Is it possible to fall in love when you are already married?

Answer 1

Absolutely! You and the person that you are attracted too are on your best behavior. You will do what ever it is to impress each other. It makes you feel special (probably something that you're lacking in your marriage) and it boosts the other persons ego. So many times in a marriage people take each other for granted, they think they are always going to be there. No marriage is without problems. My spouse passed away 8 years ago. We had a lot of problems but we worked through them and hung in there for the long haul. The only regret that I have is what now seems like the small stuff. No, one knows that their not going to grow old together. Couples need to show affection and attention to each other and live as if each day might be their last day on earth. Once today is gone, you never get it back. My spouse wasn't the perfect person but no one is. If I could have my spouse back today, I would take it in a heartbeat regardless of the faults. The grass might look greener on the other side of the fence but it's just artifical turf. It's always green cause it's not for real. Real love is when they know the good and the bad and love you anyways. Right now I don't see that happening. You need to get this other person out of your life and work on your marriage. You need to let your spouse know what it is that is lacking in your marriage that you are seeking from this other person. Life is short, there is no promise that you will have tomorrow!

Answer 2

To be honest the answer is a bit yes and no.
True love seems to be very rare nowadays,and the world love thrown around without true meaning.
If you truely love someone it is forever,and no-one can take the place of your true love.
So the person you married was not a true love to begin with,i'm sorry but thats the truth of the matter.
I found my true love 23yrs ago and no-one on this earth could replace her and what i feel for her.
We still have a very active love life,to the point my eldest children (18,19,20)complain to us why are'nt there's as good as ours.
You really need to take a long hard look at yourself and how you feel towards your partner and the other person.
Your marriage is already over to be honest as you have feelings for someone else.
You may love this other person only you can answer that,but you need to leave your marriage if you wish to persue a new relationship.
We all make mistake in life and relationships,be honest to yourself and your partner.
You cannot get back what was never really there to begin with,by this i mean love.
Look long and hard and make the choices you need to,all i can do is wish you luck for the future.

Answer 3

People are assuming you're a man but you have a female pic. I don't get it. Men get such a bad rap when we're not the ones doing the infidelity and other things of that nature most of the time anymore. It's an old old stereotype which no longer applies.

Yes it is possible to fall in love while you're married. However, you need to be responsible in how you behave while you are married. If you want to end the relationship, please do so before you do things with this guy. Don't get a divorce just because you have someone else to go to and making you leaving him easier. Leave him because you don't want to be in the marriage, which you can't possibly want to if you think you're in love with someone else....

Answer 4

i think you can still love your spouse and the other person because each one tickles you differently inside one does something the other doesnt and vice versa. some leave those doors open for other people to intrude you can be totally in love with your spouse have a silly lil argument then go to work one day and start talking to a co-worker that probably has a crush on you and then you start seeing all these things you have in common with this person and now the switch is on you started something you may or may not get out of and although you are still in love with your spouse you have illuminated a new light with this other person....

Answer 5

The answer is yes no matter if you are talking about your spouse or someone else, you can fall more in love with your spouse or you can not love them and fall in love with another person--But if you are in love with another person, please don't cheat-that only ends in so much more pain and disater then just facing the facts come forward and ending your marriage before you get to that level with the other person.

Answer 6

Yes it is, it means u are not in love with your spouse. So u should not have gotten married, now if u are talking about being in love with your spouse, yes to that as well cause as time goes on u see more and more u love about the person

Answer 7

Not sure if you are talking about with you spouse or someone else.
I'm sure it would be possible to fall in love with someone else depending on the circumstances but it means that lines must have been crossed that should not have been.

Answer 8

I'm not married but involved in a commited relationship and my view is that you CANNOT fall in love with another person when married(marriage is a commited relationship at another level!)..if anything you can only fall in love MORE with your partner. Cheers....

Answer 9

what has marriage got to do with it yes its a commitment of your love but were only human and yes people do fall out of love, some people on here need to get real, if you don't love your husband anymore then give him the respect and finish the relationship because its not fair on either of you, if you've fallen in love with someone else then so be it but don't cut of your nose to spite your face when all it might take is to rekindle what you did have with your husband, be sure of what you want ok.

Answer 10

Not if you are already married to the right person. You would not even be looking if you were. If you are not completely satisfied in your marriage, then you have to make the decision. Discuss it and try to put it right, or divorce so's you can both find new partners who give you everything you wish for.