Family & Relationships - 27 June 2007

you know the ones off the `star trek telly programe

SHLUCK FLUK UP.

2007-06-27 07:53:26 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok, I know most people say that all men look at it, that's just their nature, blah, blah, blah, but I think it is just crap and it is just an excuse to continue to be disrespectful toward their wives. I recently discovered my husband looking at it again and he has in the past and he knows my feeling on it, yet it is a slap in the face when he does it again. It just makes me feel so rejected, unwanted and undesirable. He still pays attention to me, but it hurts becuase I don't think he understands how much I am bothered by it even though I have told him. He says "we'll you act like I went out and slept with someone" That doesn't friggin matter, it is how it makes me feel about myself. He has agreed to counseling, but he says he want us to go together....should I even give him that option...is counceling together a good idea, or should he just go alone...I don't think he has an addiction per se (don't see that he views it even for hours at a time) but I am afraid it can develop into one

2007-06-27 07:50:45 · 50 answers · asked by ssgeorgia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've known my friend for about 7 years, met her as a freshman in high school.
We make out sometimes just for the hell of it and yeah we already did "IT".
I dont consider her my girlfriend, we dont hold hands, no public affection or anything like that. she's attractive yeah but i think she's always going to be my best-friend. We're both 21. Do you have a relationship like this? or have you ever had something like this in the past?

for those of u thinking she's a friend with benefits or a fling..NO its not like that!

2007-06-27 07:50:18 · 11 answers · asked by EliTe 4 in Singles & Dating

It's my wedding dress. It is an Oleg Cassani from Davids Bridal.When I tried on the dress I absolutly loved it. But now Im having second thoughts. Im worried its not formal or extravagant enough. Its a champaigne color. I tried on white ones but it didnt look good with my skin tone. I am asian & italian,my skin is more on the tan/olive side. It looked better with my complexion.



http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns_detail.jsp?stid=1671&prodgroup=92

2007-06-27 07:48:13 · 29 answers · asked by Chubbs 1 in Weddings

2007-06-27 07:46:02 · 36 answers · asked by Serengetti 3 in Singles & Dating

It happened to me . I was just wondering if anyone else experienced the same.

2007-06-27 07:43:28 · 6 answers · asked by ScorpionOfLove 2 in Family

My sister’s husband loves her to death does everything for her, but my sister caught him watching porno at his shop, at home. He told her that he will stop doing that but a week ago she found it in the house computer. He swore to her that it wasn’t him and that it was his friends. Last week she was on the computer it wasn’t there. She is a really good computer person so she knows how to do all those things. Why would he do that?? He has never cheated on her and is always with her except when she is at work. Why??

2007-06-27 07:42:18 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

been seeing this guy for past few months, since we met he has persued me & wanted to move fast into a commitment & I held off saying I'd like to be friends for a while...recently, I started reciprocating to him & we went on a couple of dates & got quite cozy & all..i ve met his friends & they think we are going out.....now, i went on vacation for 2 weeks & came back, since then, i met him a couple of times & he's been really wierd, not like his usual self, then yesterday we met & in the middle of a convo he said he's been thinking about us & where we are going & we should be friends! i was surprised, it was like he s saying i m the one behind him than vice versa! i didn t want to make a big deal so i said yes we are friends only but i want to know Y the sudden change of heart? i met his friends a few days ago maybe someone said something to him? should i talk to him about it? I don t want to lose this now that i m also feeling some attraction, can i get him back without sounding needy?

2007-06-27 07:42:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do people hate men hitting women? They want equal opportunities and all that poo so why do people worry about hitting them, women can give as good as they get so a good slap want do them any harm. My mum always stopped with my dad and he gets nasty to her when he's drunk and I always see people dragging there girlfriends home by the hair around my area. I don't she no wrong in it, its just like hitting a man. My dad says women today are to mouthy as they don't have firm men like the old days.

2007-06-27 07:41:29 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it took me about 3 years to even think of going out with a guy again, I met three people since then, but all have ended and everyone around me seem to be either divorced or unhappily married and envy me for being free!!! Right now I am happy to be alone after breaking up with the last guy, and feel cynical about the whole marriage thing, how about you divorced guys and girls out there?

2007-06-27 07:40:04 · 9 answers · asked by piano19 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ladies,
seems to be that the guy always wants sex more that the woman does., but i that is not always true...

when your husband makes advances, do you cringe or go with?
if you cringe, what are some of the reasons why? what are you missing from your husband ? if anything.
does this build resentment, and it is the pent up resentment that prevents you from feeling lustfull towards your husband?

2007-06-27 07:38:25 · 28 answers · asked by Shake-Zula 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have already repoted this abuse to 2 or 3 different areas of Yahoo and was last told this is the correct place to report abuse.It was sent to me through email.I was chatting with a Kelly Hutton whom I thought was a female, and I had never chatted with before she confefermed this, because the first thing she typed was had we ever chatted before?I said no.We chatted for a bit and she asked for a photo.My address book only took down her screen name when it excepted her.So I asked her for her email address she kept beating around the bush asking me if I had file share, I told her I didn't know how to use it,so I asked for her address one last time and she replied are you open minded and I typed yes very open minded. I thought she was hesitating to give me her email address cause it was a sexual name or something but then she typed just reply back with a photo of you so I went to my email;there was an email from kelly hutton,titled:doggy fun. Its disgusting I'm not suppose to post.So help

2007-06-27 07:37:47 · 3 answers · asked by lcherriesr@sbcglobal.net 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know this is wrong, but i think he is exactly the man i've been looking for all these years! He is very cute, hard working, has a lot of $$$, and he is such a nice person! And sometimes when i talk to him i think he likes me, but i don't know...maybe it's just my imagination lol. Obviously i cannot date him, but what can i do to forget about him? i see them everyday lol!

2007-06-27 07:37:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in my early 20's and pursuing a college degree. In my culture most people are married and have at least one child by the age of 20. However, I came here when I was a few years old and have a completely different mentality than my family members. I don't feel anywhere near being ready to get married and start a family. I want to finish college, work on my career, and then, once I feel that I am independent and completely self sufficient, focus on marriage and kids. My parents tell me that I am being selfish by pushing off having kids at a later time - they say that it's much better for kids to have young parents who can relate to them more and have a longer life span which translates to having parents around for a longer time. Last week during a family gathering, my aunt said that I could have had two kids by now. I'm feeling very pressured to pace myself, but I don't feel like I am ready.

2007-06-27 07:36:58 · 21 answers · asked by ♥ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He always looks for me. When I'm driving he pops out of nowhere.

2007-06-27 07:36:44 · 22 answers · asked by OO7 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was IMing one of my friends a few weeks ago and we got in a fight. I asked her a question and she wouldn’t answer my question but kept saying “llama.” I tried not to get disturbed and I ended up saying “Could you please just answer before I get ticked off? If you don’t want to answer just say you don’t want to answer!” And she ended up saying: “You know what? You get mad about nothing! I’m even not going to be your friend anymore.”

The fact is I wasn’t getting mad at her. I asked nicely and she blew up. I have tried to talk to her about it. She’s so d!nm stubborn that she just gets mad at me when I try to explain it to her. Its very immature. Shes also telling me I’m doing this or that and I tell her that she shouldn’t judge someone, but she’s still acting like an idiot. I feel bad because I liked to be around her and she was one of my best friends. How can I cope with this? What should I do? I don’t want to stalk her and I’ve waited at least 3 weeks and she’s said nothing to me.

2007-06-27 07:32:25 · 9 answers · asked by abnm 3 in Friends

My daughter is getting married in October. Her style is very simple...she's not into frills, fluffs or lace.

We have had quite a bit of trouble finding a suitable veil, most particularly because the length she wants is not available anywhere (she wants it to be longer than her shoulder length hair, but short enough that it doesn't hit the top of her strapless gown).

That said, we plan on me making it...Not too hard, really, considering she is looking for something simple. I made my own when I got married years ago, so I'm familiar with the basics.

My question is this:
Considering she doesn't want any flowers or lace on it, how do you recommend finishing the edge of the tulle? I have recommended miniature (fake) pearls, but she's not excited about that, either. Her dress is white with a black sash...Would a black ribbon be too much? Ideas?

2007-06-27 07:31:34 · 27 answers · asked by abfabmom1 7 in Weddings

my fiancees coo coo side of the family! My fiancee and i are christian and we avoid secular music, also we dont drink so at our wedding we wont have secular music nor alcaholic drinks. I feel like i dont want to invite them because they are going to be discriminating or causing drama and thats the least thing that i want on one the most important day of my life!

2007-06-27 07:31:14 · 22 answers · asked by Haddasah 2 in Weddings

is that all about?

It was NOT the people of the church.

At the reception, I overheard people saying that it was the bride and groom's idea to have a "collection" during the ceremony just to make sure they got enough money in gifts and what not to cover the entire wedding.

Of course, people were so stunned, they just dug in their pockets and pulled out money.

Has anyone ever HEARD of this?

How rude is this?

2007-06-27 07:29:27 · 29 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Weddings

What would be some cute ways to wear my hair for my own wedding? My hair is straight brown, w/no bangs just to the bottom of my shoulders. No plans on cutting it either.

2007-06-27 07:28:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-27 07:27:45 · 38 answers · asked by Chena 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok well i went to a meeting at my high school about applying for colleges this year and the diffrent things we can get involved in at college. Well of course sororities and fraternities came up. I told my dad that being in a sororitie was something that i really wanted to do when i got to college and he told me that are nothing but a scam because all they want is your money. Is this true? It doesent seem that way to be but idk. So is that true?
And i dont been to offend anybody by what my dad said.

2007-06-27 07:27:23 · 3 answers · asked by southern belle <3 4 in Friends

I decided to call her to get the real scoop on what really happened becasue there is always 2 sides to any story. She was afraid to talk to me at first but I assured her that i just wanted to know how she got involved with him. We ended up talking and she told me her side-- i want to believe her and i know when i talk to my husband he will deny her side becasue i do feel he was leading this affair from what she told me. What should i do? i did forgive him but i feel he did not tell me the real side of what he did.

2007-06-27 07:25:09 · 27 answers · asked by ubetalkin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Quick history: I was in an abusive relationship 2 yrs ago(physically and emotionally) My family went thru a lot of therapy to help me out. Fast Forward today: The other day my mom came home and my boyfriend and I were arguing. She ended up coming into my room to see if I was ok because things sounded heated and he was slamming his hand on my desk and she was worried about me. She was really angry at him and called him an a**hole. She said that he was being mean, demeaning,intimidating and bullying me. I said I was used to it, thats just the way he talks and I also said some not too nice things to him. Now he doesn't want to come over and said my mom should not have "disrespected" him that way. My mother told him she was sorry for calling him a bad name, but he still hasn't come back over. Do you think my mom over reacted? She said she was freaked because of my past abusive relationship and wasn't going to let anyone do that again.

2007-06-27 07:22:27 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my abusive ex a year ago yet it still hurts. I have completely cut him off but I am still angry at the way he treated me and sometimes, I feel proud to have walked away with my head high. But sometimes, I feel like a loser cause he abused me and I think that maybe he's become a good person for another girl. How do I just let go of my anger?

2007-06-27 07:20:18 · 3 answers · asked by Drivenbydesire 1 in Singles & Dating

The world has changed, women are more independent, and gender-roles in the general relationship seem to have been diluted due to many factors. I need your sincere beliefs on the following please.

WOMEN:
---- If you are a working wife who earns an EQUAL OR GREATER SALARY than your husband, do you think that your husband should still pay the majority or all of the bills as the man in the relationship or would you split it 50-50? Or would you base the bill contribution on who makes the highest income, even if it's you? Why or why not?

MEN:
----Would you rather marry a woman who is a stay-home wife or has a low paying job? Why or why not?

---If your wife earns a salary of EQUAL OR MORE than you do, would you expect or desire for her to contribute to any bills? If so, how much: 50-50 or depending on who makes the most?

2007-06-27 07:18:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am a wife and mother for two kids i am 35 and i love my husband but i lost interest in sex with him i always imagin myself with onother men , but i do love my husband and respect him but our relation is turned to be like friends brothers , i dont know . is that could be a reason to separate

2007-06-27 07:18:48 · 31 answers · asked by loddy hana 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Will someone please tell me how this whole "friends with benefits" thing came into existence and how it works? I have only recently returned from overseas and I was gone a long time. So I feel a sense of cultural deprivation because I don't know about this phenomena. From what I understand by piecing it together, it is basically like a sex buddy, right? But what else does it entail? Is there ever an emotional commitment that evolves? Is that the whole idea? Is it for single people only? Young people? Do married people have friends with benefits? If you are a person who has a friend with benefits, please tell me what it is like. I really want to know.

2007-06-27 07:17:53 · 22 answers · asked by John Timothy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, I was on a website (askmen.com) and it said that the U.K. is considering this move. What do you think?

here's the article...you have to scroll down a bit.

http://www.askmen.com/blogs/

2007-06-27 07:17:40 · 19 answers · asked by Juan R 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean the way he thinks and acts and he doesn't even look like a 15 years old boy...u can't imaginge he's 15 if u meet him and talk to him...I don't think about sex but i really do love him... he says we can get married in 5 years...i reallly adore him ...what do u think

2007-06-27 07:17:34 · 53 answers · asked by LiLi 1 in Marriage & Divorce