I would like to move out of state with my child in the future and am trying to set the right course of action. I know the laws that pertain to this matter and think that the father will fight me(and probably win,like always). If I moved, would he be able to somehow legally make me return to this state? We were never married, had a short relationship, and I am the custodial parent. I do everything in the best interest of my child. Any advice on how to get around the law in trying to move to a different state?
2007-06-25 02:38:57 · 5 answers · asked by k b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Trying to get around the law is not a wise thing to do. It is best to sit down and explain to the father of the child your intentions and the reasons for your decision. If he does not agree, then go to court and have the law settle it. But trying to go above the law is not wise and not setting a good example for the child. And I am sure that you want to be the best mother you can be and show the best example you can for your child right?? Pray and ask God for help and guidance.
2007-06-25 02:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship with him really doesn't' matter, it is the relationship he has with his child that matters. IF he is a part of your child's life, and is a good dad, why would you want to take your child away from him? I'm sorry to say that as soon as you had sex with this guy, you made up your mind, knowingly or not, and now your life revolves around your child. He could very well have you ordered to return back to the state and if you didn't a warrant would be issued for your arrest. Courts don't take this stuff lightly. A lot of women do it and get away with it because the fathers don't push the issue, but it sounds like he would. So you may as well resolve yourself to living where you are for a while. If you skip out of town, it may even give him cause to file for custody and he may win because of it.
2007-06-25 02:54:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are his custodial rights? Does he have to pay child support? If the answer is none and no depending on what state you live in there is nothing he can do. You can pretty much do what you want. If he does have rights and or pay child support take it to court.
2007-06-25 02:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by IIIxKrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he's not paying child support and has nothing to do with the child in law or anything (like weekly visits), you're free to do whatever you like.
2007-06-25 02:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by Tasy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can`t with his child without his consent.So you better have a back-up plan.
2007-06-25 02:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by Bill L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋