social workers?

Question

hi my 2 oldest kids are in foster care my son lives with my mum and my daughter lives with a foster carer i used to be a alcholic till 18 mnths ago i done a rehab programme im now trying to get my son back hes due to start over night stays next month and move in next year providing i meet there assesment requirements im with a new partner and hav a young baby now the worker has told my partner the reasons why my children were placed in care and shes also been trying to get her to not have my son living with us by saying that i will leave our baby son out and wont bother with him is this right is she aloud to discuss there records with my partner and shouldnt she be trying to bring familys together instead of tryin to stop it i need to no what grounds ive got if i was to complain and get her taking of as my kids social worker she also states shes got a soft spot for my daughter and does her best so i cant see her is this right sorry ive gone on a bit

vault im not a woman im the childrens father

Answer 1

as a recovering alcoholic you do still have a lot to prove to your family, but they are your family, the social worker is in breach of the most basic of care standards which insists on confidentiality. the behaviour you have undertaken in the past is just that "in the past" that is why an assessment is carried out, if it is expected that you remain a risk then appropriate measures will be put in place, but at no point should your social worker attempt to predict or advise your partner about future events!

Answer 2

first off you had your first two kids taken a way... so why the helllllll would you go get pregnant and get another bf. Your main goal is to get your kids back. I honestly do not think you have your childrens best interest in mind. what were you thinking getting pregnant when you already had two kids taken a way. you need to prove that you can stand on your own with out a man. you better be careful before they take your third child away. Obviously you signed a consent form so she could talk to him. Her job is to make sure the children are safe. You say you use to be an alcholic. once an alcholic always an alcholic. Your first priority should have been your two children, and not meeting a man and getting pregnant. If you cared about your other two children you would have been more concerned about getting them back then making another baby. You could not take care of the first two, so how do you plan on taking care of three children. I am not trying to be mean. But having that third child is a strik against you.... If you do not get your kids back you have no one to blame but yourself. If you really cared about those kids, you would not have been looking for a man and getting pregnant. Your main forcus should have been your two other children. sounds to me like your new man does not want anything to do with your other two children. so you need to choose between your bf and your kids. Social services can come in and remove your baby from your home.....You had a baby when you already had two children taken a way. not a smart thing to do. Sounds to me like you are only thinking of yourself and not your children who were taken away. I think your other two children would be better off in forster care and being addoptted by a family who put their needs first..... you put a man above your children. wrong thing to do.

Answer 3

I am a social worker. Are you totally sure that your partner is telling you the truth about what was discussed? You should calmly contact the social worker and ask if you can discuss the concerns. Most people are very wary of social workers-often we are trying to deal with difficult complex problems. I'm sure you can resolve this and look forward to a new chapter in your life. Good luck. xx

Answer 4

I need a social worker for my mum

Answer 5

You might want to discuss this with SS Dept. and see if you can have a different social worker assigned to your case.
But you better show them first you're on the up and up and following the program.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

sounds as though your trying your best to get yourself back on track ,your doing well to be off the beer fot 18 months ,your social worker should be supporting you not working against you ,give the citizens advice a call because they will know exactly who to get hold of to get this sorted ,pls do call them they really can help .good luck .x

Answer 8

If you believe you " USED TO BE AN ALCOHOLIC " then you're rehab programme has failed!
On that basis I think your SW is doing the right thing !
I don't believe your question has given us ALL the facts ?!

Answer 9

Try some punctuation next time. Complain to a supervisor.

Answer 10

Report her to her superior. Keep records of what she has been saying, when she said it, and who was present.