Ok well me and my girlfriend were at the movies and there was a preview with some girls in bikinis. She had gotten mad at me for looking but she got over it. Then a couple hours later she asked me what excactly was I looking at. I didn't answer and she got pissed off at me and she still is...
What do I tell her? I don't know what to say and I don't want to lose her. Please help me..
2007-06-25 02:12:42 · 13 answers · asked by cypress_0511 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yeah....ummm we're both 14.
If that helps..
2007-06-25 02:13:17 · update #1
Tell her you are a GUY. You can look but cannot touch. Thats the rules. Ask her if she would rather you be with one of them looking at her or with her tajking a peak at one of them.
2007-06-25 02:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by rahkokwee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you guys are young and girls at that age have a whole mess of hormones and drama floating about. You can either tell her the truth or lie. It's one or the other. If I were you I would avoid the issue. Like just tell her if she asks that the whole discussion is silly and that it isn't a big deal and that you don't want to spend the time you have to together arguing that instead you would rather be doing something meaningful with the time that the two of you have. If that doesn't work I would recommend being honest over lying and bite the bullet. Tell her you were looking at the girls on the preview and tell her that is nothing against her that your simply a guy and your obviously straight not gay so duh girls are attractive to you. Make her understand that you only want her not some one on TV or any where else and that it was just a natural reaction for any guy to have. If she gets mad over it then give her some time. She will eventually realize how stupid this argument is and grow up. If not then find a more mature girl if she won't forgive you for something so childish. Good luck either way!
2007-06-25 09:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl doesn't like to compete with other girls that has more junk in the trunk or that's more prettier. I think you should tell her that the other girls don't mean nothing to me and that I was only looking because I got carried away. It all depends on the girl to she may choose to believe this or not it .She kinda doens't want to lose you either that probably why she got upset. I don't know if this will help but i am also 14 and i wouldn't like if I CAUGHT my bf looking at another girl but it's not I like I don't look at other guys too, because I do. Any way, If she does decide to kick you to the curb there's alot of girls out there so don't be disconage your only 14 . An appogly would also help and tell her the truth she will respect you for that .Have a great summer
2007-06-25 09:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by Choosen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if first of all, If your worried about losing her over a some girls on a preview then my dear this is not the girl for you. I know its a hard concept for her to grasp but try explaining to her that if its on screen then it should be no threat to her. Its not like the girls in the bikinis were there in person..geez lil jits
2007-06-25 09:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by nenazgotissuez0421 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you tell her to stop being a psycho. I don't know any guys that don't look at pornography let alone i movie trailer with girls in bikinis......she seems like a very jealouse controling type and there is no way to keep that type happy i would get rid of her ASAP
2007-06-25 09:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by little_orch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being 14, I think she is acting her age. Her insecurity is showing, & she wants ALL of your attention 2 B on her. That's OK., BUT, later on she'll find out that everybody "looks", or U aren't alive. She'll B "looking" too, at some point. Hang in there !
2007-06-25 09:26:03 · answer #6 · answered by rat racer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are 14 and you are going through NORMAL 14 year old guy behavior. If she really thinks that guys - even guys in relationships - never look at other girls, she is in for a life of disappointment!
2007-06-25 09:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your sorry if you inadvertently upset her it wasn't your intention (she sounds a little immature even for 14). She surely can't be pissed off because you watched a preview?
2007-06-25 09:19:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey y'all are young get a grip, for one thing honesty is the best policy for two y'all should not be so pressed about your relationship u are 14 for God's sake.
2007-06-25 09:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by NICI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's too young, tell her that no matter what guy she will be with all her entire life, they all will have a stare on other beautiful women. So she better accept this fundamental thruth about men
2007-06-25 09:18:25 · answer #10 · answered by Words Of Wisdom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋