover and don't assume that someone who is more physically appealing than others is somehow more special. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-06-25 10:46:35
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answered by tersey562 6
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Start up a conversation with her. Speak with confidence, but do not try to be smooth or cool.
You can fake the confidence at first. It will come more naturally when she responds to you.
Practice on other girls. You have two options here: either pick someone way out of your league and just tell yourself that you have no chance with her, so it doesn't matter if you make a fool of yourself. Your other option is to pick someone way beneath you to flirt with. There's no pressure here because even if it doesn't work out it doesn't matter because you didn't want her to begin with.
Throw in some jokes. Humor can relieve awkwardness. Alternatively, just learn to be witty. Almost all girls like intelligence as well confidence.
Show that you're secure with yourself and when you say something that you stick to your word.
If you say something weird, follow it up with something funny and turn it into a joke.
Sit close to her but don't breathe down her neck. 2 chairs side-by-side are all that are needed.
Find something that you both think is hilarious. Turn it into an inside joke, so when you want to talk to her, you have something to say no matter what, and she thinks that something is funny. However, don't use it too much, otherwise it loses it's humor and her opinion of your humor is lowered.
Don't always give her attention. Try not speaking to her at the beginning of the class and then halfway through, just talk with her for ten solid minutes. It has to be a good talk that makes progress and makes her laugh, then, just ignore her or blow her off. If she asks what's wrong, just say, "I'm trying to take good notes." or something like that. It's obvious you don't want to talk and she'll wonder what she did to make you this way.
Tips [edit]Make sure you don't smell bad or wear too much cologne.
Be sure to use whatever makes you stand out to your advantage to help her notice you ex. funny,charming,good dresser,etc.
Be nicely groomed and brush your teeth.
After successfully getting the girl in a position where she will enjoy going on a date with you, ask her out.
If the girl is very good looking, she will be so used to having guys flirt with her that it won't mean anything. Be cocky and funny. Poke fun at her a little bit and make her laugh. Don't be mean! But, a little sarcasm here and there helps. The girl will feel like you are a challenge that needs to be conquered. Just keep it up and soon you'll have her in your arms.
Warnings [edit]Be prepared for rejection. It happens to everyone.
Don't let her disinterest dissuade you. It doesn't always work at first. Just keep speaking to her but don't try any of the techniques. Just learn more about her.
The friend zone is a place no man wants to find himself. It's hard to escape from and can totally kill her sexual interest in you. Don't hang out with her constantly unless you're having a romantic relationship. Stay in that little area just below a friend and keep chipping away at her.
2007-06-25 10:44:12
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answered by Anonymous
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beauty is something that encompasses the inside as well as the outside. some physically beautiful women are horrible, selfish people who are selective about the people the talk to. if you happen to find one of them when you first approach one, don't let it break down your confidence. just go up and talk to people. have you ever walked around nyc and these guys shout out at girls as they walk down the street, or driven in a small town where they beep at people and whistle out of their car? don't do either of those, it is degrading and annoying. beautiful women are just women, who want to feel attractive and are not always aware of their appearance to others. they look in the mirror and see the same face they have always seen, just as everyone else does. if you are really nervous, just push yourself to go up to a girl and talk. you don't have to get her number, you don't have to force your attentions on her, just be real and be nice.
2007-06-25 10:59:38
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answered by kasia799 1
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Most beautiful women I've been around were so vain and shallow that you couldn't help feeling intimidated.
2007-06-25 10:42:46
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answered by Jabberwock 5
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public places with lots of people are good. that way you can have privacy cause there's too many people around, but you're not 'alone' with the girl. past that, it just takes practice and flatly choosing to go ahead and talk to the girl, even if she does snub you. the worst she can do is leave and then you're no worse off than you were before.
2007-06-25 10:43:53
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answered by Wallflower 5
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approach them knowing that no one is better than anybody else. if you dont try approaching them, you'll may miss out. let go of all reservations by thinking that you are a hot commodity. You can do this man!
2007-06-25 10:42:10
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answered by Anonymous
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Start by going out to a bar or another social area. Practice introducing yourself to beautiful ladies there. Simply have casual & fun conversation. (This whole scenario will boost your confidence because you will not be under pressure to try to date them.)
2007-06-25 10:42:49
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answered by Daiquiri Dream 6
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beautiful women are mentally spoiled. they never experience the hardships of being unattractive. talk to the less attractive ones, they offer better company.
2007-06-25 11:22:46
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answered by boomdizzle 2
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all you have to do is be confident, and just remember to be yourself and NEVER EVER sound cocky cause that turns women off!! Believe me...I can't guarantee you won't be intimadated while you approach her, but if you do it correctly I can guarantee you will have a better outcome!! Good luck!!
2007-06-25 10:43:28
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answered by Anonymous
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Come on, they're people too. just approach them as any normal girl walking the street, I'm sure they will appreciate it.
2007-06-25 10:48:48
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answered by Botsgurl 2
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