can anyone help me out ???????? friend issues?

Question

okay now i have a friend and like i have been emailing her and calling her but she wont write me back and she awnserded her phone 1 time out of about the 50 times i called her she wouldnt call me back and she is my best friend but it just seems 2 me that she just way 2 busy 2 be talking 2 me and like is that a good friend or not becuz im just saying when shes around me its never like she blowing me off but ever since she took a trip 4 the summer she just doing 2 much 2 call hert best friend i know this question might sound stupid but im just saying just help me out becuz i dnt like having a FAKE friend

Answer 1

You know I have the exact, exact same problem as you. Exactly!! I call her, so what are you doing? Her: Oh well I have to do this, and I have to clean, and blah blah blah. So I'm like ok, I have tried so many times to hang out w/her. We didnt even hang out during spring break, and yesterday we were supposed to but that didnt happen. So you know what I did? I posted a question on answers asking if I was smothering her, how do I confront her. If your friend comes on here, let her see this and shell know how you feel. Honestly, tell her you feel left out, and are just wondering whats up. I hope you two work things out, and good luck, and there are better people out there.:):):):)

Answer 2

I think it's time for you to step back and take a deep breath. It's impossible to say why she is suddenly too busy for you, but obviously she has other priorities right now. Give her time to get her act together- and decide you won't contact her again for like, 2 weeks or a set time. After the 2 weeks, give her one more chance to follow thru- call again or email (ONLY ONCE) and see if she responds. If she does, great, if not, give her up as a false friend.

Answer 3

hay thank you so much for answering my question because all of the other people think that i call her all the time and i dont but you are the onley person how realy understands what i am trying to get a answer so that was realy helpful other people said(she is not your freind so dont be her freind any more) but deep down i now she realy still if by bff i mean we have been friends scine 3rd grade that is relay a lomg time so any time leave me a message on a question i now i wil have alot of frend questions BYE katiekat255

Answer 4

Heyy
Why Bother ? She seems like she isnt to much of a good friend if she cant call you back! I would ignore her eventually she will come around! Could she be mad at you for any reason? Maybe you could walk to her house and ask her why she has been isolating you..trust me my bff is just like that.


People, its slang...you know instead of because we use becuz or bcz

Answer 5

i understand were u coming from i was in the same sitch i thought my friend was fake too. She would only call me during the summer when she wanted to do something i thought she was using me.. i just asked her why she just calls me when shes brd and why she does not care if i call or not ..
we are fyn now she was not fake
ur friend is probably busy u should confront her bout the sitch and just ask her no one can tell u what to do about it u should just TALK to her

Answer 6

hi
don't u think dat she is 2 rude and mean i think u should try and change your company 'coz if she is your best fren then she wuld never ignore u like this atleast . Maybe she wants some body else 2 be her best fren. But it can be that she thinks that u r ignoring her , so u should talk 2 her about this if u r her true fren.

bye
kitty

Answer 7

She's not being fake. She's just too busy for you and she's not your best friend. She might have been your best friend before but now she's just an acquaintance. Don't run behind her.....she knows the way to you.

Answer 8

Well she's probably blowing you off because of the way you talk. I got a serious headache just reading your question. Learn english and make new friends.

Answer 9

just calm down, she's not a fake friend, or whatever you call her that's so nasty.

think... think...
maybe she's busy right now with a problem, family problem or whatever kind of problem. she just doesn't want to tell you cause maybe she's afraid you , of all people, would worry.

any way stop jumping into conclusions, your just making yourself bad in the Internet, seriously.

Answer 10

shes not being fake. shes just really busy or shes getting annoyed by your 50 phone calls. just call her one time today, and leave a message saying "hey its ____. i was just calling to see how your summer has been and to see what youve been doing. ummm... have you been busy, im just bored so just call me back at xxx-xxx-xxxx"

stick to the basics!