I was in a relationship for 4 years and when I told my boyfriend I was pregnant - he ran like hell. He denied being the father and I had to take a blood test to prove he is the father. I just want to ask all the guys out there why? Why do you run? Why not face the responsibility together?
2007-06-25 23:53:08 · 10 answers · asked by Rissiepit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No
2007-06-25 23:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by Max 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That shows guys who do that aren't just afraid of responsibility but also its an indication of lack of love for their partners... commitment is too shallow which only meant for pleasure of having sex. To be a parents is a great blessing because its where we should be in the first place.
2007-06-26 00:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by mike sinatra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are like that! But it sounds to me like you got yourself a jerk there, who's not man enough to meet his responsibility.
BUT... the responsibility is also yours. With all of the numerous means of contraception out there, so easily available, you should have done something to prevent conception and pregnancy. Both of you are responsible. It takes two- to tango. Now... you have to find yourself an man, whom will have to accept another man's child :-( Good luck.
Now... you have to force your bum boyfriend to pay child support, and all of that madness. Gawd. Yeah, he's a dog, but you have to deal with this also. I'll pray for you and your baby, seriously. And again, good luck.
2007-06-26 05:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jonathan Rich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just it some guys are scared and don't want the responsibility and hey their just cowards really.
Thats my opion anyway i would never do that i want to ba a father one day
2007-06-25 23:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by cripplercar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really he run, this means that he didnt really loved you
When i found out that i was pregnant by boyfriend stood by me through it all and we are still together
2007-06-26 00:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys??? No, more like immature little boys playing at being a man. And failing miserably.
2007-06-25 23:59:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
crying whining nagging diapers blood throw up morning sickness no sleep cost of formula no more guy's nights out double shifts contractions
2007-06-25 23:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by YeLl_0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz most guys afraid of responsibility...they love to have pleasure but they dont like to oblige after that...so they run away after that..
2007-06-25 23:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by rusyl c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are not ready for the responsibility.. but then shouldn't be f*in around
2007-06-25 23:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by Novaman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they're stupid and afraid to comitt and grow up ...
2007-06-25 23:57:32 · answer #10 · answered by Rhyannonn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋