hes been at mt home twice repairing my pc & made it obvoius he wants to have sex. however says he doesnt have money to take me out, he was at a stag nite last week which must have cost him. He does seem genuine at times but i cant help feeling hes seening other woman, most probably for sex, as ive not slept with him yet. i get the feeling sometimes he avoids talking to me on msn & then hes back chatting away quite the thing, im sure hes not married or anything , but has never invited me to his house whats goin on ?????? help, ive known him for around 10 months & only met twice, ps says he cant make pre arrangements cause he doesnt know what he'll be doin from day to day, and doesnt want to let anyone down.
2007-06-25 23:12:47 · 14 answers · asked by carly16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is soooo married - why are you so sure he is not? He is most likely in a relationship of some kind. You can't go to his house, he won't take you out - come on. Move on.
2007-06-25 23:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
***STAY AWAY*** He wants you when he wants you, this man has probably got a wife and kids at home plus at least 5 other women he's got on tap. This is ALL about sex, come on you said you was in your 40's, so im guessing you are in some way vulnerable, depression etc, say to yourself 'i am worth more than sex, i am worth a mans love, i deserve a mans full attention' and do not de-grade yourself! The only reason you seem so sure he's not married is because you want to believe this man will eventually give you a full relationship, i will assure you that will never happen. No matter what people here say you will always do what u want to do and say 'everyone else is wrong' or 'they dont know the man im talking about' theyre all excuses!!! U desreve better than a selfish pig who gives men a bad name!! Good luck
2007-06-25 23:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by angel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I want to say is that yours is an example of an "uncertain relationship". We all desire the love and affection of the opposite sex and we do not always get it the way we want it. That is why there are marriages, because that gives you a certainty that no other affair or a date with someone can provide. I am not saying that you go ahead and marry him or do not have sex with him. All I am saying is that do not expect anything more than a temporary satisfaction. You give something, he gives something. Both of you satisfy one another and it might end right there. But if you want commitment, may be, this guy is not for you.
2007-06-25 23:20:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i could supply it yet another threat. i do no longer know approximately different adult adult males yet i know i'm getting apprehensive once I confer with a woman i like for the 1st time. My advice could be to speak on line much less and attempt chatting with him on the telephone extra, ideally until eventually now your first date. That way you 2 can ruin the ice and spot if there is chemistry there or no longer.
2016-10-03 03:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not married,he's got a girlfriend. Saying he can't make pre arrangements with you is disrespectful. Does he expect you to jump when he says he has the time?
Tell him you won't be wasting anymore time with him as he is obviously hiding something from you and disrespecting you.
2007-06-26 00:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, this guys obviously a Player! He's probably chatting to another half a dozen women as you. I think you know what to do, but are just afraid to do it.
2007-06-25 23:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by A True Gentleman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to go to his house?! I cannot believe it, sorry.
He is so strange, unpredictable and you met him on line. Come on. I would rather stay without sex then risking my security. I'd suggest you to stop meeting him and chatting to him.
You should not believe in all the things he writes to you.
2007-06-25 23:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by veceras 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is playing you....sounds like me....get rid now before he breaks your heart. First make him aware that u find something fishy with the situation and talk to him then on how he talks to you decide what ure gonna do
2007-06-25 23:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have met him twice and you think you know him?
You know absolutely nothing about this guy and you let him into your home?
Christ, I hope you haven't got young kids.
2007-06-25 23:21:24 · answer #9 · answered by ALLEN B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lifes hard in your forties -does my head in.
my policy has always been, if in doubt ...dont!
i have ignored this from time to time and been sorry.
Follow your instincts and you'll make the right choices.
good luck
2007-06-25 23:18:25 · answer #10 · answered by daftoldwoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋