Family & Relationships - 27 June 2007

we have offically been together for a month but we've been seeing eachother for 5 months. he says he loves me but we dont spen much time together cause he lives in nj and i live in ny. we text eachother all day and talk sometimes. we dont fight and have no problems other than the distance. so things seem great at the moment but i have met some one else and before i cheat on him i want to end it but dont know what to say when he asks me why. any suggestions without sounding cruel?

2007-06-27 09:48:07 · 13 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with this guy for a long time. People are telling me he's not right for me. My family, and others. Even my children (they're grown) said they didn't like him. He's a loner and doesn't like children, is totally helpless, but he is nice to me and I was in an abusive relationship for 21 years. I'm 49 and a realist. I know there aren't going to be a lot of guys out there, although people say that I am pretty and could get anyone, I know there are a lot of pretty women younger than me and I don't like to be in a horse race. I should risk trying, shouldn't I? He's the only guy I've dated since my divorce 8 years ago.

2007-06-27 09:47:35 · 21 answers · asked by lavenderbluelassie 3 in Singles & Dating

If you could change anything about your past, what would that be? and why?

2007-06-27 09:47:29 · 52 answers · asked by qasizan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-27 09:42:45 · 11 answers · asked by jessie a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I are short on money and want to get married, ,just the two of us. And my mother wants to be there and take us out for supper and we want it to be just about us. We are just getting married at our home, and we are not inviting anyone. We would like to have a reception or ceremony later on this year though.

2007-06-27 09:42:16 · 16 answers · asked by Adam G 1 in Weddings

I have this friend that i haven't talked for a while, ever since he asked me to go out with him but everytime that we plan to go out to the movies or just to see each other something always happen or sometimes i just forget. so he haven't called me and i don't want to call him either i want to wait until he calls me, cuz iam thinking hes mad. so i really don't know what to do. any ideas

2007-06-27 09:41:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is a better idea. I want to make tables a wedding reception either differents songs so when they play they have to dance or different places we have been together which is a lot!!

2007-06-27 09:34:31 · 15 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

So what if you don't want gifts for you wedding, because you have already lived together? What if your about to buy a house and want to get Home Depot gift cards or how about money for the honeymoon??

2007-06-27 09:32:23 · 20 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

My relationship is on the rocks, I tried to sit him down and talk our isses out and told him that if we couldent do that then I will still be with him I will just get my own place so I can have some space. Well talking our issues out didnt work, he just immeaditly took a list of them and says "I will change everything because i love you" This is the complete opisite of what i want for us. I want him to want to change for himself, not for me. So he ended up smothering me in I love you so much over the weekend that on sunday I told him I was going to stay living with him. Well as soon as i said that he changed back to his old ways and nothing is solved. So when he says " I love you ill do anything to be with you, ill change for you, i Love you, I just want to be with you." Are all of thoes things sincere? or is he just trying to get me to stay?
We are both 21 and have been toghether 8 months

2007-06-27 09:28:35 · 12 answers · asked by KT 4 in Singles & Dating

I was invited to an engagement party, and I have no clue what to give gift wise? A card, present,cash? help!

2007-06-27 09:28:13 · 9 answers · asked by NIKIPASS 2 in Weddings

i want to become a prostitute. I know that i am only 17yrs old but i think that this job will be good for me. i know you are probally thinking why dont you just go get a real job but prostitutes make twice the amount of money in just one night. Me and my homeboy have talked about this and he thinks that it is a great idea and he wants to split the money with me. im thinking of starting this job real soon because there is a place not to far from me were girls prostitute. Should i take this job??

2007-06-27 09:26:46 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 months. We started liking eachother for the past 8 months. So it feels that we've been together longer. I lost my V to him and have fallen in love with him. Unfortuatly he split from his ex girlfriend ,of two years, before we got together but im worried becasue he told me that he loved her. He says that he made a right decision with me and glad that he's with me than her. Wish i should be glad in a way but i cant help wondering if her still thinks about her.
Anyway, i have been spending alot of time with him, and im worried because he's just recently acting diffrent. Not bad... Just not as lovey dovey as he usually is. I wonder if it is becasue we have been with eachother 24/7 and need a little time for ourselves. I just hope he is not begining to get bored of me! so dose absence make the heart grow fonder?? Please help me! thankyou

2007-06-27 09:25:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have read where in order to be imancipated in Ohio you have to either do something with the armed forces or a lawful marriage. But how can you do that when you are underage anyways.

2007-06-27 09:24:00 · 3 answers · asked by joshyzgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i would like a christian man to be my best friend , someone i can grow older with. he must be kind and gentle and always be on my side

2007-06-27 09:21:42 · 5 answers · asked by BrenBren 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A hot temper. I don't lose my temper where I start throwing things or anything like that, but my wife says that when we argue she says I get hot. Hot like where I argue heavily for stupid things. It is ruining our marriage. How do I recognize this and control it?

2007-06-27 09:19:15 · 25 answers · asked by Mike 4 in Marriage & Divorce

So my wife, a very attractive 46 year old women, is tired of plucking her eyebrows and wants to get them tattoo'ed on. She says they are great and save time and look completely natural. I think they look like magic marker and are completely freakie.

I firmly believe in letting people make their own decisions and you could probably count on 2 fingers the number of times that I have insisted on something in the 19 years of our marriage. But this is yucky.

Any married people have advice or opinions on this?

2007-06-27 09:19:11 · 9 answers · asked by Alan 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My Dad like country- I could do Pop country but not straight out country (but if you know a good one, please suggested it and I'll check it out.) Any suggestion??
I like Carrie Underwood and Dolly Pardon if that gives you an idea of how country I am LOL.

2007-06-27 09:18:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Having a lady/ man that you spend a few hours a week just talking and hanging out with that spouse or other close to you know nothing about. Kind of develop a space with that person where nothing from you everday lives comes into play.

2007-06-27 09:18:28 · 31 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

What should I wear?

Should I pay or should we split it?

2007-06-27 09:16:50 · 25 answers · asked by Leonardo 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm making an assumption I'll likely connect with another person that's divorced, right? Quite frankly I'm terrified about dating, starting over again etc....Perhaps I'm looking for words of wisdom from other divorcees. Is there still a "stigma" attached when you tell someone you're divorced?

2007-06-27 09:15:43 · 19 answers · asked by Perplexed 2 in Marriage & Divorce

In a mature way, what's the hottest thing I can do to please my man?

2007-06-27 09:13:12 · 13 answers · asked by ladyinred 2 in Singles & Dating

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I am the one in the blue swimsuit

2007-06-27 09:10:46 · 34 answers · asked by Melanie Turner 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this one guy from my class. he has shaggy brown hair with brown eyes and he is athletic, and has a cuteeeeee smile. latley i have been thinking of him. i think i like him though. he pokes me in the hips, gives me funny nicknames, and sometimes we are chasing each other. i like him a lot, but he is so cute. i dont know if he likes me too, do u think he does by my perspective. during class he flirts with me a lot. i dont know though because i want to tell him how i feel. i like him a lot, and i want to go out with him. but what will i do? im really scared cause i dont know what he will say, and ESPECIALLY what my friends will think..advice please =]!

2007-06-27 09:07:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i just broke up because he thought that i was cheating on him which i wasn't. but he went through my Sidekick and found pictures of my and my bestfriend (which is a boy) when we were on vacation. and he flipped out.....HELP ME!!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-06-27 09:04:33 · 14 answers · asked by Love Karma™ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It's our 10th, so it's a special day in our trailer.

2007-06-27 09:03:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please share your love story whether you believe in it or not...

2007-06-27 09:03:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my fiance never really spends any time with me , and doesn't like to talk to me . but he seems overly happy when he says he's going to a strip club , he says he likes to look at them . he also looks at porn on the computer somewhere along the lines of 5 hours a day . when i come into the room though he clicks out of it real fast. i keep telling him that its not the porn that bothers me , but the fact that he closes it looks like he's hiding something a million times worse. anyway ... for some reason i become enraged inside when i can see that he enjoys looking at other girls ( in strip clubs ) over me ( not to sound conceited here, but i'm not ugly ) . its not the fact that he's looking at them, but the fact that he would rather see them than be with me , that bothers me so much . i know that every guy on earth goes to strip clubs and looks at porn for hours a day ( so he tells me ) .. so knowing that, is it actually me that needs to grow up and get over it ? i need some advice thnx

2007-06-27 09:00:16 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm working on the reception details and I'm looking for an excellent cater, and an unforgetable cake!!!

2007-06-27 08:59:10 · 8 answers · asked by bride465 1 in Weddings

2007-06-27 08:59:09 · 18 answers · asked by Ting 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-27 08:56:24 · 15 answers · asked by julie j 1 in Singles & Dating