ive known this guy for quite a while and i stay over his place in his bed when we are out together.
he does "try it on" to take things further than kissing but i refuse. i do like this guy but we are not dating.
this has gone on for ages.
if he was just after sex wouldnt he have given up on me by now???
2007-06-25 22:47:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Whats the problem with having sex? Why are you sleeping with him if you don't want to have sex with him? Or you a passive object or do you have motives too?
2007-06-25 22:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by inmyname2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you put temptation in his way? You were hoping he will finally complete the task? The whole relationship may turn for the worst after he "gets" what he wants. Why take the risk. Develop the relationship and if finally both of you know that you are meant for each other, then it is never too late to enjoy a lifetime of great sex together (after marriage, of course). All the best and of course you can always pray and ask Jesus if he is the right guy for you and He will direct your path. Just speak to Jesus like you speak to your friend. He answers. All the best.
2007-06-25 22:56:35 · answer #2 · answered by Bill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful Hon, men are often intrigued by the "thrill" of the chase. He may be genuine, but male hormones can cause lies and deceipt. Patience often results in the breakdown of the female will and then "Wham bam, thank you mam". I know, I used to be one of those men before I started to appreciate women for what they are. They have so much more to offer than sex. The sooner more men learn this, the better.
2007-06-25 22:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by david t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do what you want with this guy but you need to have a talk with him....If you're not interested in having sex with him then why are you spending the night with him? If you just want someone to go out with and all that's cool but stop giving him mixed signals. If you're not ever going to sleep with him then you should tell him so.
2007-06-25 22:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by theanswerman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he hasn't given up on you by now cos he hasn't gotten what he wants,a guys who is not only after sex will take the pains to know you more and even propose marriage so don't let the fact that he is still around fool you,some guys can wait even if it means months and years,its the thrill
2007-06-26 00:48:57 · answer #5 · answered by vanpuj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey - a guy that lets you sleep in his bed and doesn't demand sex - accepts it when you say no???
Is this guy for real??
If he is then hang on to him - he's worth his weight in gold!
2007-06-25 22:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by h s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are just after the hunt and when they get what they want then it is over.
2007-06-25 22:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not dating then why are you in his bed kissing him is what I want to know... if you are not good enough to date and take out in public. then why are you waisting your time.... you need to get out of his bed and stay away...... he knows sooner or later you will give him.. and he is probally getting sex from others, so he does not need it from you...
2007-06-25 22:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by vault 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm sure he likes you, but you must also remember we will do whatever we have to tin order to get into a woman's pants, he will wait but don't expect him not to find sex somewhere else, it is your right to have sex or not, but don't expect someone else to wait, unless he is aware of your plan to not have sex. my guess is that unless he is really in love. he will eventually find someone to give him what he needs.
2007-06-25 22:55:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know. Also you may be giving hi something else he needs. He could be getting sexual needs filled elsewhere and using you for companion ship. Just get to know him better.
2007-06-25 22:52:51 · answer #10 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋