2007-06-27 07:46:02 · 36 answers · asked by Serengetti 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not really i had sex with my ex husband on our first date and we were married for ten years. The loss of interest comes from ignorance or the fact they never really liked YOU, just your body.
2007-06-27 07:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by † Seeker of Truth † 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Absolutely, she might have the personality that you like, but might not be what you want when you two are in bed together. This is natural and you should not feel alone about it. But if you still like her and knows she likes you still; keep the relationship at the friendship point. Unless she interferes in your meeting with other girls, then you can ditch her. Again you are doing a normal thing that people will go through. Yet the best bet if you do get another girlfriend / sex partner is to leave this one behind cause the new girl would not really like to see the last girl you had sex with you still be hanging around cause she would feel depress or emotionally withdrawn because of your commitment issues to her. That’s why you and she would want to refrain from saying, “this is my ex”. That part of a statement is a stab to the face to her. Some girls might handle it better, but some might just ditch you. But again, you’re doing a normal thing during the dating phase, and will make the right choices when they come.
2016-05-17 15:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men start to loose interest in a woman after they have sex (unless they are really good). it doesn't matter how many dates there is before you give it up.
So if you enjoy sex, and don't mind giving it up on the first date.. thats up to you... why care about what they think if you are willing?
If a guy is just out there "dating" he will only show enough interest in a girl until her clothes come off. After that.. it depends on if he enjoyed her and if she enjoyed him. You can talk about your dog fluffy and he will listen (while wondering what you look like topless) for hours if he thinks he has a chance to get you into bed.
the really good thing though.. is after the deed is done.. if he is looking for a relationship he will honestly start showing more interest in you so that you will continue to put out of him... its just the way most guys work.
2007-06-27 07:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times yes...but not always. I had sex on the first date with a girl, and I lost no respect for her and I like her just as I did before. I think a lot of the challenge is lost so yeah there is some lost in attraction. But if the guy likes the girl for HER and not just her sexuality, then it isn't an issue.
2007-06-27 07:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by Warrior-Scholar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the man, if he really likes you this act will bring you closer together. If he just wanted the bootie and that's it of course he's going to lose interest. The best thing is to wait don't give it up to quickly ,see how a guy is before you go all the way.
2007-06-27 07:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by A Friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a no brainer. Yes.
Would a man lose interest in his X-Box game if he won the first time he played the game? Yes. He would then look for a new game. Think of it in terms of dude behavior.
Men like to feel like they are winning you over - not like they already won right after meeting you.
2007-06-27 07:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by Challah back Girl... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking for a "relationship", hold off on sex until at least the third or fourth date. If you have sex with a guy on the first date, more than likely it will be the last date. He will be satisfied that he scored and moveon to the next girl.
2007-06-27 07:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he does then he is immature. Should women lose interest in a man if he puts out on the first date?
2007-06-27 07:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No...This is the woman that he decides to marry and have lots of kids with because he feels that he must be the only one that she has slept with on the first date. He really respects her so much
2007-06-27 07:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say lose interest but I think they won't take them seriously, that will be all that they want. If you give it up like that you probably give it up to anybody like that and that's not the type of chick they wanna take home to meet mom.
2007-06-27 07:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by 2sexy 2cute 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy. in my case, i lose interest if i don't get any on the first date. i believe if great sex isn't there, then nothing is.
2007-06-27 07:51:00 · answer #11 · answered by idrinkway2much 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋